| The issue isn’t about skin color, it’s about culture. Because light-skinned people have
historically
pushed
dark-skinned people down not just in the US, or even just in European-descended cultures, look
at
India’s
Caste system, being proud of being light skinned, especially of being a white person, includes
an
implication that you’re either proud of unaware of how your people have behaved throughout
history. With
darker-skinned people, it’s reclamation of power over themselves that they never had, but with
light-skinned
people the implication is that pride over your race harks back to a day when that meant you were
better
|
it’s because of the history of oppression between the two groups. |
the issue is n't about skin color , but it 's about culture , skin color skinned , skin color ,
skin
skin ,
culture , india 's caste system , light-skinned people have behaved throughout history . |
the issue is n't about skin color , it 's about culture . india 's caste system is pushed
dark-skinned
people down not just in the us , and skin color . |
It’s about culture, not skin color. |
It's not about skin color, it’s about culture. |
The issue is n’t about skin color , being proud of being a white person , is that pride over
your race
harks
back to a day when that meant you were better . |
| It's an awful description. Here's my crack at a better one So basically, twenty years before the
story
takes
place, human settlers arrived on the planet where the story takes place, which everyone calls
New World.
Unfortunately, New World was originally inhabited by an alien species called the Spackle. Of
course, the
humans and Spackle almost immediately got into a war, with the Spackle fighting their enemies
using
biological warfare. The humans eventually won, but not before the Spackle released one germ
which made
all
humans telepathic, and another which killed all the women and most of the men. The last few
hundred
survivors are now stuck in one small village that's slowly dying since no one can have any kids.
Fourteen
years later, Todd Hewit, the last boy to be born before all the women died, is about to
officially
become a
man. Then, a month before Todd's birthday his parents suddenly tell him he has to run away from
the
village.
Turns out that even in a world where everyone's telepathic, lots of people are keeping secrets
|
the books are pretty solid coming-of-age stories, with lots of deep stuff about war, racism and
sexism,
and
grief. I really enjoyed them as a teen, and think they still hold up pretty well. |
todd hewit is about to officially become a man . todd hewit , lots of people are keeping secrets
. todd
hewit turns out to be born before all the women died . |
fourteen years later , the last boy to be born before all the women died in a world where
everyone 's
telepathic , lots of people are keeping secrets . |
Humans and Spackle killed all the women, and everyone's telepathic. |
The story takes place in a new world where everyone is telepathic and everyone dies. |
New World was inhabited by an alien species called the Spackle . The last few hundred survivors
are
stuck in
one small village that 's slowly dying since no one can have any kids . |
| I met this guy on a dating website for BDSM and we immediately clicked. He's not super
attractive, he's
average but his personality is a match made in a heaven. He says he lives in LA but is from
London. We
eventually exchanged phone numbers and I later asked if we could facetime and problems started
to
emerge. He
would say that he's too insecure to facetime or video call and being insecure myself, I was
understanding.
He's sent me voice memos so I know that he is a man but we have never talked on the phone and
anytime I
ask
him to play Overwatch or Rainbow with me he comes up with an excuse. He sold his xbox or his
graphics
card
is out of date. I also searched his and his siblings names on google and nothing came up. None
of his
photos
come up when I reverse search them so all I have left to go off of is his phone number.
Everytime I find
a
website or an app that is for reverse searching phone numbers it only works for American
numbers, so I
am
kind of at a loss |
Are there any appswebsites that are made for reverse searching British phone numbers? |
i met a guy on a dating website for bdsm and we immediately clicked . everytime i find a website
or an
app
that is for reverse searching phone numbers it only works for american numbers . |
i met a guy on a dating website for reverse searching phone numbers , so i find a website or an
app that
is
for american numbers phone numbers . |
Met a guy on a dating website, exchanged phone numbers, never talked on the phone. |
I met a guy on a BDSM dating website and we clicked instantly. He is insecure and I don't know
why. |
I find a website or an app that is for reverse searching phone numbers it only works for
American
numbers ,
so I am kind of at a loss of his phone number . |
| I met this girl five years ago. Love at first sight. She quickly became pregnant at 3 months in
and I
stuck
with it. I didn't regret it one bit and I had an excellent life with her until two days ago. The
pregnancy
went well and we were with a son not too long after. After our child was born, her parents kind
of
coddled
us. They bought us a house, each of us a car, the whole nine. For these five years, life has
been great
and
I am never unappreciative of the opportunity I've been given. Two days ago, my girlfriend was in
the
kitchen
and her phone went off in the other room. She asked me to grab it and check who it was from. It
was from
Tim, and the short blurb on her homescreen was something along the lines of our child is so
handsome. I
didn't open her phone to read the full message, but I was kind of hit pretty hard. A little
while later
I
asked my girlfriend who she was texting back and forth and she said Tim's name and I asked her a
bit
more
about him. She was fairly defensive, but not very obviously why are you so curious of a sudden,
etc etc
but
still gave a little bit of info. I dropped it but next time she went to the washroom, I snooped
a little
just to see their conversation, only to find the convo deleted. I don't know what to think. Part
of me
is
trying to rationalize maybe it was a typo, i.e. your child is so handsome, but at the same time
I wonder
why
she deleted the conversation. Allegedly when our child was conceived, she was in another city
visiting a
friend. It's something like the conception window was 80 when she was away and 20 when she
returned. She
did
tell me where Tim lived, and it's not where she visited. In the end I just want the truth but I
don't
know
how to approach it. I love my son even if he isn't blood, but I don't want to live in a
relationship
based
under a lie and unfaithfulness. My situation is complicated because of the house, cars, etc, all
of it
technically in her parents name. If we were to split, my living arrangement would become
uncertain |
my girlfriend and my child might not be biologically mine if we break up, I might be without
home for a
time. |
i do n't know how to approach it , but it 's not where she visited . tim lived , tim lived , tim
lived ,
tim
lived visited years ago . |
i met a girl five years ago , i do n't know how to deal with tim lived , and it 's not where she
is tell
me
where tim lived . |
My girlfriend's phone went off in the other room and she deleted the conversation. |
I found out my girlfriend was pregnant at the time. |
I met this girl five years ago . She said Tim 's name and I do n't know how to approach it . I
love my
son
even if he is n't blood . |
| The meme is just a way for people to disregard an inconvenient truth or opinion they may not
want to
give
credence. If one devalues the phrase we live in a society, it's taking away a powerful thought
provoking
phrase that forces people to look at an issue from a distance or question common behaviors or
thinking.
Obviously there are going to be arguments where this phrase is exploited to manipulate people
with
gibberish, but it's also used constructively. Devalue the phrase itself and it only does harm to
civil
discourse. Also, what replaces it that is nearly as convenient when criticizing the societies we
live in
|
It's just trolls being intellectual trying to shut down conversations to win, because that's the
point
nowadays. |
the meme is just a way for people to disregard an inconvenient truth or opinion they may not
want to
give
credence . obviously there is going to be arguments where this phrase is exploited to manipulate
people
.
|
the meme is just a way for people to disregard an inconvenient truth or opinion they may not
want to
give
credence , but it 's not exploited to manipulate people with gibberish . |
The meme is a way for people to disregard an inconvenient truth or opinion they may not want to
give
credence. |
The meme is just a way for people to ignore facts. |
The meme is just a way for people to look at an issue from a distance or thinking they may not
want to
give
credence . Also , I 'm not saying that this phrase is exploited . |
| From the very beginning, he has always done the pursuing. It has been a month of dating now. I
find that
I
am always the one initiating conversations throughout the week. And he's the one initiating
dates. So
basically I will text him, starting a conversation. Then, he will usually ask me when I am free
next and
then plan a date. We'll continue to text up until said date and then communication dies
off.until I text
him
again. I don't get it. Should I start initiating more dates? He is a busy guy always working, so
I
understand why he wouldn't initiate more conversations, and some people are not big texters. And
he will
always respond to my texts, but never quickly, which also allows me to believe he is busy
throughout the
workday. The other anxious part of me thinks he's just not into me. But it doesn't align with
his
behavior
when we do hang out. I don't know. Should I stop initiating conversations? I feel like I should
ask him
out
on a date for once.but can't do that if I don't start up a conversation right? Moral of the
story Dating
is
hard for overthinkers |
I am always initiating texting conversations with the guy I am seeing. He is always initiating
hang out
and
planning dates. Should I start initiating dates as well? I feel like if I don't text him, I
won't hear
from
him. |
should i stop initiating conversations ? should i ask him out on a date ? he is a busy guy and i
feel
like i
should ask him out on a date date . |
i feel like i should ask him out on a date , and some people are a busy guy always working , so
i
understand
why he would i start initiating conversations . |
I am always the one initiating conversations throughout the week. He always initiates more
conversations.
Should I stop initiating conversations? |
Dating a guy for a month. He always initiates conversations throughout the week. Should I stop
initiating
conversations? |
I feel like I should ask him out on a date for once.but ca n't do that if I do n't start up a
conversation
right now . Should I stop initiating conversations ? |
| Hey rrelationshipadvice! I'm currently in my twenties and around two years ago I came out of a
three
year
relationship which came to a mutual break up. I came for my first year in university two years
ago.
Around
2-3 months into school, I met this girl. I really fell for her, we hung out a lot and I guess
dated
without
the idea of being bfgf. She was very busy though for the rest of the post I'll call her Y, so we
called
it.
Y and I dated for around one and a half months. Shortly after I was practically in a one year
relationship
with another someone who we just weren't meant to be. I ended it around 7 weeks ago. But even
though I
was
in the relationship for a year I thought many times of how much I miss the girl that I first met
busy
one so
around 5 weeks ago I sent Y a text explaining how I really missed having Y in my life, and I
really
wanted
to be friends with Y. I went out on a friendly date with Y yesterday and I instantly caught
feelings
again.
She was being very flirty, however when I dropped her off we didn't kiss or anything like
before. She
just
asked me if I wanted to hangout today, again. Obviously, having a crush on her - I said yes. I
feel this
crazy chemistry and compatibility with her. What the hell do I do, I really enjoy being around
her. I've
never had conversations with people like I have with her. We can talk about anything and
everything.
Does
anyone have any advice on what I should do before I do something stupid |
I dated girl 'X' for a year which ended up being a relationship where we just weren't right for
each
other.
Before X I dated Y, and while I was dating X, I always thought about how much I miss Y. Once X
and I
broke
up, I texted Y, we went on a date and now I have a crush on her again. What do? |
having a crush on my chemistry and compatibility with her . what do i do before i do something
stupid ?
what
do i do , what should i do ? |
having a crush on her , compatibility with her , i said yes , hell do n't know i do something
stupid . i
really want to do before what to do ? |
I have a crush on a girl that I really like, but I don't know what to do. |
I have a crush on a girl I dated for a year and a half and I don't know what to do. |
I came out of a three year relationship with a girl who we just were n't meant to be . She asked
me if I
wanted to hangout today . What do I do ? |
| This will probably get lost in the thread, but I was in another state. I F met a guy on Xbox
Live
playing
Halo 3. We connected on MySpace and Skype at the time. We didn't reconnect until five years
later when
he
asked me to play Halo 4. After playing almost every day for eight months, we made plans for me
to flight
out
to his house. I basically flew from Washington to California to lose my virginity. Although it
turned
into a
long term relationship. We broke up a few years later. He didn't put in the effort to live
together, I
went
back to college to get my bachelors, and distance got in the way. We broke up a few years. I
still miss
him
|
Flew two states away to lose my virginity. |
i f met a guy on xbox live playing halo 3 and flew from washington to lose my virginity . he
asked me to
play halo 4 . washington to california . |
i f met a guy on xbox live playing halo 3 . i flew from washington to lose my virginity and halo
4 . we
did
n't reconnect until five years later . |
Met a guy on Xbox Live, we broke up a few years later. |
I lost my virginity to a guy on Xbox Live. |
F met a guy on Xbox 3 , broke up a few years later , went back to college to get my bachelors ,
distance
got
in the way to live together . |
| So the place I buy my beans from is a small coffee shop in the center of the city but has a big
selection of
espresso coffee beans and filter coffee beans. Two weeks ago I went to buy my usual amount but
the guy
that
usually serves me wasn't there and I was served by another guy I have never seen before. Now,
when they
pour
the beans in the bag, they immediately seal it with a heat sealing machine. The new guy did
exactly
that, I
paid and left. Fast forward two weeks later I went to open that sealed bag and it turns out the
guy did
not
seal it at all. The heat sealing machine wasn't even working. I made coffee with these beans and
it has
no
taste and no scent left at all. I'm thinking of talking it back to them and informing them of
the
situation.
Keep in mind I have been a customer for almost a year now and I buy all my coffee from them.
What should
I
do |
The coffee shop didn't seal the coffee beans in the bag and now two weeks later I found it open
and the
espresso has no taste and no scent. Should i take it back and demand fresh coffee? |
the heat sealing machine is n't working . so the place i buy my beans from is a small coffee
shop in the
center of the city . espresso coffee beans and filter coffee beans . |
made coffee shop in the center of the city but has a big selection of espresso coffee beans and
filter
coffee beans . i made my beans from is a small coffee shop . |
I bought my coffee beans from a coffee shop two weeks ago and they didn't seal it at all. |
Bought coffee from a small coffee shop, two weeks later they seal it with a seal machine. |
I went to open that sealed bag and it turns out the guy did not seal it at all . I 'm thinking
of
talking it
back to them and it has no taste . |
| I installed Linux on a desktop that a family member uses almost exclusively for light browsing
and
email.
It's similar enough to Windows that they really didn't have any hurdles making the switch for
this
limited
use case. It's been more reliable esp on this ultra small dell with only 32gb of drive space,
which
windows
10 destroyed lol, much faster, and generally a better experience overall, except for wireless
being
slightly
flaky it occasionally drops and doesn't like to auto-reconnect even though it is set to do so,
but they
know
how to restartreconnect it so it's not a big deal. If it becomes too much of an issue I'll use
an
extender
wethernet or something similar |
The only way I got my family to use Linux is to set it up for them myself, but generally no
complaints
from
them about it- and actually some compliments mostly regarding the speed |
it 's not a big deal , but it is set to do so , except for wireless being slightly flaky it
occasionally
drops and does n't like to auto-reconnect . |
it 's not a big deal , but they know how to restartreconnect the switch for this limited use
case . dell
with only 32gb of drive space , and generally a better experience . |
Windows 10 is better for light browsing and email. |
It's a good choice for a family member, but not for everyone. |
I installed Linux on a desktop that a family member uses almost exclusively for light browsing
and email
.
It 's similar enough to do so , but they know how to restartreconnect it so it 's not a big deal
. |
| A while ago my best friend told me she wanted to die because her and the SO26M got into an
argument that
basically forced her into an ultimatum along these words of “If you don’t get your act together,
we will
break up”. Note They go through break up make ups a lot but her suicidal thoughts are recent.
Now, imo I
think he had every right to put a conclusion on their relationship in such a way. I say that
because she
literally scrutinizes his EVERY move whether on social media, talking to his friends, or just
walking to
the
deli forcing him to feel very smothered and choked up. She is INSANELY insecure. Although that’s
probably
not the problem he has w her, it’s more so she doesn’t have ambition for her future at all AND
too
depressed
to work on herself to become the best version of herself. That is the root of my vent, her
having no
ambition but to only become a human leech adhered to him for the rest of her days. I care about
her a
lot
and I’m always there to listen to her every word but I am becoming more and more disgusted with
her
limited
outlook on life. I mean . no one is born to please someone else. Your parents brought you into
the world
so
that you can take it by the storm, learn about your surroundings, and develop your own person.
If you
have
nothing of your own to live on to talk about and your only thoughts and actions are geared
towards the
man
you’ve been with for 8 years . what does life mean for them? I really want to know. Thankfully,
she
never
went through w it and they're back together but what can I do to be a better friend and push her
to FIND
HERSELF? Or is it not my position to do so? Someone please offer me rationale about her
non-existent
relationship w herself because I’ve never been madly in love w someone to that point so I really
need
perspective anecdotes |
My best friend has no ambition for herself and lives to please her boyfriend, what can I do to
help her
appreciate life and those around her not the bf? |
if you do n't get your act together , we will break up with her and push her to find herself .
if you
want
to be a better friend , do n't do it . |
my best friend told me she wanted to die because i 've never been madly in love with her
non-existent
relationship and they 're back together . what can i do ? |
My best friend told me she wanted to die because she and the SO26M got into an argument that
forced her
into
an ultimatum along these words of “If you don’t get your act together” then we will break up.
|
My best friend was forced into an ultimatum by her SO to kill herself. I don't know what to do.
|
My best friend told me she wanted to die because her and the SO26 M got into an argument that
basically
forced her into an ultimatum along these words of “ If you do n’t get your act together , we
will break
up
make ups for the rest of her days . |
| I grew up working with my dad doing construction. If you sat on a bucket. BAM whatever was in
his hands
hit
you in the fucking face. I say this and it’s probably because he broke me at a young age but I
appreciate
what he did when I was a kid. I knew how to shake adults hands and look them square in the eye
as a kid
and
I know multiple trades. I haven’t talked to My dad in years but he made me into a great man. In
retrospect I
appreciate him teaching me humility and respect |
TEACH YOUR KIDS HOW TO SHAKE A MANS HAND AND LOOK SOMEONE IN THE EYE. |
i have n't talked to my dad in years but he made me into a great man . dad broke me at a young
age . dad
did
n't up working with my dad . |
i have n't talked to my dad in years but he made me into a young age but i appreciate what he
did when i
was
a kid and construction . |
My dad made me into a great man. |
My dad hit me in the face with a bucket. |
My dad broke me at a young age and I appreciate what he did when I was a kid . I do n't know how
to deal
with this . Edit : spelling |
| Hi there! I'm hoping to a bit of advice, I searched the subreddit already and didn't see a
specific
answer
for this I'm 25, ADHD severe, mixed type, medicated and taking summer classes for the first time
starting in
May. The problem is I can't figure out what is an appropriate course load. The sessions are 5
and 6
weeks
long, and I like many of you, I'm sure am a sprinter, not an endurance type of student, so I
think the
short
intense bursts might work for me. In a perfect world I'd power through 5 courses each session,
but
apparently thats insane. Can I do 3 at least? I'm smart, but I'm scattered and my performance in
classes
is
usually wildly up and down throughout the semester usually ending with a B because I miss at
least one
bigger assignment as time goes on. I was hoping to lean into student support services and try to
find an
ADHD coach I just found out those exist to avoid that and get. shit. sorted. All the details
around
school
have been knocking me down for too long, I'm tired of it. I pick myself back up and try again
every
time,
but enough is enough. If I get it all done like I want, this will be my last year of my
undergrad, and I
want that more than I can possibly explain. I have goals that require graduate school, because
I'm a
glutton
for punishment I guess |
How many classes would you suggest for a motivated, medicated student in a 5-6 week summer
session? |
can i do 3 at least one bigger assignment as time goes on ? edit : ending with a b because i did
n't
figure
out what is an appropriate course load . |
can i figure out what is an appropriate course load . i 'm scattered and my performance in
classes are
usually wildly up to time . can 3 at least one bigger assignment ? |
I'm 25, ADHD severe, mixed type, medicated, and taking summer classes for the first time in May.
What is
an
appropriate course load? |
I can't figure out what I'm doing wrong. |
I ca n't figure out what is an appropriate course load . I have goals that require graduate
school ,
because
I 'm a glutton for punishment . What do I do ? |
| I realized that I was completely content and in love with the family I have. There was nothing
more that
I
was missing. I took the perspective that another child would be a threat to that state of my
life. If I
had
another child, I would absolutely love it with all of my heart. But, the reality is, I have
limited
resources. There's only so much to go around. Anything I spent on a future-child is something I
am not
spending on my actual children |
A couple years ago i had a vasectomy. I got home from the procedure and explained to my kids
what
happened.
One of them asked, Why would you do that? May answer was, essentially, I'm happy with the family
I have.
|
i was content and in love with the family i have to do with all of my heart . i am not spending
on my
actual
children . i spent on a future-child . |
if i had another child , i would like to love with the family i have been content and in love
with all
of my
heart . i am not spending on my actual children . |
I realized I was content in love with the family I have. |
I don't want to have another child. |
I took the perspective that another child would be a threat to that state of my life . If I had
another
child , I would love it with all of my heart . |
| though i agree that there should be more casual ways to enjoy league, the points you raised as
being the
shortcomings of league,are on the flip side, the things that makes league unique. also, and i
dont think
that you mentioned this,but battle royals offer a completely different experience compared with
league,esp
regarding grinding.in a battle royal you are only expected to win 1percent of the time. that is
a much
lower
pressure than in league where you want to win 50 of games |
league should have more casual gamemodes but, grinding is completely different in league
compared to
fortnite. |
i agree that there should be more casual ways to enjoy league and league , are on the flip side
, the
things
you raised as being the shortcomings of league . |
there should be more casual ways to enjoy league , the points you raised as being the
shortcomings of
league
unique . i agree with 1percent of the time . |
battle royals offer a completely different experience compared to league. |
i agree with you, but i think league should be more casual. |
there should be more casual ways to enjoy league , the points you raised as being the
shortcomings than
in
league where you want to win 50 of games are on the flip side . |
| Long story. Basically, I took a loan out and then the guy tried to claim he wasn't paid and that
he
double
sent and called me a scammer. A whole bunch of lurking kids up past their bed time starting
commenting
on
all my comments, and blowing up my inbox. The best part is that when someone claims you scammed
in
borrow,
you are instantly banned by AutoMod so you can't defend yourself in the thread where you are
being
accused
|
popcorn is delicious, and people need to learn how to mind their own biz. |
do n't defend yourself in the thread where you are being accused of automod . automod claims he
was n't
paid
and that he double sent and called me a scammer . |
the best part is that when someone claims you are being accused of borrow , you are instantly
banned by
automod so you ca n't defend yourself in the thread . |
If someone claims you scammed, you are instantly banned. |
I took out a loan, guy tried to scam me. |
I took a loan out and then the guy tried to claim he was paid and called me a scammer . The best
part is
that when someone claims you scammed in borrow , you ca n't defend yourself in the thread . |
| Hey y’all, I’ve been writing a ton of songs lately using c shaped voicings, so that I can play
melodies
within the chords. The problem is that my voice sounds best when singing in E, so I’ve been
using a capo
at
the fourth fret. Doing this for every song, however, gets irritating as it really shortens the
fretboard. So
I’m thinking of tuning up to g standard. The way I’m considering doing this is to replace the e
string
with
an a string and tune it down a half-step, and so on. The problem arises on the high e string, as
there
isn’t
a string higher than that. Does anyone have any suggestions or ideas I haven’t considered |
Trying to tune up to g standard on a full-sized acoustic guitar, and looking for input |
replace the e string with an a string and tune it down a half-step , and so on the high e string
, as
there
is n't a string higher than that . |
replace the e string with an a string and tune it down a half-step , and so on the high e string
, as
there
is n't a string higher than that . |
How do I tune up to g standard? |
I want to replace a string with a high-step e string. |
I want to replace the e string with an a string and tune it down a half - step , as there is n’t
a
string
higher than that . Any suggestions ? |
| Hi all Im in need of help! I 18M was in a long distance relationship for 3 years and she broke
up
suddenly
with me In September 2017. I did everything for her, i even travelled 3000 miles to see her. UK
to USA.
But
now that we broke up i for some reason cant get over it. Ill admit it was a very one sided
relationship,
as
not much was coming my way but i did everything for her, send her flowers randomly, buy her
amazing
gifts
for christmas and birthday, even just random gifts, just to say thank you for being my GF. And
the thing
which hurt the most was she didnt show one hint of sadness when breaking up with me, not a tear.
I loved
her
more than anything i really did, i thought this was gonna be life. and hopefully move with her.
She was
my
first GF, my First love, my first everything in fact. Its now May 1st and still havent gotten
over it.
My
mind keeps thinking of her and cant move on. I try to take my mind away, edit videos to put on
youtube,
play
video games, i have full time job and my mind plays games with me. Mentally lost right now. I
cry once
in
while because of memories, and alot of times i get that lump in your throat my heart starts
aching so
freaking bad. Even as im writing my heart is aching. 2 Weeks ago i was proud of myself. Went to
a club
with
my friend and kissed a girl couldnt believe it. My first touch of a girl since last June when i
visited
her
in usa. But when a week goes by things pop up which make me remember last year. Any advice to
help me
move
on would truly be a god send. Thank you |
I 18M Was in a long distance Relationship for 3 years. Did everything for her, even travelled
3000 miles
to
see her and she broke up with me suddenly and cant get over it. In Need of help |
broke up with thinking of her and cant move on . need advice to help me move on would be a god .
god
send me
to be a god send . |
i broke up i for some reason cant get over it and cant move on and move on would truly be a god
send her
and
cant help me move on . |
Girlfriend broke up with me in September 2017 and i cant get over it. |
I was in a long distance relationship for 3 years, she broke up with me, now i cant move on.
|
I 18 M was in a long distance relationship for 3 years and she broke up with me In September
2017 . I
loved
her more than anything i really did , i did everything for her , send her flowers randomly , buy
her
amazing
gifts for christmas and birthday , even to say thank you for being my GF . |
| Gf 21F broke up with me M21 exactly two months ago and we had been together for about a year. I
was in
NC
until yesterday, when I texted her to come pick up my stuff i had left at her dorm. She
responded within
a
second and said she's okay with it this Friday but she'll confirm with me Thursday night. I am
kinda
nervous
and feel like it'll be awkward talking to her. After i pick up my stuff, I want to ask her if
she can
talk
for a minute and sort of have a convo with her sort of for my own closure since i never got
that. The
thing
is that she is seeing another guy but she doesnt know that I know this. So i dont know what to
expect.
Any
suggestions would be appreciated |
ex gf broke up 2 months ago i broke nc yday and she responded right away within a sec going to
meet her
this
friday to pick up my things from dorm eventually have a convo with her and just talk to her
about what
happened problem is she is seeing another guy but doesnt know that I know how to make the
situation less
awkward than it already is |
i want to ask her if she can talk for a minute and sort of have a convo with her sort of for my
own
closure
since i never got that . |
she is seeing another guy i want to ask her if she can talk for a minute and sort of have a
convo with
her
sort of for my own closure . |
Gf broke up with me, I want to ask her if she can talk for a minute and sort of have a convo
with her.
|
Gf broke up with me two months ago, i texted her today and she said she's okay with it but i'm
nervous.
|
Gf broke up with me , I want to ask her if she can talk for a minute and have a convo with her
sort of
closure since i never got that . |
| Hi Reddit! My boyfriend and I have been dating for about half a year now, and our relationship
is
generally
very good. However, there are some personal problems \on both ends, but mostly mine\ that need
to be
attended to and that I was planning on fixing this summer with regular therapy appointments,
meditation,
etc. My boyfriend and I have both have internships in different cities but since I don't have a
car we
were
planning on seeing each other once a month. However, we recently got into a pretty big fight and
now he
thinks we should spend the summer apart and try things again next semester, even though he
admits that
its
risky since it may not work. I am against this because security is really important to me for
personal
reasons and since we'll be long distance I figure we can both work on our problems while still
seeing
each
other. He says he wants more space than that and if we don't end up together again then it
wasn't meant
to
be even though he's fairly confident that I'm the absolute perfect girl for him. So, Reddit, any
advice?
If
we break up over the summer I am very confident that I won't want to date again but he doesn't
believe
me
when I say that. Is there a compromise here, or should I just let this go |
Boyfriend wants to break up this summer so we can focus on our problems and try again next
semester. I
don't
want to break up at all |
is there a compromise here , or should i just let the go . internships in different cities .
internships
on
seeing each other once a month . car we were planning on seeing each other . |
my boyfriend and i have internships in different cities but since i do n't have a car we were
planning
on
seeing each other once a month . my boyfriend go . |
Boyfriend and I got into a fight and now he thinks we should spend the summer apart. |
My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half, but I'm not sure if I should
break up
with
him. |
Boyfriend wants more space than that and if we do n't end up together then it was n't meant to
be even
though he 's fairly confident that I 'm the absolute perfect girl for him . |
| I'm curious about how people feel about the game in its current state and where it is headed. Is
it fun
for
you or did the game begin to deteriorate over the years? I want to see how many people feel the
same as
I do
about where the game is headed. I love Path of Exile more than any other game I play today. PoE
single
handedly helped my quit League of Legends, but over the years I feel the game and its devs have
made
some
wrong turns. One of the biggest is the loss of chase uniques. Items such as shavs use to be a
really
hard
item to obtain and was build defining, its nice to see items that are as build defining as shavs
go down
in
price more casual players to get but on the same note there are less and less items to get hype
over.
Back
in the days when you seen a unique gavel drop, your heart would drop too Now its not even as
exciting
and
IIR is not even worth it. The most exciting thing to drop today is either pure currency or div
cards. I
would love to see a change in the distant future. Does anyone remember how hard and slow mapping
was
back in
the days? Its a huge change since then and I feel the game is losing some of the spark it use to
have. I
will continue to play and support the game by buying supporter packs when I can, I just really
wish I
could
see a change |
As much as I love the game, its becoming stale with the lack of chase items and difficulty in
maps. |
i want to see how many people feel the same as i do about the game in its current state and
where it is
headed to deteriorate over the years . |
is it fun for you or did the game begin to deteriorate over the years ? i 'm curious about the
game in
its
current state and where the game is headed . |
How many people feel about the game in its current state? |
How do you feel about the game? |
I love Path of Exile more than any other game I play today . I would love to see a change in the
distant
future . Does anyone remember how hard and slow mapping was back in the days ? |
| Background At week 42, I hit the jackpot with two back-to-back 8-mech-dogpile-specials missions.
Long
story
short, entire inventory was in the shop for two months. Between the repair bills and monthly
expenses, I
was
running on fumes. Here's the loop I got stuck in. This system's available contracts are above my
level.
Lets
travel back to a half-skull world. Lose half a month New system only has two travel contracts,
back to
the
higher-difficulty region I just left. I take them, because there's literally nothing else and
I'm going
to
go bankrupt. Lose half a month Run the mission to get some cash right before the expense report.
Go back
to
Step 1. I've been caught in this loop for three iterations now, running one mission a month and
only
managing to break even. That's 12 weeks of limping along. And in that span of time, I'm not.
Making
progress
on story missions Weldry is next Getting bigger or better 'mechs have to take full moneyno
salvage to
stay
in the black Gaining rep bonuses see above Gaining significant pilot XP Having fun What am I
doing
wrong?
Why are there never local, reasonable-difficulty missions available |
Stuck in a poverty cycle because low-level systems only offer travel contracts to high-level
systems.
edit
thanks everybody for the feedback. Of course, right after I posted this, I found two local
missions. One
gave me a lump of cash. The other I went all-in for salvage and got a free Thunderbolt. Make a
fool of
me,
BT. Still, that was a shitty stretch, and I do think the contracts system needs some tweaking. I
want to
play BattleTech, not watch jumpship cutscenes pretty as they are. |
i got stuck in a loop , because i 'm going to go bankrupt . and in that span of time i got stuck
, i 'm
going to go bankrupt . |
got stuck in a span of time , i 'm going to go bankrupt , because there 's no loop i got stuck
in . i
take
them , i 'm not . |
I've been caught in a loop for three iterations, and I'm not sure why. |
I've been stuck in a loop for a month and a half. |
Lose half a month New system only has two travel contracts , back to a half - skull world ,
running one
mission a month and only managing to stay in the black Gaining rep . |
| My Dom and I have been in a Ds and romantic relationship for almost a year. We are both fairly
new to
everything, but we have moved from just following rolesrules to more aggressive physical
punishments,
adding
additional subs, etc. When we started, he would only whip me with a leather belt, which hurt,
but not
actually bad at all. This produced a good amount of bruising which I proudly wear and enjoy
seeing
progress
over time afterward. In the last month or two, my tolerance to crops, belts, paddles, etc has
seriously
declined. I know I am always more sensitive and less tolerant during my period, but I feel like
I
haven’t
been able to take much, and I hate tapping out and disappointing him |
I cant take my punishments anymore because my tolerancethreshold for pain has become very low.
Any
suggestions on how to get that back up? |
i have n't been able to take much , but i feel like i have been in a ds and romantic
relationship . i
hate
tapping out and disappointing him . |
my dom has been in a ds and i have n't been able to take much , but i am always more sensitive
and less
tolerant during my period . |
My Dom would only whip me with a leather belt, and I don’t know what to do. |
My Dom and I have been in a relationship for almost a year, and we are very different. |
I feel like I have n’t been able to take much , and I hate tapping out . What do you guys think
? Any
advice
would be greatly appreciated . Thanks ! |
| Found myself in the same predicament Hey Reddit! I posted about this in February under a
different
account.
To sum things up, I got into my first “relationship” of sorts with this guy, and I was afraid to
enter
into
it because I didn’t have any friends and I really mean I don’t have ANY friends and still don’t,
although
I’ve been trying more these days to make some. Well, the relationship fell apart after a month
which is
a
huge blow as a lonely person, haha. I met another guy a few weeks ago through Tinder and I
really like
him!
But the thing is that I’m afraid to move any further because I’m afraid of scaring him off by
the fact
that
I don’t have any friends. When I was with the last guy, he asked me what I did for fun and I
just said
“Oh,
art, reading, blah blah blah.” but no mention of any friends, and he just said, “That’s it?”
Like he was
ridiculing me for not hanging out with people on a regular basis, and that was actually the last
time we
saw
each other. We broke up over text. The last time I posted this, I was told to not give a fuck,
but I
know
that a common piece of dating advice is that you shouldn’t date anyone who doesn’t have friends
which I
totally get... and my lastcurrent situation isn’t helping me with my confidence. I have this
feeling
that
maybe I should’ve made friends first before I started dating so that I could at least appear
normal, but
I’ve already seen this guy like 6 times in the past three weeks and I just don’t want to end
something
that
could possibly lead to something good? What do I do |
I entered my first relationship a few months ago while being insecure about the fact that I
didn’t have
any
friends. Felt really insecure about it still during the relationship, and after breaking up, I
felt that
the
fact that me having no friends was a contributing factor. Now I’m afraid to enter into a
potential
relationship knowing that at some point, I’d have to tell this guy about me having no friends.
Also, I
added
age and gender just in case, haha. |
i 'm afraid of scaring him off by the fact that i do n't have to move any further because i 'm
afraid of
scaring him off by tinder . |
i met a guy a few weeks ago through tinder and i 'm afraid of scaring him off by the fact that i
do n't
have
any friends in tinder . |
I met a guy on Tinder and I don’t know what to do. |
I don’t have any friends and I’m not sure how to move forward. |
I got into my first “ relationship ” of sorts of scaring him off by the fact that I do n’t have
any
friends
and I do n't know what to do . What do I do ? |
| It kind of forces you to develop a personality. You know that rule the fatter they are the
funnier they
are?
Well that's because when you're fat people see you as undesirable Which isn't entirely their
fault, due
to
survival instincts, IE stay with the strong and that means you need to be at the very least
entertaining.
I'm not saying that attractive people can't develop a personality, but if you're attractive you
can
certainly skate by whilst being bland |
If you're an ugly you need to be interesting, and that's useful |
if you 're fat , do n't develop a personality , do n't be at the very least entertaining . ie
stay with
the
strong and that means you need to develop a personality . |
rule the fatter they are fat people see you to develop a personality . ie stay with the strong
and that
means you 're at the very least entertaining . |
You can skate by being bland while being bland. |
You're not ugly because you're fat. |
I 'm not saying that attractive people ca n't develop a personality , but if you 're attractive
you can
skate by whilst being at the very least entertaining . You need to be bland . |
| The Kingdom of Prussia was the largest state within the German Empire and also the nation
ultimately
responsible for the formation of Germany. A map of Prussia Blue within the German Empire is
pictured
here.
Prior to the formation of the German Empire in 1871, Prussia was one of the two regional German
powers
alongside Austria. The Prussians, under the leadership of Chancellor Otto von Bismarck, fought a
series
of
wars against Denmark, Austria, and France in order to cement Prussian hegemony over what we
would
consider
modern Germany. After taking back Elsaß-Lothringen from the French, the Prussian König King was
crowned
the
German Kaiser Emperor and the German Empire was formed. Prussia was nominally a “first among
equals,”
but
the truth is that Prussians ran the show. They had the most representatives in the Reichstag,
their King
was
also the Emperor, and most of the German Army was run by a Prussian officer corps, not to
mention the
fact
that the new Imperial Constitution and also most of the government was pretty much a copy-paste
of the
Prussian equivalent. Prussia also had most of the population, industry, economy, and pretty much
anything
else you can think of |
The German Empire was basically just the Kingdom of Prussia on steroids with the rest of modern
Germany
being along for the ride. |
the kingdom of prussia is the largest state within the german empire and also the nation
ultimately
responsible for the formation of germany . prussia was nominally a '' first among equals . |
the kingdom of prussia was the largest state within the german empire , prussia was nominally a
'' first
among the formation of germany , prussia ran the show . |
The Kingdom of Prussia was the largest state within the German Empire in 1871. |
The Kingdom of Prussia was the largest state in the German Empire. |
The Kingdom of Prussia was the largest state within the German Empire and also the nation
ultimately
responsible for the formation of Germany . The new Imperial Constitution and the German Army was
formed
.
|
| Hello, Hoping for some quick assistance with a suit jacket shoulder question. I have some thrift
store
jackets but am learning about proper fitment. I'm 5'11, 175lbs, and my chest is 38 which I
understand
should
put me in a 38R. My shoulders, however, are 19. Most of the jackets I own and most that I find
in size
38
are in the 18 to 18.5 area and I don't feel like they fit me too badly. Should I continue
looking at a
38R
or possibly go up to a 40R and plan on having the chest taken in? Or |
should the jacket shoulder width exactly match my shoulders no matter what? for the jackets im
measuring
seam-to-seam. for my body I had someone measure me from the tips of shoulder bones. |
should i continue looking at a 38r or possibly go up to a 40r and plan on having the chest taken
in ? or
should i understand should put me in a 38r ? |
should i continue looking at a 38r or possibly go up to a 40r and plan on having the chest taken
in a
38r .
i 'm 5 ' 11 . |
I'm 5'11 175lbs and my chest is 38. Should I continue looking at a 38R or go up to a 40R? |
Should I continue looking at 38R or 38R? |
Should I continue looking at a 38R and plan on having the chest taken in ? Or do I need to go up
to a
40R if
I do n't feel like they fit me too badly ? |
| After I gave birth to my first child a boy, I was abruptly moved from my postpartum room to
another
hospital
altogether I was separated from my newborn less than 24 hours after giving birth with a rash
whose cause
was
completely unknown and never seen before. This rash spread from my stomach to my entire body on
my face,
and
even into my throat within 24 hours of giving birth! I had teams of doctors from Internal
Medicine to
the
Burn Unit trying to figure out was wrong with me. After a week of being in the ICU and
eventually being
transferred to the women's care floor of the hospital and literally almost dying, they diagnosed
me with
a
rare case of PUPPPS Polymorphic eruption of pregnancy or it's also known as Pruritic urticarial
papules
and
plaques of pregnancy. This rash normally occurs during pregnancy and goes away when you give
birth, but
of
course with me, it was completely the opposite. It took 10 weeks for the rash to finally
completely go
away.
To say this was traumatic is an understatement. I literally wouldn't let ANYONE see me for weeks
immediate
family included because I was so embarrassed by how I looked. People keep asking when I'm going
to have
another baby, and believe me I desperately want one, but this rash is one of the main reasons
I'm
absolutely
terrified of getting pregnant again. I'm looking for anyone who may have had their PUPPPS
present in the
same way and gone on to have normal pregnancies afterwards |
I developed a rare case of a pregnancy rash after I gave birth. Just looking for some insight.
|
i 'm looking for anyone who may have been transferred to the women 's care floor of the hospital
and
literally almost dying , and gone on to have normal pregnancies . |
looking for anyone who may have had their puppps present in the same way and gone on to the
women 's
care
floor of the hospital , they diagnosed me with a rare case of pregnancy . |
Had PUPPPS Polymorphic eruption of pregnancy after giving birth. |
I gave birth to a rash that spread to my entire body, including my stomach. |
I gave birth to my first child a boy , they diagnosed me with a rare case of PUPPPS Polymorphic
eruption
of
pregnancy . I 'm looking for anyone who may have had their PUPPPS present in the same way and
gone on to
have normal pregnancies . |
| I'm a diehard PCMR fanboy. But I've had to pickup a macBook previously school requirements, and
while
it's
overpriced and has subpar specs, it feels so smooth. I'm not talking about high FPS in games.
I'm
talking
about its UX. Waking up from sleep is instant, the screen is turned on before I've even fully
opened it.
Just scrolling up and down webpages and zooming in and out with the touchpad feels so liquid
buttery.
But
compare it to a Windows laptop, and the UX is lackluster. Using hand gestures on the trackpad
feel
jittery,
and even tho the specs are far superior, the laptop experience just feels poor.I still do really
hate
MacOS
for many reasons and will always maintain that apple computer products are just overpriced for
its
performance, but there really is something that they've done right and I can't quite achieve
that
experience
on windows laptops |
Apple laptop UX feels so amazingly smooth and Windows just feel clunky |
compare it to a windows laptop , and the ux is lackluster . macos for many reasons and there are
something
that they can always maintain that experience on windows laptops . |
compare it to a windows laptop , and the ux is lackluster , apple computer products are just
overpriced
for
its performance , macos for many reasons and will always maintain that apple computer products .
|
Macbook is overpriced, but it's overpriced. |
I'm a diehard PCMR fanboy. |
I 'm not talking about high FPS in games , and I do n't hate MacOS for many reasons and will
always
maintain
that apple computer products are just overpriced . Thanks ! |
| When I was a pre-teen a couple of friends of mine were riding bikes down to the creek near our
homes and
we
found a hoard of hardcore porn magazines dumped in the water just near a bridge. We fished the
most
salvageable ones out and laid them to dry on the sun warmed stones by the shore. We took turns
leaving
and
going home to get backpacks while one of us guarded the smutty treasure. Once we all had
storage, we
filled
our backpacks with the crispy dried pages and rip outs of our choosing. I took mine home and hid
them in
old
metal lunch boxes from my childhood, buried under toys and such in my closet. When I would have
my after
school fun time before the parents got home, the smell of creek water and mud clung pungently to
the
sinful
images. To this day if I go canoeing or fishing by any freshwater body, I get as hard as a
granite
pillar.
Took a girlfriend canoeing once and she was puzzled as to why I stopped three times on secluded
spots
and
practically threw myself at her like a raving pervert. This was during the early 90s, and AOL
was the
only
internet and I never could find porn on it |
12 year old me found smut mags soaked in creek water and mud. The smell of creeks and muddy
shores gets
me
as horny as a jack rabbit. |
hardcore porn magazines dumped in the water just near a bridge . aol was the only internet and
we found
a
hoard of hardcore porn magazines down to the creek near our homes . |
found a hoard of hardcore porn magazines dumped in the water just near a bridge . aol was the
only
internet
and i never could find porn on it . |
Found hardcore porn mags in my closet. |
I hid my porn stash from my parents. |
When I was a pre - teen a couple of friends were riding bikes down to the creek near our homes ,
the
smell
of creek water and mud clung pungently to the sinful images . |
| As someone who debated this myself I would recommend accel. I wouldn't say you're guaranteed a
competent
partner as I've had some that simply watched me code for an hour or two while we worked
together. If you
think you could handle the increased work load then by all means challenge yourself. After all,
that's
how
you learn. And on top of that, later classes such as OOD will expect you to teach yourself
concepts to
help
you on the homework and do more work on your own. Don't worry it's not that the professors don't
help
you at
all. So long as you show you're putting forth a decent effort to understand the material and
become a
better
programmer their always willing to offer even the smallest bit of advice, no matter how silly
they think
your question might be |
You think you can handle it? Good, go for it and don't let someone else's incompetence hold you
back.
|
do n't worry it 's not that the professors do n't help you at all , by all means challenge
yourself and
do
more work on your own . and on top of your own work load . |
do n't worry about the increased work load then do more work on your own . and on top of the
homework
and do
n't help you at all . |
If you think you can handle the increased work load then challenge yourself. |
Don't worry about it, you'll be fine. |
If you think you 're putting forth a decent effort to understand the material and do more work
on your
own
than the smallest bit of advice , no matter how silly they think your question might be . |
| I'm in a bit of a weird situation and I need some advice. Throwaway account for anonymity. Long
story
short,
my boyfriend has two friends who are in an open relationship. Lets call them Gary and Jane.
They're very
much in love but they allow eachother every now and again to go and sleep with other people, and
they're
both perfectly happy so who am I to judge? Anyway, Gary Jane were friends with my boyfriend
before I met
him, and since being with him I've became quite close to them too, as they're both awesome
people. Well,
yesterday Gary asked if my boyfriend and I would ever consider an open relationship. I said that
it's
not
something that would work for us personally, and wanted to find out why he asked. Well it turns
out Gary
really likes me and wants to be a friend with benefits. He wanted me to ask my boyfriend if he'd
be
willing
to let me which I know he'd definitely say no, and it's not something I want anyway as I'm happy
with
just
my boyfriend An open relationship definitely isn't something neither me or my partner want We
had a
conversation about it a couple of years ago, so I turned him down. Gary told me that I'm always
welcome
to
change my mind as he really, REALLY likes me and would love to get closer to me. I'd never be
unfaithful
to
my boyfriend so I'm obviously not going to take him up on the offer. but the dilemma I'm having
now is
whether I should tell my boyfriend or not? I feel horrible hiding stuff from him but at the same
time I
don't want it to come between theirour friendship. What do |
Friend of my boyfriend who is in open relationship has strong feelings for me but I'm in a
closed
relationship and have no intention of changing that. Do I tell my boyfriend his friend is in
love with
me or
keep it to myself? I don't want to ruin their friendship but I don't like keeping secrets. |
gary asked if i should tell my boyfriend or not , but i do n't want to be a friend with benefits
. i do
n't
know what to do . |
boyfriend turns out gary really likes me and wants to be a friend with benefits . i 'm having
now is
whether
i should tell my boyfriend or not ? |
My boyfriend has two friends who are in an open relationship and I'm not sure if I should tell
my
boyfriend
or not. |
I'm in an open relationship with two of my friends. My boyfriend wants to be with me, but I'm
not sure
if I
should tell my boyfriend. |
My boyfriend has two friends who are in an open relationship . I 'm not going to take him up on
the
offer .
How do I tell my boyfriend or not ? |
| To be honest, I think this line captures the misconception As Graber and Levinson point out,
academic
discussions on the contours of executive power meant one thing before 2016 and another thing
now,
precisely
because, as they put it, no legal scholar opining on executive power “considered the possibility
that a
bigoted, uninformed, serial liar would assume the powers of the oval office.” It is beyond me
why people
think that executive power should be allocated without assuming the worst of all worlds. It does
not
take a
legal scholar or a historian to show that the Presidency as an institution has far exceeded its
original
intent and capability. Executive power should not be sculpted to meet the considerations of your
side or
even of the other side it should be measured against its true capability, and for someone reason
now,
Liberals seem surprised that the President has the ability to do a great deal, and can influence
a vast
array of political, social, and economic institutions. Were the same people upset when Obama
expanded
the
use of military drones in the Middle East? I doubt it. Were the same folks disturbed by
President
Obama's
consistent use of Executive Orders to bypass Congress? Probably not. The point being that this
is only a
normsconstitutional crisis because Liberals now see how these norms can negatively impact their
agenda,
but
had no problem with someone else in the Oval using executive power in similar albeit less
disastrous
ways
|
You cant complain about norms when you only care about changes you disagree with - either be
against the
expansion of executive power uniformly, or shut the fuck up and vote. |
this is only a normsconstitutional crisis , but it is beyond me why people think that executive
power
should
be allocated without assuming the worst of all worlds is disastrous ways . |
this is only a normsconstitutional crisis , but liberals are allocated without assuming the
worst of all
worlds . executive power should be allocated ways to negatively impact their agenda . |
I don't think this line is accurate, but I think it is. |
I don't think the line captures the point. |
Executive power should not take a legal scholar to show that the Presidency of executive power
meant one
thing before 2016 and another thing now , but had no problem with someone else in the Oval using
executive
power in the Middle East . |
| Hello! My roomie of 2 years just moved out. Nothing romantic. But I really liked talking to her.
She is
very
career driven and has since got a better job position and decided she wants a bigger room. This
might
sound
weird but actually we never did much outside of the apartment in terms of activities in the
city. We
supported each other on all kinds of advice. I enjoyed her company a lot because she would
always try
and
push me to do better. For some reason it didn't hit me until she removed all her stuff from the
room. We
moved in together before a year ago as we left the old apartment. But I was crying today like
baby She
had
tears in her eyes too. I don't understand myself. I don't know if I had hidden romantic feelings
for her
or
what is going on. I really want to stay in touch and start doing at least the occasional weekend
hangout
if
she is up to it. Do you guys think it is ok to try and stay in touch or is it strange to all of
a sudden
start suggesting going out when we never did much when we lived together |
Had roomemate, got along well, but didn't hang out outside, moved out, feeling like a lost
someone very
important in my life. |
do you guys think it is ok to try and stay in touch or is it strange to all of a sudden start
suggesting
going out when we lived together . |
my roomie of 2 years just moved out of a sudden start suggesting going out , stay in touch or is
it
strange
to try and stay in touch . |
My roomie of 2 years just moved out. We never did much outside of the apartment in terms of
activities
in
the city. We moved in together before a year ago. She had tears in her eyes too. I want to stay
in touch
and
start hanging out if she is up to it. Is it weird to start suggesting going out when we never
had much
when
we lived together |
My roomie and I moved out of the same apartment 2 years ago and I don't know what to do. |
I do n't know if I had hidden romantic feelings for her or what is going on . Do you think it is
ok to
try
and stay in touch and start doing ? |
| Hello Reddit. So if you see my post history you’ll see this story is about the same person. Last
weekend
we
met up and had a fantastic time. Just went shopping together and then chatted the rest of the
afternoon
and
kissed. He said he had to go out of town in a couple of weeks but wanted to see me his free
weekend in
between and take me out on a “real date.” I was so excited because it was going to be so nice
out and
this
past weekend would be my last real one for the next month. Plus this guy seemed so kind and
caring and
was
so into me. So I followed up with him Friday night to confirm plans for Saturday and he said he
had
stuff to
do to prepare for his trip this weekend so he had to cancel now, but he’d see what he could do
to come
see
me because he misses me and wants to see me. Since this message, nothing. I know it is my own
fault for
trying to still pursue somethingsomeone that clearly doesn’t want me or know how to make time
for
something
he wants. But it makes me sad and mad at myself for finally letting my guard down a bit and
liking
someone.
How do I not let continued experiences like this affect me? I told myself that this year since I
finally
passed the bar, got a job, feel good about my body and personality, and happy with my position
in life,
I’d
start putting myself out there. But it sucks. I try to not overanalyze these things, but I
always think
about what I did wrong |
How do I remain open, yet still stand up formyself in dating when dating experiences continue to
be
letdowns? |
how do i not let continued experiences like this affect me ? somethingsomeone is my own fault
for trying
to
still pursue somethingsomeone , and i do n't want me to know how to make time . |
how do i make time for trying to still pursue somethingsomeone that clearly does n't want me to
let
continued experiences like this affect me ? edit : i 'm a job . |
Met a guy last weekend, he wanted to see me and take me out on a “real date” for the next month.
I
followed
up with him Friday night to confirm plans for his trip this weekend and he said he missed me and
wanted
to
go out of town. He cancelled, but I still have feelings for him. How do I not let this affect
me? |
Went on a date with a guy, he broke up with me because he didn’t want to see me. |
Last weekend we met up and take me out on a “ real date . He said he had to go out of town in a
couple
of
weeks but wanted to see me because he misses me . How do I not let continued experiences ? |
| For those whose partners had anger issues and who stuck around, how did it go? My girlfriend of
four
months
has fairly serious anger issues and is very frequently annoyed, too. She has agreed to seek
professional
help very shortly but is not overly optimistic it will do that much. She admits that anger and
her
inability
to let things go destroyed her previous marriage, and i'm worried it will sink us. I didn't
leave
because I
love her and I'm rather attached, and I want to believe it will lessen to a manageable level
with
therapy.
We have discussed how to control it at her most serious times of anger, when her behaviour is
bad. Now,
this
is going to sound messed up. Once, I pinned her down to the bed she is much shorter and weaker
than me
and
pressed on her arms until she gave up with the pain, and agreed to calm down. She had said
beforehand
and
after that some level of physical pain when she was at her worst was a better solution for her
than a
relationship that ends in divorce and heartbreak. Reddit, what would you do in my situation? To
stay
with
her, I feel I have to choose between with her permission keeping her in order with pain versus
the far
greater pain of raging and hurtful words and conflicts that don't get solved unless I apologize
a lot,
even
for things that aren't my fault |
Girlfriend has anger issues. For people like me who stuck around, did it get better? |
what would you do in my situation ? what is the best way to stay with her , and how do you feel
about it
?
how do you feel about it ? |
what would you do in my situation ? edit : i 'm not sure if pain versus the far greater pain of
raging
and
hurtful words . i have to choose to stay with her , but i do n't know what to do . |
Girlfriend has anger issues, I want to stay with her, but I don't know how. |
Girlfriend has anger issues, I don't want to hurt her, what would you do? |
My girlfriend of four months has agreed to let things go destroyed her previous marriage , and i
want to
believe it will sink to a manageable level with therapy . What would you do in my situation ?
|
| Location United States, Maryland Hey, sorry if my formatting here is incorrect or I'm breaking
any big
rules, but I'm just here to get some advice on possible answers to a situation my girlfriend has
and
I've
never posted here before. My girlfriend lives in one of those sort of 'cul-de-sac' like
neighborhoods
where
the offshoot of one road goes into another road. As a result there are two different homes with
the same
address number, but on different streets. As a result, from time to time Mail gets delivered to
the
wrong
house by accident to the house on the other street with the same number. I believe their mail is
also
delivered to one of those outside lockbox mailboxes that are all grouped together. From time to
time
however, if my girlfriend's family orders something it will get sent to the other house. They
claim to
know
this because in the past it had happened, and the shipping company, typically USPS or the
website Amazon
would claim the package was delivered but they never received. According to her, for example,
her dad
ordered two Echo Dots, and when he tried to contact customer service they mentioned they had
been
delivered
to the incorrect address, but the other tenants claimed they never received it. Now obviously,
it's not
much
hassle to get reimbursed by the company for products that were never provided, but apparently
this is a
recurring thing. Accordingly, this home ends up with some of the other houses' mail as well. Is
there
any
legal-action to take to make sure the other tenants stop holding onto their mail? My girlfriend
says
she'll
start shipping her purchases to my house, but for anything their parents buy, or any actually
important
documents that get mailed to them that's not really going to help them. Sorry for what I'm sure
is a
simple,
rather uninteresting question but I thought this would be the best place to turn |
Girlfriends' neighbors might be receiving their mail and refusing to turn it over, what is best
course
of
action? |
any legal-action to take to make sure the other tenants stop holding onto their mail ? as a
result ,
from
time to time mail gets delivered to the house on the other street . |
is there any legal-action to take to make sure the other tenants stop holding onto their mail ?
, from
time
to time mail gets delivered to my house . |
My girlfriend lives in one of those houses with the same address number, and the other tenants
claim to
know
that they never received it. What can I do? |
Girlfriend lives in a house with two different addresses. One of the addresses is wrong, and the
other
is
not. What do? |
My girlfriend has been delivered to the wrong house by accident to the house on the other street
with
the
same number . Is there any legal - action to take to make sure the other tenants stop holding
onto their
mail ? |
| I think that guy's point is kinda bad really. Disclaimer Am furry. Paint furry porn on occasion
for pay.
Encounter all kinds of perves. Am a perve myself. Very open-minded and will paint almost any
fetishkinksexual interest but one of my hard NOs is cubchildloli or anything sexual involving
children.
Vore, as I understand it, is a fantasy. People who are into vore don't regularly go out and eat
people
or
try to get themselves eaten so far as I know. Just because someone is into fantasy x doesn't
mean they
are
into reality x. Conversely, pedophiles often partake of sexual media that victimizes and harms
children
child porn or they may sexually assault children. I feel very sorry for people who suffer with
this
affliction but all my compassion for these people evaporates the moment they harm a child. How
do I feel
about drawings of child porn? I don't like it. That's just one of the few things I can't really
bring
myself
to be open-minded about. An argument could be made that it's not harming actual children but,
well,
sorry.
It's not a hill I'm gonna go die on |
In my experience, most people who are into vore are just people with an odd fetish but they're
not going
to
hurt anyone. The same cannot be said of pedos. |
i do n't like drawings of child porn . child porn is evaporates the moment they harm a child .
what do i
feel about this affliction ? drawings for these people who suffer with child porn ? |
how do i feel about drawings of child porn ? i do n't like it . i feel like people who suffer
with this
affliction and drawings evaporates the moment . |
I don't like drawings of child porn. |
I don't think it's a bad thing. |
Just because someone is into fantasy x does n't mean they are into reality x. . It 's not a hill
I 'm
gon na
go die on to be open - minded . |
| I'm not entirely sure what's up with me. I've been working really hard on my issues, so I have
very few
‘borderline episodes.’ I’m generally really chill and laid back these days, but I’m SO
irritable, and
actually kind of hate people? Even my close friends, I just feel so angry at them about all the
time.
It’ll
be like, someone just being in my way or clueless at a grocery store, friends being late to meet
up,
people
not responding to my messages, just the state of people on tinder, lol. I’m starting to just
feel
disproportionately mad that my roommate doesn’t do chores and just seems to assume I’m going to
clean up
after her. Just everything. A lot of my friends also have mental health issues, but I think I’ve
gotten
really impatient with them not working on them at all for the years I’ve known them. Every time
we hang
out,
I just feel like yelling at them because they make little to no effort and keep complaining
about
things.
I’ve tried to be supportive to them, and they say ‘you’re right, those are good ideas, I will
action
item,’
but nothing has come of any of it for the past 5 years |
disproportionately mad all the time. |
i 'm not entirely sure what 's up with me , but i 'm not working on them at all for the years .
i think
i 'm
impatient . |
what 's up with me , but i think i 've gotten really impatient with them not working on them at
all for
the
years , mental health issues ? |
I don't know what's up with me. |
I’m not sure what’s up with me. |
I 've been working really hard on my issues , but I just feel like yelling at them because they
make
little
to no effort and keep complaining about things . What do I do ? |
| pushes nerd glasses up akchually they aren't banned. No seriously, it is completely legal to own
a fully
automatic rifle as a civilian. There are a few legal jumps you have to do but it is entirely
possible.
However, the average cost of a LEGAL full auto gun is anywhere from 10K - 100K. If you would
like a full
auto Tommy gun just like the gangsters used to use complete with violin case, just have 30,000
to spend
on
that collectable. Just make sure it was made before 1986, was registered with the BATFE, have 2
sets of
finger prints, a passport sized photo taken in the past year, a dealer who will accept the
transfer and
hold
onto it for you, a 200 check small fee compared to that rifle eh? and have 8-16 months to wait
while the
BATFE processes your paperwork and the FBI does an extensive background check on you. After all
that you
can
finally own your very own fully automatic rifle. Just make sure no one even touches the thing
without
you
being present or they are committing a felony. Your own spouse can't even use it to defend your
home if
you
are at work |
Full auto rifles are legally obtainable with big catches and if you are spending that much on a
firearm,
you
probably aren't planning on committing any crimes with it. Because if you want to commit a crime
with a
gun,
just find some hardcore criminals. Probably cheaper. |
it 's legal to own a fully automatic rifle as a civilian . pushes nerd glasses up akchually they
are n't
banned . pushes nerd glasses up akchually nerd nerd . |
pushes nerd glasses up automatic rifle as a civilian . pushes nerd glasses akchually they are
n't banned
.
legal to own a fully automatic rifle rifle civilian civilian . |
It is legal to own a fully automatic rifle as a civilian. |
Yes, it is legal, but it is very expensive. |
the average cost of a LEGAL full auto gun is anywhere from 10 K - 100K. . Just make sure no one
even
touches
the thing without you being present or they are committing a felony . |
| 30 is actually a statistically significant sample size. Is it as accurate as say 100 or 1000? No
but
it's
not inaccurate. It would be enough to get a general idea of what is going on IF the sample was
collected
properly and not sampled it if convenience or other biased methods. If I just walked out on the
street
and
started surveying every person who happens to walk by then 30 is a very biased sample however if
I chose
thirty people through a sufficiently random selection method say a random number generator then
30
sampled
could be a statistically significant sample |
my university stats instructor would most likely disagree with you, but only if they sampled it
correctly.
|
it would be enough to get a general idea of what is going on if the sample was collected
properly and
not
sampled it if convenience or other biased methods . |
it would be enough to get a general idea of what is going on if the sample was collected
properly and
not
sampled it if convenience or other biased methods . |
30 is actually a statistically significant sample size. |
30 is a statistically significant sample size. |
It would be enough to get a general idea of what is going on IF the sample was collected
properly and 30
is
a very biased sample however if I just walked out on the street and started surveying every
person who
happens to walk by . |
| My boyfriend and I have been been dating for six months, but it has all been through
long-distance.
Yesterday, I finally had the courage to tell him that I was in love with him. So, I texted him
because
we
don't get to see each other often. I was scared and had a feeling he wouldn't say it back, but I
was
okay
with that. I told him that I just wanted to tell him how I was feeling and if he didn't feel the
same
way at
the moment, that it was fine. He responds about an hour later saying Fun stuff. He usually says
that
when
there's an awkwardness between us. I would have been fine if he said he didn't feel the same
way. But,
to
not even reply at all made me feel as if he was mocking me. A part of me thinks that maybe
because we
are
each other's first boyfriend and girlfriend that we really don't know how to relationship, but
even
then.I
expected a different outcome. I've tried to brush it off as if I never said anything and I
really wish I
hadn't spoken up about it |
told bf that i loved him for the first time and he responded by saying fun stuff. |
i finally had the courage to tell him that he did n't feel the same way . i would have been fine
if he
said
he was mocking me . |
had the courage to tell him that i was in love with him , he did n't feel the same way feel as
if he was
mocking me . i would have been fine with him . |
Told my boyfriend I was in love with him, he didn't feel the same way. |
I told my boyfriend I love him and he didn't feel the same way. |
My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months , but it has all been through long - distance
. I 've
tried to brush it off as if he did n't feel the same way at the moment . |
| I’ve not had a lot of withdrawal symptoms or cravings. I vaped daily for about 3 years medical
patient w
MS
and used 11 THC CBD strains. I decided to quit because I wanted to make sure that, if I
absolutely
needed to
quit for a job search or any other reason that I’d be able to. Like I mentioned, no cravings,
etc,
though
the dreams have been intense. Sleep hasn’t been messed up, though. But, the headaches started a
few days
in,
and sometimes are just terrible. They are around my temples and forehead, and start in early
afternoon
and
stretch into evening. NSAIDs and caffeine don’t greatly reduce the impact of the headache.
Anyone else
have
similar experiences? How long did the headaches last? Btw I took a home THC test today to
celebrate for
weeks, and it came back positive, so I know I’m have THC metabolites. I’m an epidemiologist, and
I’ve
researched in the published literature, but there is little to no data I can put my hands on.
Any
anecdotal
info from the community would be very appreciated |
four weeks without weed, but the headaches are killer. Anyone else experienced this? |
how long did the headaches last ? is it worth the impact of the headache ? what else have
similar
experiences ? how do i celebrate for weeks ? thanks for reading . |
how long did the headaches last ? nsaids and caffeine do n't greatly reduce the impact of the
headache .
headaches started a home thc test today to celebrate for weeks . |
I vaped 11 THC CBD strains for 3 years, quit because I wanted to make sure I needed to quit for
a job
search
or any other reason. |
How long did it take you to stop cravings? |
I took a home THC test today to celebrate for weeks , but there is little to no data I can put
my hands
on .
How long did the headaches last ? |
| They were spreading fear because the members of that group were obviously holding huge amounts
of other
crypto that could become obsolete due to IOTA being in widespread use one day. Always remember a
lot of
groups are trade organizations and they have an axe to grind and IOTA does not sit well with
them since
they
perceive it as threatening to their bottom line |
IOTA has strong potential to change the way we do a lot of different things and if it takes off
it could
leave many other crypto projects in the dust. |
they have an axe to grind and iota does n't sit well with them since they perceive it as
threatening to
their bottom line . iota being in widespread use one day . |
always remember a lot of groups and they have an axe to grind and iota does n't sit in
widespread use
one
day . always holding huge amounts of other crypto . |
They were spreading fear because they were holding huge amounts of other crypto that could
become
obsolete
due to IOTA being in widespread use. |
They were spreading fear because they were afraid of losing their crypto. |
Always remember a lot of groups are trade organizations and IOTA does not sit well with them
since they
perceive it as threatening to IOTA being in widespread crypto use one day . |
| Hey everyone, so I am friends with a guy whose in a relationship with a girl who is 18. Both my
friend
and I
are 21. I need advice on how to show him how toxic this relationship is for him. He has
acknowledged
that
his gf is most likely 95 cheating on him and that he is miserable in this relationship. She has
forced
him
to unfollow any females on his Instagram, not allowed him to spend time with family over time
with her,
is
continually insecure about what he does and requires him to give his phone over so that she can
go
through
it. Most recently she hooked up with her boss at her work who is 48 years old. I have tried to
explain
to
him before the issues with what she does and they have only been dating for 5 months but me
friend is
acting
as though they are married. He doesn't want to leave her and he continually defends actions that
she
does to
harm him. It seems as though my friend is very insecure and he believes that he will never find
another
women to be with if he leaves his current gf. If anyone has any advice on how I can help him
please let
me
know |
My friend is in a toxic relationships how should i help him. |
i need advice on how to show him how toxic this relationship is for him . he 's 18 and i friends
with a
guy
whose in a relationship with a girl . |
friends with a guy whose in a relationship with a girl who is 18 . i need advice on how to show
him how
toxic this relationship is for him . |
My friend is in a toxic relationship and I need advice on how to help him. |
My friend is in a toxic relationship and I need advice on how to help him. |
I am friends with a guy who is 18 and I need advice on how to show him how toxic this
relationship is
for
him . Edit : Thank you all so much for your advice . |
| Don’t think Trump is playing 4-D chess but I also think that is a lot smarter than most lead on.
He is
just
doing something like this make Canada has to react to it. He did the same thing with North
Korea. It’s
how
he operates. Make other react to you and then you can manipulate them |
Beer pricing will probably stay the same, trump just wants to be big swinging dick in NAFTA.
|
do n't think trump is playing 4-d chess but is a lot smarter than most lead on . trump has to
react to
it .
trump is doing something like this make canada . |
do n't think trump is playing 4-d chess but i think that is a lot smarter than most lead on .
canada is
just
doing something like this make canada chess 4-d 4-d 4-d . |
Trump is smarter than most lead on. |
Trump is smarter than 4-D chess. |
Trump is playing 4-D chess but is a lot smarter than most lead on . Make other react to you and
then you
can
manipulate them with North Korea . Edit : I do n't know if this is a problem . |
| A better life IS possible. You are not defined by your social anxiety. You don’t choose your
reality but
you
do choose what you believe. Not only is a lot of what you think is reality actually what you
believe,
but
what you choose to believe can influence your reality. This is why subs like this can be a
complicated
issue. They are FANTASTIC for helping you discover your own issues, for understanding yourself
more, for
not
feeling completely isolated, for venting and raving and just letting all that energy pent up
inside
loose.
These communities form where all this raw emotion smashes together. The problem comes when your
brain
just
takes all these thoughts and rambles in without separating any from the other. My new-agey mom
always
says
“your subconscious is listening” which i think has a lot of value to it. When you come on here,
reading
words full of hopelessness and hatred and misery, what are you telling your brain to feel? To
live an
okay
life with SA, you don’t need to magically hit the off switch on physiological shit you’ve been
dealing
with
since 5. Instead, start to think about what narratives you tell yourself. For instance, in line
at the
grocery store, what thoughts are you having? “I’m ugly, I’m stupid, I’m creepy. Everyone hates
me. I’m
not
walking normally. I’m not normal.” Next time you’re in a situation like this, gently remind
yourself
“it’s
okay.” “It’s okay is I’m ugly, stupid, and creepy. It’s okay is they don’t like me.” You don’t
have to
believe it. You don’t have to walk normally or look nice. All you have to do is tell yourself
that it’s
okay- because it is. This isn’t a magically cure all, but please just give it a try. Instead of
coming
on
here or 4chan or wherever it is you go, instead of filling your head with self hatred, just
remind
yourself
this |
You can live a nice life with SA. Be gentle with yourself, try not to fill what you can control
in your
life
with negativity. It’s okay to be a loser, don’t fill your mind with self-hatred. Btw this isn’t
a
response
to memes, i think they’re dope a little spammy though., but to the people convincing themselves
and
others
that there isn’t any hope, because there 100 is . |
you are not defined by your social anxiety , but you choose to believe can influence your
reality . not
only
is a lot of what you believe in reality . |
you are not defined by your social anxiety , but what you want to do is tell yourself that it 's
okay .
all
you are a lot of what you think . |
You are not defined by your social anxiety, but you do choose what you believe. |
You don’t have to believe what you’re told. |
You are not defined by your social anxiety . You do n't have to worry about what you believe ,
but you
do
not have to do it . If you do n't want to live an okay life with SA , you need to believe that
it is you
.
|
| So, I work at a licensed kiosk inside a grocery store. We have these two women that come
sometimes, one
an
elderly lady and the other her caretaker. The caretaker comes a lot without her client and
that's fine,
but
the issue is when the elderly lady comes. Sometimes she comes completely alone - which is a huge
problem
-
and other times she comes in with her caretaker and either comes and orders alone at a different
time,
or
they'll come in together but the caretaker lets her order and pick up her drink while she begins
shopping.
Here's the issue. The elderly lady really can't handle doing things like this by herself. She
can't
remember
what she orders strawberry acai with whipped cream, honestly the caretaker barely remembers what
it is
either which is fine because we all know, but if there were to be a new person working, I don't
know
what
they would do. The main problem is it takes her insanely long to pay. She seems to aimlessly
look
through
her purse without knowing what she's looking for. She won't let us assist her and when she does
find
money
it's never the right amount and the process has to start all over again. Meanwhile the line is
growing.
I
had to stay 25 minutes past the time I was supposed to be off once to stay and help ring up
people while
they awkwardly tried to pay around her while she stood at the register. It's a huge
inconvenience. I'm
sympathetic to elderly people wanting to stay independent but this is a problem for us and for
the
customers. Would you say something to her caretaker in this situation or would that be rude no
matter
what?
I just wish I could tell her to please help her pay without coming off like an ass. Sorry for
the long
post
everyone, just need to get that off my chest |
elderly lady has trouble paying, is it out of line to ask her caretaker to help? |
it takes her insanely long to pay without coming off like an ass . rude no matter what to her
pay
without
coming off like an ass . what to do ? |
would you help her pay without coming off like an ass . i just wish i could tell her to her
caretaker in
this situation or would i help her pay . |
Old lady comes in with her caretaker, doesn't remember what she's looking for and won't let us
help her
pay.
|
I work at a grocery store and an elderly lady comes in without a caretaker and doesn't know what
to do.
|
I work at a licensed kiosk inside a grocery store . I had to stay 25 minutes past the time I was
supposed to
be a new person working . Would you say something to her pay without coming off like an ass ?
|
| Hi guys, I'd consider myself a pretty experienced programmer. Most of what I've done is in
either C,
Java,
Python, or MATLAB and I've worked in C but didn't really fully understand what I was doing
basically
just
wrote C with some additions. As I understand it, the language is far from this idea now and is
completely
different with C11 and now even further with C14 and C17. I'm a bit lost as to where to begin
learning
this
as I don't want to read from outdated material the language has evolved out of |
Where can I learn modern C as someone never having officially learned the language but
experienced in
programming esp. in C? |
i do n't want to read from outdated material the language is far from this idea . as i
understand it ,
c11
and c17 , c11 and c17 . |
the language has evolved out of . i 'm a bit lost as to read from outdated material the language
has
evolved
out now and i do n't want to read it . |
How do I learn C14 and C17? |
I'd consider myself a programmer. |
I do n't want to read from outdated material the language is far from this idea now and is
completely
different with C11 and C17 . I 'm lost as to where to begin learning this . |
| BMI is a poor tool for getting the average fitness levels when comparing to a baseline. The
reason why
is
because BMI measuring doesn’t take into account the total percentage of muscle mass and actual
visceral
fat
plus subcutaneous fat as a total. All BMI compares against is linear values. If a doctor ever
does a
straight up BMI test without doing measurements for fatty tissue and without measuring for
variations,
you’re setting yourself up for failure. BMI is particularly inaccurate with regards to people
who
exercise.
For example. Someone who is 210 pounds, 6’0 is classified as overweight by BMI standards. When
in fact
that’s a pretty standard weight. Stipe Miocic, current Heavyweight UFC champion is around 245
pounds.
He’s
probably in better shape than most people in that weight category. BMI would suggest him as
being
overweight
|
Don’t trust BMI. Make sure to get a full workover for body fat percentage, measurements
included. BMI is
for
baseline only and shouldn’t be taken as law. |
bmi is a poor tool for getting the average fitness levels when comparing to a baseline . if a
doctor
ever
does a straight up bmi test , you 're setting yourself up for failure . |
bmi is a poor tool for getting the average fitness levels when comparing to a baseline . bmi
test
without
doing measurements for variations , you 're setting yourself up for failure . |
BMI is a poor tool for getting the average fitness levels when comparing to a baseline. |
BMI is a poor tool for comparing fitness levels. |
BMI is a poor tool for getting the average fitness levels when comparing to a baseline . BMI is
classified
as overweight by BMI standards . BMI would suggest him as being overweight . |
| I'm pretty depressed after a breakup. We were together for a decade, not that it matters. I've
been in
bed
for about three months, and I've showered maybe twice because I've needed to go outside. I
notice the
smell
whenever I move. It smells like a mixture of semen, piss, and shit, and it usually crusts in the
crevice
between your thighs and balls. I'm not over weight, I'm 5'9'' 160 and pretty fit tbh. Or I was.
Just
saying,
the crust is not weight related. I've deduced that some semen odor leaks from your balls through
them,
and
your farts produce a bit of shit smell that gets trapped in there. It's arguably intentional
because I
don't
give a shit. In terms of medical problem, I've gotten a few rashes that are pretty itchy. I
would
imagine
the smell is from bacterial growth, and rashes leading to lesions would be prone to infection. I
got a
few
ingrown hairs on my ass which got infected and popped themselves, just from laying I assume.
Surprising
amount of blood |
I smell bad, I notice. |
it smells like a mixture of semen , and it 's crusts in the crevice between your thighs and
balls .
semen
odor leaks from your balls through them , farts produce a bit of shit smell . |
some semen odor leaks from your balls through them , and your farts produce a bit of shit smell
that
gets
trapped in the crevice between your thighs and balls . |
I'm pretty depressed after a breakup. |
Semen smells like piss. |
I 've been in bed for a few months , and I 'm not over weight , I 've needed to go outside . I
've
gotten a
few ingrown hairs on my ass which got infected and popped themselves . |
| Hello! I'm asking for advice for my current situation. When I first met him, I had never had sex
with
anyone. I was very anxious about it because of a childhood of abuse. So this is already a touchy
subject
for
my part. During our two years together, we've encountered a few problems sexually. To keep it
short,
I'll
just list the biggest ones. Caught him looking up escorts online In the beginning, he often
rejected me
sexually while I never did it back because I wanted to be with him Frequent urinary tract
infections
Decline
in sex life, from a few times a week to about 3-4 times a month Catching him masturbating more
often
than we
have sex A recent argument where he threatened to break up. I told him that if an argument about
not
leaving
beard hair in the sink is all it takes then go. Inequality sexually, where I frequently give him
blowjobs
outside of sex and he never once offered to return the favor Caught him using porn before having
sex to
get
hard After our recent argument, I started feeling very insecure about our sex life and
relationship in
general. He is a very patient and kind guy, but I feel bad about myself sexually and sometimes I
think
he is
bored of me, and that I should just let him have someone else so he will be satisfied. I have
tried to
ask
him if there is anything he would want to do, new, differently etc, but he always replies he is
pretty
vanilla and he is very happy with how things are right now. And, I know this is probably insane,
but I
keep
thinking about how he was with his ex. He told me when we were friends that his ex kept
rejecting his
advances, which means he did make them. I feel like maybe he misses his ex when it comes to sex.
But I
don't
know. I also want to add that I'm not ugly, at least I don't think so. I'm slim, average height,
always
shaven and have been offered model jobs twice but not something fancy, just a brand for clothes
I need
advice, insight, experiences, all you have |
Our sexlife has been rocky and my insecurities are getting out of hand |
i 'm not ugly , but i do n't know what he was with his ex . i want to add that i 'm ugly , but i
misses
his
ex when it comes to sex . |
he was with his ex , but i do n't think about how he comes to sex , at least i 'm not ugly
anymore .
what do
i do ? |
My boyfriend often rejects me sexually, and I don't know what to do. |
I've never had sex with anyone before, and I don't know if I should stay or go. |
I 'm asking for advice for my current situation . I want to ask him if there is anything he
would want
to do
, but I do n't know what to do . |
| The same principle that applies to Trump applies to this guy, too they're good fall men for the
rich.
They're so blazenly evil or just plain idiotic that the public will focus all their attention on
the
personalities of the politicians, allowing legislation favourable to the rich to be passed
quietly while
nobody's looking. If the sociopathidiot gets elected again, the process above continues.
Otherwise, an
opposition candidate from the Democrat party will take over, and everybody will cheer about the
return
to
normalcy, allowing another bourgeois-friendly politician to continue the process of passing
rich-friendly
legislation unchallenged. Sooner or later, this politician will be replaced as the new trend of
right-wing
outrage and lib-owning gets yet another vile candidate in power to do even more rich-friendly
shit |
Having an evil candidate in power protects the rich. They the candidate will never be punished
because
their
status as someone evil allows them to direct attention away from the rich pursuing their
interests. |
trump applies to trump , allowing legislation to focus all their attention on the personalities
of the
politicians , allowing legislation favourable to the rich to be passed quietly . |
the same principle that applies to trump applies to be passed quietly while nobody 's looking
for the
rich .
legislation favourable to be passed men for the rich to focus on the personalities . |
If the sociopathidiot gets elected again, it will be replaced as a new trend of right-wing
outrage. |
It's not about the rich, it's about the politicians. |
If the sociopathidiot gets elected again , an opposition will be replaced as the new trend of
passing
rich -
friendly legislation unchallenged - friendly shit . Edit : I 'm not saying that this guy is
going to do
this
. |
| so this thought has been running through my head the past few days i'd love to hear what you
think. if 1
we
believe that life begins at conception not at birth, and 2 that we are born with original sin,
and 3
that we
need baptism for the remission of sin, then what do we do theologically about miscarriages? If
the
miscarried child already has a soul will it suffer the consequences of original sin? does their
need to
be
some manner of pre-birth baptism for the child incase it miscarried? now i realize the answer to
this
question is likely going to get deep into theologies of original sin, sacramentology, and the
purpose of
baptism so this should be an interesting discussion |
if the baby is alive and has a soul before birth, does it need to be baptised before birth? |
if the miscarried child already has a soul will it suffer the consequences of original sin , and
the
purpose
of baptism for the child incase it miscarried . now i 'd love to hear what you think . |
what do you think that life begins at birth , and 3 that we are born with original sin ,
sacramentology
baptism for the remission of original sin ? edit : if the miscarried child already has a soul
will it
suffer
the consequences of original sin . |
what do we do about miscarriages? |
if you believe in life at conception, do you need to be baptized? |
If the miscarried child already has a soul will it suffer the consequences of original sin ?
does their
need
to be some manner of pre - birth baptism for the child ? |
| I’m not really sure where to begin on this. I dated my ex for eight years. I’m not sure it was
ever
“good”,
but we live in a town of about 450 people, so I didn’t think I could do any better. He would get
drunk
alot,
and angry. He used to hit the wall while he was drunk and cry because he thought I was cheating
on him
with.whoever happened to be in his head in the moment. When we got a little older he turned
violent with
me.
I finally got smart enough to end things six months ago after he put his hand on my throat in a
moment
of
anger. I thought it would be the end of things, but we live in a tiny town in New Mexico. It is
impossible
to really “get away” from someone here. And he is not happy about me breaking it off. His
friends spread
nasty rumors about me. I’ve come out and found my tires slashed on my car. I have no proof, but
I know
it
was my ex or one of his friends. He occasionally texts me vaguely threatening messages, like
“We’re not
done
yet.” I have called the police before, but they havent done much other than taken a report and
called it
a
day, so I honestly don’t have much faith in them. And now I am dating sorta? a new guy. He’s
28m. He
doesnt
actually live here but he drives through every couple weeks or so and stops to hang out with me
for a
night
or two. He is really sweet and Im hoping I can make something happen with him. But word got back
to my
ex
and he is escalating. I had goddamn eggs thrown at my door the other night. “Someone” is
randomly
calling my
work and making up complaints about me. I’m done with all this and I am at the point of just
considering
running away to Tucson or El Paso or somewhere just to end this shit. What can I do? I grew up
in this
town
and I do like it here, but my ex is making living here impossible |
Live in a tiny desert town. Can’t get away from my abusive ex and he is making life unbearable.
What can
I
do? |
what can i do to grew up in this town and now i 'm dating sorta ? and how do i do like this town
?
thanks
for reading . |
my ex is making living here , but i do n't know what can i do ? i do n't know what to do , but
my ex is
making living here . |
I broke up with my ex six months ago and now I am dating a new guy. |
Dated a guy for eight years, broke up with him six months ago, found out he’s dating another
guy. |
I dated my ex for eight years . He used to hang out with me for a night or two . He is not happy
about
me
breaking it off . What can I do ? |
| Hey i'm a Music student in Glasgowuk, I want to start promoting bands and I have no money or
experience
to
speak of really. To circumvent this I'd like to organise a few gigs at free spaces and even
outside on a
park or something. Are there any people out there that either have their own equipment or just a
desire
to
do something cool and help me put on some shows, so we can both gain some experience? Honestly
musical
ability or experience is not required. In terms of playing shows outside, I'd like to organise
an event
outside for free in a nice setting. there are a ton parks here, so it wouldn't be hard, acoustic
musicians
may be more suited to thisno amps but if anyone has a portable amp that could work. If I got
permission
from
the neighbourhood and the council, it shouldn't be a problem |
I want to put on some free shows and start promoting, Does anybody play in a band that would be
interested?
Or even just wanna help me out see some cool music? even if your not in a band but play a little
or
would be
interested in coming to this, please give me a shout |
i want to start promoting bands and i have no money or experience to speak of really . i 'm a
music
student
in glasgowuk . what do i do ? |
i want to start promoting bands and i have no money or experience to speak of really . i 'd like
to
organise
a few gigs at free spaces , i 'm a music student in glasgowuk . |
I want to organise a few gigs outside for free in a nice setting. |
I want to start a music festival in Glasgow, any ideas? |
Are there any people out there that either have their own equipment or just a desire to do
something
cool
and help me put on a few gigs at free in a nice setting ? |
| My girlfriend and I have been dating officially for a month now, but we've been going on dates
and
seeing
eachother for about 3 or 4 months. We were really good friends before that for quite a while.
Before she
started going on dates with me she had to choose between me and another guy, lets call him Joe.
She had
feelings for both of us but chose me because she's had feelings for me for a longer time and is
more
attracted to me. They are still friends and see eachother everyday at work. I personally know
Joe
because I
used to work with him and he says that he respects her decision and supports our relationship. I
know he
does becuase he is that kind of guy. The problem is that my girlfriend is a flirt. She flirts to
get
what
she wants. I don't necessarily have a problem with that but I do when she flirts with Joe
because its
different. When she flirts with random people its all verbal. With Joe its physical aswell. She
says she
doesn't have feelings for Joe. I seriously quesiton it. One day she said she didn't, but then 5
minutes
later she said she did. The next day she says she doesn't. I don't know anymore. I feel that I
have a
legitmate reason to be curious as to what they text about and when they are together to get
jealous. She
doesn't think I do and she feels like I don't trust her. We had a fight about it on Sunday and
we talked
about it later that day and I thought we were good because she said we were and we discussed
some things
for
both of us to work on. When I left her house we were both in a good mood and were no longer mad.
However,
yesterday she was pissed off again and has been ever since. We haven't talked about anything yet
regarding
why she is mad currently, but we've both agreed we need to soon to work more things out. How do
I convey
to
her that I am concerned about our relationship given her relationship with this other guy? How
do I get
over
this jealousy or at least tone it down a little |
GF is very flirtatious with another guy that she used to have feelings for. I feel I have a
legitmate
reason
to be concerned, she doesn't agree. Argument broke out, now we're both pissed at eachother. |
how do i get over my girlfriend 's relationship with this other guy ? how do i get over this
jealousy ?
edit
: i 'm concerned about our relationship given her relationship . |
my girlfriend is a flirt . i am concerned about our relationship given her relationship down a
little .
how
do i convey to her that my girlfriend is flirt ? |
My girlfriend has feelings for another guy and I don't know what to do. |
Girlfriend and I have been dating for a month. She has feelings for another guy. I don't know
what to
do.
|
My girlfriend and I have been going on dates for 3 or 4 months . She says she does n't have
feelings for
Joe
. How do I convey to her that I am concerned about our relationship ? |
| I moved back to my old town after living with my GF from 2015 to early 2017 she broke up with me
after
being
together since 2013. We got back together 2017 in September. When she broke up with me my mom
had
recently
lost her rental place and we decided to team up and move together so we moved to another place
from 1.
April
2017 until 1 April 2018. Then we got place closer to our work, so it saved us 20 kilometers 12.5
miles
driving to work only one way. And that place is in my old town where we live now. I grew up here
and
lived
her from 1993 until 2015, so i know a lot of people here and 2 of my exes live here, few other
women
that
i’ve slept with live here. My GF was just telling me that finds this uncomfortable because all
the women
i’ve slept with and that my exes live here. I know this is her insecurity and something she
needs to
work
on, is there a way that i can help her? We live now like 13 minute driving distance and spend
2-3 days
together |
gf finds it uncomfortable that i moved back to my old city. |
my gf is telling me that finds this uncomfortable because all the women i 've slept with and i
know this
is
her insecurity and something she needs to work on . |
gf wants to work on , is there a way to help her ? i 'm slept with and that my gf is telling me
that i
can
help her uncomfortable . |
My GF is insecure about my exes living here. |
GF broke up with me, moved to a new town, moved back to my old town, and now i live here. |
My GF broke up with me after being together since 2013 . I know this is her insecurity and
something she
needs to work on , is there a way to help her ? |
| Don't want to make you sad, but I really don't think it will happen. The time to have overruled
it was
in
1992 with Planned Parenthood v. Casey. Conservatives had three new appointees to the bench in
Kennedy,
O'Connor, and Souter right before the case, After the appointment of Scalia and Thomas who
wereare super
conservative. These three were supposed to be conservative all were nominated by Republicans
each one
voted
to for Planned Parenthood 5-4 final vote. The only justices from Roe v. Wade were Blackmun,
White, and
Reinquist who all voted the same way as they did in Roe v. Wade. There is a legal ideal called
stare
decisis
which basically has respect for precedent and Roe v Wade established it Planned Parenthood
essentially
reaffirmed it so to go against it now would be a little crazy especially since it is viewed as
giving a
right, so to take away a right on top of the current ruling, and stare decisis is extremely low.
A
constitutional amendment won't occur either because not enough votes in Congress and states to
ratify it
|
Unfortunately abortion is very likely to stay is the U.S. |
do n't want to make you sad , but do n't take away a right on top of the current ruling , and
roe v wade
established it so to go against it . |
do n't want to make you sad , but i do n't think it will be a little crazy , but roe v wade
established
it
so to take away a right on top of the current ruling . |
It won't happen, but it will happen. |
It will happen, but it won't happen. |
Do n't want to make you sad , but I do n't think it will happen . The time to take away a right
on top
of
the current ruling , and stare decisis is extremely low . |
| Started playing this game in pre beta on pc. stopped playing somewhere around the release of
Oberon not
prime mind you and kinda had a falling out with a friend I used to play with all the time. I
have since
restarted playing again on PS4 and I just have to say people aren't very nice or welcoming. I
spent 45
mins
to an hour yesterday in recruiting trying to get someone to help me with lephantis and nobody
sent me a
response. I don't know I don't mind playing in pugs but some friends would be nice to have
ltrantgt |
people on ps4 suck |
i do n't know i do n't mind playing in pugs but some people are n't very nice . restarted
playing again
on
ps4 and i just have to say people are nice to have ltrantgt . |
people are n't very nice to have to say people would be nice to ltrantgt . i do n't know i do
n't mind
playing in pugs . ps4 . |
Started playing in pre beta on pc and had a falling out with a friend. |
I don't mind playing with nice people. |
I do n't mind playing in pugs but some friends would be nice to have ltrantgt and nobody sent me
a
response
. I have to say people are n't very nice or welcoming |
| I think it really depends on what each person's expectations were, and what kind of tracks you
were
expecting from Kanye. I know that people love shitting on TLOP, but I actually really enjoyed
how it had
both beautiful songs like Ultralight Beam and Real Friends as well as hype songs like Famous, No
More
Parties In L.A, and Facts. I really do like how inspirational and smooth most of these new
tracks are,
but I
was hoping for some more hype songs as well. The closest thing to a hype song here was Yikes,
and while
I do
like that song, it's not on the same level as his previous songs - MBDTF had the best songs of
this
vibe.
Don't get me wrong, I do enjoy this new album, but I don't see myself going back to it as often
as his
other
albums. It's a nice chill album to play in the background, but when I get in a Kanye mood, I'll
probably
be
going back to other albums first |
This album gives me more 808s vibes, and it's not really what I personally was hoping for. This
is the
sort
of thing I was expecting from Kids See Ghosts, except more spacey. |
i think it really depends on what each person 's expectations were , and what kind of tracks you
were
expecting from kanye . kanye songs are , kanye kanye . |
depends on what each person 's expectations were expecting from kanye , but i was hoping for
some more
of
these new tracks are , smooth most hype songs . |
It depends on what kind of tracks you were expecting from Kanye. |
It depends on what kind of person you were expecting. |
It 's not on the same level as his previous songs - MBDTF had the best songs of this vibe , but
I do n't
see
myself going back to it as his other albums . |
| Hello Reddit, coming at you with a stupid topic again. Backstory to myself I had my first
girlfriend
when I
was 19. She was most likely bi polar, constantly put me down and made me feel like shit. But
because I
thought I'd never find someone else I stayed in the relationship for 2.5 years. I finally broke
up with
her
last year early summer. I didn't try dating anyone till december. I then met a beautiful woman
at the
club I
frequent and I asked her out. We went on several dates over the next months and finally got
together in
march. Here's the problem though. I love spending time with her and we see each other basically
daily
and I
feel her affection for me as well, no doubt about that. But I just can't shake off the feeling
that she
could do better. This is especially a problem when it comes to sex. The first 3 times I couldn't
keep an
erection, because I was way too nervous. I only ever had sex with my ex before and to be honest,
she
wasn't
that attractive to me. My current girlfriend blows my mind though, I never imagined to fall
asleep next
to
someone like that. In comparison I'm a skinny ass tall dude who's basically all bones. Anyway,
since
then we
actually did have proper sex 2 times, but I was still pretty nervous. I also don't dare to
initiate
anything, because I can't get out of my own head. I know I should just stop putting myself down,
because
if
I don't this relationship is going to fail, but how can I find the self esteem I need. My past
relationship
really left me broken and I can't seem to pick up all the pieces. I always wanted to find
someone like I
did
now, but I can't fully enjoy it while being stuck in my head |
Past relationship made me feel like shit. Now I can't fully enjoy the time with my wonderful new
girlfriend,
because I have this feeling stuck in me that she could find someone better. This is having an
impact on
our
sex life and I wished I could just relax and enjoy life. |
how do i find the self esteem i need to pick up all the pieces ? edit : how do i get myself down
, and i
know i should just stop putting myself down ? |
how can i find the self esteem to stop putting myself down , because if i do n't know how to
pick up all
the
pieces of self esteem ? |
I can't get out of my own head because I'm too nervous. |
I can't get an erection because I'm too nervous. |
I had my first girlfriend when I was 19 . I ca n't get out of my own head . My past relationship
really
left
me broken and I do n't know what to do . |
| Its not really a clause and more like an actual limitation in FSN. Excalibur is a weird
situation
because of
its origin as a sword made by fae snd then the will of the planet but FSN EMIYA can trace it,
its just
shittier 1 rank down, and it would actually kill him when he unleashes its power using it as a
broken
phantasm, blockback and too much mana used to make it kills him. FSN Shirou just cannot
comprehend Ea,
he
can brain basically can't figure it out, so he can't trace it, Ea is a primoridial weapon made
by gods.
Nameless from Extra seems to trace Excalibur and use it fine. Miyuverse Shirou from Kaleid can
trace
Divine
constructs except Ea, apparently he really capable after being actually trained by Kiritsugu.
Then we
finally get to Muramasa, who can trace and swing around Divine constructs like Tsumugari-kun
here but
can't
handle the strain of its power |
The gist of it is now with Muramasa is that he can trace Divine Constructs but can't utilize it
fully
without dying. |
its not really a clause and more like an actual limitation in fsn . fsn shirou is a primoridial
weapon
made
by gods . fsn shirou can not comprehend ea . |
its not really a clause and more like an actual limitation in fsn . ea is a primoridial weapon ,
he ca
n't
figure it out , so he ca n't trace it . |
Excalibur isn't really a clause, it's just a weird situation. |
Excalibur is a weird sword that can't trace its origin. |
Excalibur is a weird situation because of its origin as a broken phantasm , blockback is too
much mana
used
to make it kills him when he unleashes its power using it . |
| August Underground is a good example of a genuinely terrible movie that can still have a lasting
impression.
I won't watch it again. Above and beyond the fact that it wasn't worth watching the first time,
it was
too
extreme. Extreme has to have something to carry it, a purpose or plot or solid acting, or at
least a
campy
sense of self parody. August Underground was just carnage. I binged all three a couple years
ago, and I
can
say without hesitation that I would like to get back the time I spent watching them, but the
impression
of
what unguided, unyielding, and almost unwritten and unacted was actually a valuable lesson |
August Underground offer a unique, almost unwatchable experience in extreme murder. You won't
enjoy
seeing
them, but the pain you feel is the bar being violently lowered, and your tastes recalibrating to
account.
|
august underground is a good movie , it was n't worth watching the first time , august
underground is
extreme . above and beyond the fact that it was too extreme impression . |
it was n't worth watching the first time . underground is a good movie that can still have a
lasting
impression of a genuinely terrible example of august underground . |
I won't watch August Underground again. |
The Underground is a good movie, but not worth watching. |
Extreme Underground is a good movie that can still have a lasting impression , but I do n't
think it 's
worth watching the first time , but it was n't too extreme . |
| I haven't looked into the properties of bone, but resilient means something different when
talking about
material qualities. For something that will penetrate bone you want a high hardness, but the
trade off
is
that the material becomes brittlethink ceramic materials, you can't puncture it easily, but if
you drop
it
it breaks. The opposite of hardness it toughnessnot 100 sure that the term and these materials
tend to
be
ductile instead of brittlethink aluminum, you can easily pull it apart, but dropping it won't do
shit.
having high contact parts coated in hard materials is typical of most heavy machinery |
metal is probably a better penetrator because it's probably harder than bone, but you want your
body to
be
made of bone. Source mechanical engineer |
the trade off is that the material becomes brittlethink ceramic materials , but if you do n't
puncture
it
easily , you ca n't puncture bone you want a high hardness . |
penetrate bone you want a high hardness , but if you want high contact parts . material becomes
brittlethink
ceramic materials , you ca n't puncture it easily , but trade off is typical of most heavy
machinery .
|
If you want a high hardness, drop it. |
It's not the material, it's the material. |
The trade off is that the material becomes brittlethink ceramic materials , you ca n't puncture
it
easily ,
but if you drop it it breaks and it wo n't do shit . |
| My two closest friends are A 20 and C 25. My best friend is A. A's boyfriend made an offhand
comment
saying
I was way older and I am apparently cougar age. I have other friends my age, but I grew close to
A
during a
tough period because she was there and helped me through it. We have the same sense of humor and
I feel
like
she is the little sister I never had. I sometimes feel out of place being 7 years older, but
when we are
together we are always having a great time. But now that her boyfriend made that comment, I'm
questioning if
I'm seen as creepy |
Is it weird that my best friend is 7 years younger than me? |
i 'm cougar age , but i 'm questioning if i 'm seen as creepy as creepy and i do n't know what
to do .
edit
: grammar . |
a 's boyfriend made an offhand comment saying i was cougar age , i 'm questioning if i 'm seen
as creepy
as
creepy and i am apparently older . |
My best friend's boyfriend made an offhand comment saying I was way older than her. |
My best friend's boyfriend made an offhand comment about me. |
I feel like she is the little sister I never had , and I 'm questioning if I 'm seen as creepy .
Thanks
in
advance for any advice you guys have . |
| Honestly, sometimes it's just CasualNyan and justalazygamer that are streaming to begin with.
Like you,
I
started watching Twitch for the drops I stayed because it opened me up to interacting with fan
faves
from
the community and connects with other members, ultimately leading to ingame friending and mutual
deck
testingDiscord flow. I am F2P and honestly, between work life and home life I can't devote much
of my
time
to grinding gold and farming gems, so Twitch drops are really helpful esp. w Event tickets,
since if you
draft a decent enough deck it's essentially two free packs and a goldgem boost. Even as a
rebroadcast
watcher, I can tell you the only reason I do it is for the drops. The only streams I really stay
and
watch
and have fun with are the live ones. On the other hand, afk viweing hasn't prevented me from
clicking on
some obscure-ass stream with only like one other viewer. It doesn't prevent me from wanting to
support
them
also, and most of the time they're really welcoming and it's cool to watch their viewership
build when
you're on the ground floor |
Rebroadcasters are good for drops and boring in content, but idk why everyone seems to think
that you
can't
support small streamscommunity faves and ALSO get those resources. |
i can tell you the only reason i do it is for the drops . streams i stay and have fun with are
the live
ones
. i can tell you the only reason i do it . |
the only reason i do it is for the drops . even as a rebroadcast watcher , i can tell you the
only watch
and
have fun with are the live ones . |
Twitch drops are great for casualNyan and justalazygamer. |
It's just casual and it's fun. |
afk viweing has n't prevented me from clicking on some obscure - ass stream with only one other
viewer .
It
does n't prevent me from wanting to support them also , and most of the time they 're really
welcoming .
|
| A little back story, I was recently promoted to shift because I really care about our store,
standards,
and
about the customer connection piece. I have been one of our primary closers for the year that I
have
opened.
We have been through so many evening shifts over the past year, at least 6. Each time we get a
new
shift,
our closers try to get away with murder and doing things that our SM has told us not to do. Like
putting
teas in cups at the end of the night so we can wash the pitchers earlier, proper cleaning
methods for
our
machines, using restroom cleaner on things that are not restrooms, etc. All of this is directly
related
to
moneywaste and QASA expectations. So, I am on the floor the last few days, with another shift as
I am
still
training, and I am noticing all this crazy stuff going on as I am working with a partner that I
don't
usually work with and am noticing all the crap that they were doing that was either a QASA
violation,
wasteful, and even cash handling issues. Like taking money from the tip jar to give change to
someone
when
they forgot instead of getting me who was right there with the keys They are taking multiple
tens and
insisting on them and when they get them. I have seen so much crap that I don't even know if I
want to
be
shift anymore. Like how in the hell am I supposed to fix this. My SM is amazing and super
supportive of
her
shifts and trusts us to do what we need to do. I ended up texting her and telling her that the
partners
are
going to hate me as a shift and I don't like being hated.her response, They will get over it! I
am not
sure
how to go about getting us back to standard but not being too overbearing or micromanaging |
Just promoted to shift and expected to get night crew back into standard.not sure how to do this
without
being completely hated by other partners. |
i ended up texting her and telling her that the partners are going to hate me as a shift and i
do n't
know
what in the hell am i supposed to fix this . |
i ended up texting her and telling her that the partners are going to hate me as a shift and i
do n't
like
being hated . how do i fix this ? |
I am working with a partner that I don't know if I want to be a shift anymore. |
My shift partners are assholes and I need to get over it. |
My SM is amazing and I do n't know how to go about getting us back to standard . Edit : Thank
you all
for
your responses and advice . I am going to talk to her about this , and I am not sure what to do
. I 'm
not
sure if this is the right thing , but I really appreciate it . |
| In all honesty, given that Beautiful Mystery was posted to Adam's blog the day before Adam
posted this,
plus
all the attention Beautiful Mystery, I've always felt that Paper Tigers is extremely underrated.
As much
as
I like Beautiful Mystery, Paper Tigers is the better demo IMO. It has great lyrics and a more
acoustic
feel
that reminded me more of Sky Sailing than Owl City when I first heard it. The message is also
one I
connect
with a lot still to this very day. It became my favorite song of Adam's when it was released,
and it
still
is one of my favorites today |
Paper Tigers is underrated, and it's one of my favorite songs by Adam. |
paper tigers is the better demo . adam 's when it was released , and it became my favorite song
of adam
's
when it was released , paper tigers is the better demo imo . |
i like beautiful mystery , paper tigers is the better demo , and it 's my favorite song of adam
's when
it
comes to adam 's adam paper demo . |
Paper Tigers is the better demo IMO. |
Amazing Mystery, Paper Tigers, Sky City, Owl City |
Beautiful Mystery was posted to Adam 's blog the day before Adam posted this , but I connect
with a lot
of
Sky Sailing than Owl City when I first heard it . |
| We've been dating for just over half a year. She's wonderful in so many ways but there's a an
issue that
has
been plaguing our relationship. This is an ongoing problem that I have lots of trouble
approaching. When
my
GF gets upset because of something I do or say, I notice it almost immediately in her behavior
it's
almost a
180 -She turns away from me -She stares in one direction or closes her eyes -She doesn't respond
to any
of
my actions or anything I say Often times I don't get a chance to correct what I've done. Once
she gets
this
way, it's too late for me to do anything. She's told me before that her behavior is a
long-forming habit
that stemmed from her childhood. She had a dysfunctional family life and a lot of the time she
would
retreat
into an emotional safety zone and be silent whenever her parents especially her father yelled at
her.
So, I
know that the silent treatment is not of malicious intent, but I still have an extremely
difficult time
dealing with it. I get increasingly frustrated and often times I will leave the immediate
vicinity to go
cool off before I say something I will regret. I'm sure those of you who have been given the
silent
treatment before can relate in some way. She has said before that she wants to correct this
behavior but
it's been occurring more and more and over smaller things and she's never given me some visual
indication
that she is taking steps. I just don't really know what to do |
GF gives silent treatment whenever upset because of past near-abusive experiences, BF me needs
assistance on
helping her. |
i do n't really know what to do , and i do n't know what to do . i do n't know what to do , and
i 'm not
sure what to do . |
my gf is upset , i do n't know what to do , but my gf does n't respond to any of my actions . i
do n't
know
what to do . |
My GF has been giving me the silent treatment before and I don't know what to do. |
GF gets upset easily and I don't know what to do. |
GF gets upset because I do n't get a chance to correct what I 've done . She has said before
that she
wants
to correct this behavior but it 's too late for me to do anything . |
| While I was away a DIRECTV Satellite dish was mounted to my roof putting holes through my
shingles, I
did
not ask for it nor do I have a account with any Satellite service provider, it has their name on
the new
dish, I called and asked them to remove it but they refuse to help saying I have to have an
account
before
they will help me lol, I don't want an account with them. This happened the 26th in April, and
today an
ATT
van was putting Satellite in at my neighbors house which is unit E and mine being G I can see
how a
mistake
could happen as E and G sound similar if you were ordering over the phone. I tried explaining
this to
Directv and offered to give them the name and address to the intended customer but they
absolutely don't
give a fuck. Maybe one of you guys work there and could point me in the right direction? I just
want the
dish removed and the roof repaired, is that asking for to much |
Directv messed up and will not fix it. |
i was away a directv satellite dish was mounted to my roof putting holes through my shingles ,
it has
their
name on the new dish . directv and offered to give them the name . |
mounted dish was mounted to my roof putting holes through my shingles , i do n't want an account
with
any
satellite service provider and address to the intended customer . |
I was away a directV Satellite dish, they refused to help me remove it. |
Called satellite dish provider, they refused to help me remove the dish, and I want to know if
there is
anything I can do. |
ATT van was putting Satellite in my neighbors house which is unit E and mine being G I can see
how a
mistake
could happen as E and G sound similar if you were ordering over the phone . |
| I had a nightmare last night and the details were extremely vivid. Everyone in the dream were
people I
know
in real life and it occurred in my childhood home. When things started getting scary, I asked my
friend
if I
was dreaming and she said ‘no, I can tell you that you’re not because we hung out this morning’
and I
also
pinched my wrist and it hurt. Shortly after this, the dream became really scary and I woke up.
In my
dream,
I had memories of my previous dreams, like I had another nightmare the night before irl and i
remembered
it
in my dream. So my question is, why did my friend try to convince me that I wasn’t dreaming? Is
my
subconscious just really good at tricking me? This has never happened before, usually my lucid
dreaming
although rare for me ends as soon as someone tells me I’m dreaming |
My friend told me I wasn’t dreaming when I asked her in my dream. Is my subconscious just really
good at
tricking me to keep me in a nightmare? |
why did my friend try to convince me that i was dreaming ? in my dream , i remembered it in my
dream and
i
'm dreaming . i 'm good at tricking me . |
why did my friend try to convince me that i was n't dreaming ? memories of lucid dreaming
although rare
,
lucid dreaming , lucid dreaming , nightmare the night before irl . |
My friend tried to convince me I’m dreaming. |
I had a nightmare about my childhood friend telling me I was dreaming. |
I asked my friend if I was dreaming and she said ‘ no , I can tell you that you ’re not because
we hung
out
this morning ’ and it hurt . |
| There's some infuriatingly childish attitudes get dragged from school days and into adulthood
with drug
users. More often than not, the police could not give one flying fuck what you're doing so long
as
you're
not causing a nuisance. Don't rub blatant use in their face. Don't bother normal, sober, people.
Don't
make
a spectacle of yourself in a very public or family oriented place. That's literally all you have
to do.
You
can be as stoned as Hunter S Thompson but just sitting quietly on a park bench and why would
they bother
you? At worst you'll just look like yet another mentally challenged person which they will see
all the
time.
They can't throw you in a cell for lamenting the demise of quality Kinder Egg toys and having
dilated
pupils. Kids are convinced the police are after them because, mostly, kids are either causing a
nuisance
whether they realise it or not or putting themselves in danger. And this fear and loathing - pun
very
much
intended seems to piggyback into adult drug use. And it's nonsense. although, or course, just
like any
organisation, you're going to get shitty coppers who take the letter of the law as source of
their
personal
power over 'civilians'. I've met these coppers, too. They're a pain in the arse. But you're
going to
come
across these bell ends drugs or no. And they're few and far between |
Coppers have a duty to keep the peace. And so do you. And drugs are, at present, illegal.
Exercise
common
sense and calm the fuck down and everyone will get along. |
you 're going to come across these bell ends drugs or no . but you 're not causing a nuisance ,
sober ,
sober , sober , bell drugs . |
the police could not give one flying fuck what you 're doing so long as you 're not causing a
nuisance ,
sober , sober drugs or no matter what normal . |
Don't make a spectacle of yourself in public or family oriented places. |
Don't do drugs. Don't be a nuisance. |
Do n't make a spectacle of yourself in a very public or family oriented place . You can be as
stoned as
you
're going to come across these bell ends drugs or no . |
| I’m sorry I’ve tried looking I don’t see “network debug anywhere on my settings. I’m not sure
how I even
turned them on, almost like I typed in a cheat code it feels like. I need this shit off my
screen it’s
driving me crazy. On the HUD screen everything is turned to “ON”, I click reset to default and
it goes
away
but everything is still “ON” having to do this every single game sucks |
how do I turn off my ping in HUD |
i click reset to default and it goes away but everything is turned to '' on '' having to do this
every
single game sucks . network debug anywhere on my settings . |
i click reset to default and it 's still '' on the hud screen everything is turned to '' on the
hud
screen
debug anywhere on the screen everything is single game sucks . |
I don’t know how to fix this. |
I don’t know how to debug my network settings. |
I need a shit off my screen and it goes away but everything is turned to “ ON ” , I click reset
to
default
and it feels like I turned them on . |
| I've been with my boyfriend for six years. He's an active duty military officer and we met at
work years
ago
when I worked for the military as a contractor. I worked extremely hard to get here, and I make
pretty
good
money. I work closely with this community, and so I understand that relocation is part of the
job -
we've
just been lucky that he's been in this location for so long with only one deployment since we
met. We
have
both been married before, so despite the length of our relationship, we have always agreed that
we don't
want to get married again even though we love each other and to this point, our relationship has
now
outlasted each of our marriages. I'm only adding this because I want to make it clear that we're
sufficiently serious about one another, and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. So his
orders
for
his next assignment came down the pipe, and its for a position that he's always wanted but in a
location
that's a deadzone for my career that I've spent a decade building. I mean it - there is nothing.
Full
time
remote work in my job is not an option. I could certainly find a job anywhere, but I'd be taking
a
massive
paycut and a calculated step back if I go with him. I can't have kids, and I already have two
masters
degrees so I don't have any desire to go back to school. I'm trying to figure out what to do
here. If I
stay
here, the distance will be unmanageable - it is far, there are no direct flights. I am not
willing to do
several years of distance, but I don't want to completely give up my career. I'm afraid of
losing
momentum
if I take time off and not being able to get my position or status in this town back. I'm afraid
of
being
dependent on him or being resentful, because I absolutely love my work. However, I love him, and
I know
he
loves his work too. I don't want to push him to retire, and I know he has no control over where
he goes.
I
can't see my life going on without him in it |
My boyfriend of 6 years is moving to the middle of nowhere, and I've spent a decade climbing to
where I
am
in my career. I don't know what to do. |
i do n't want to do several years of distance , but i do n't know how to take time off and not
being
able to
get my position . |
boyfriend for six years , but i am afraid of losing momentum if i take time off and not being
able to
get my
position or status in this town back . |
My boyfriend and I have been together for six years, but I'm afraid of losing momentum if I take
time
off.
|
My boyfriend and I have been together for six years. I want to get married, but I'm afraid of
losing
him.
|
I 'm afraid of losing momentum if I take time off and not being able to get my position or
status in
this
town back . I do n't know what to do . |
| We've only been talking for two months, so I don't know why I'm feeling this guilty. I mean, we
haven't
even
kissed yet. But he's very straightforward and serious about this. a little too serious. As in,
has told
his
friends about me and talks about meeting each other's families' serious. Which is slightly
off-putting,
in
truth, but he is an amazing person, whose smile makes me smile too. I do wish to build a closer
bond
with
him. He's also very, very Christian, and doesn't know I'm bisexual. We've talked briefly about
past
relationships, but I didn't mention the fact that my ex is a woman. I fear that ifwhen the time
comes to
talk about it, I won't be brave enough, and I'll just end up pretending she was a man. I haven't
heard
him
say anything intolerant or hateful, but I'm terrified that he won't look at me the same way
anymore. I
don't
want to lose his respect. Should I tell him now, before this has the chance to become an
established
relationship? Or could I just wait a bit longer? Does he deserve to know? Any thoughts you may
have will
help me. Thank you for taking the time to read this |
met a wonderful Christian boy, and the relationship might go somewhere, but I'm scared of
ruining it by
telling him I'm bi. |
my ex is a woman , but i did n't mention the fact that my ex is an established relationship . or
should
i
tell him now ? does he deserve to become an established relationship ? |
ex is a woman , but i did n't mention the fact that my ex deserve to become an established
relationship
,
before this has the chance to become an established relationship . |
I've only been talking to a guy for two months. We haven't kissed yet, but he's serious about
it. I'm
afraid
he won't look at me the same way anymore. Should I tell him now? |
I've only been talking to this guy for two months, and I'm afraid I'll lose him. |
My ex is a man and I do n't want to lose his respect . Should I tell him now , before this has
the
chance to
become an established relationship ? Or could I just wait a bit longer ? |
| He's been corrupted, for the good or bad of the story. What was once a timid, bullied kid. Whose
life
has
been shamed, his social understanding of the world forcibly skewed by being limited to a
disgruntled
high
school kid, whose introverted personality gave him a limited circle of friends and minor
understanding
of
his female classmates. Now with the blond attache, who gave him almost unlimited amount of
power, and
slowly
warped him over the course of the past 15 chapters a newfound sense of confidence. Attached with
sinful
side
of pride, after spending so much time in the bottom of the social hierarchy and alleviated to
the very
top
he desires confirmation of his new status. Thus the Pet, and the increasing daring acts of
control |
Blond Attache is giving the social equivalent of an unlimited amount of social cocaine to a man
suffering
from depression. |
he 's been corrupted by being limited to a disgruntled high school kid , whose life is once a
timid ,
bullied kid , bullied , and minor understanding of his female classmates . |
he 's been corrupted , bullied kid , whose life has been shamed by being limited to a
disgruntled high
school kid . he has a limited circle of friends . |
The Pet is a tool for controlling the world. |
He's corrupted because he's afraid of being bullied. |
Whose kid gave him a limited circle of friends and slowly warped him over the course of his
female
classmates . with sinful side of pride , and the increasing daring . |
| About 2 years ago my English class went to Ireland for a week. On the second day we went to see
the
cliffs.
The hike was long but man that view made it really worth it. Anyway me and my friends were
always
goofing
around and so of course the Cliffs of Dover weren’t different. One of my friends went there with
his new
Dr.
Martens, which are a kinda high so the chance of you twisting your ankle is much more likely. To
make a
long
story short, he stepped on a stone, twisted his ankle, stumbled forwards a few steps and stopped
just a
centimeter before the cliff. Usually we laugh about the stupid and dangerous shit we do, but
this time
was
different. Instead of laughing i was think about what i would have said to the teachers or his
family if
he
slipped |
Friend almost killed himself there and now I get anxious every time I see a picture of these
Cliffs |
he stepped on a stone , twisted his ankle and stopped just a centimeter before the cliff .
twisted his
ankle
. twisted his new dr . twisted ankle . |
he stepped on a stone , twisted his ankle , stumbled forwards a few steps and stopped just a
centimeter
before the cliff . to make a long story short . |
Friend twisted his ankle and stopped a centimeter before the cliff. |
I laughed at a guy who slipped on a cliff. |
My friends stepped on a stone , twisted his ankle , and stopped just a centimeter before the
cliff .
Instead
of laughing i would have said to the teachers or his family |
| If PS4 is an option I'd highly recommend it there, co-op and all that is way more accessible on
the PS4
version. Yes I would also highly recommend it. As far as Dark Souls games go it is the easiest
and
slowest
paced, also for build variety it easily takes the number 1 spot for me |
Try to get it on PS4 if possible, but either option is fine and yes, get the game |
if ps4 is an option i 'd highly recommend it there , also for build variety it easily takes the
number 1
spot for me . as far as dark souls games go it is the easiest and slowest paced , co-op and all
that is
accessible on the ps4 version . |
if ps4 is way more accessible on the ps4 version . co-op and all that is the easiest and slowest
paced
paced
paced ps4 games go it is option . |
If PS4 is an option I'd recommend it. |
I recommend co-op. |
co - op and all that way more accessible on PS4 version . Edit : I should add that I do n't want
to do
it ,
but it does n't matter . |
| So I’ve been a fan of the marvel movies since around 2012 when I first saw the Avengers. I’m one
of
those
guys that started reading the comics after getting interested in the movie but I have grown to
fall in
love
with comics. It has become a major hobby of mine. I’ve been wondering for a while if many of the
MCU
movies
are based on any specific books? I know that Iron Man 3 is roughly based on the Extremis arc in
the iron
man
series. And obviously that Infinity War is based on the Infinity Gauntlet book. I love reading
the
comics
and making the comparisons while watching the movies but I was just wondering if any of the
other movies
are
based on any source material. I plan on rewatching Spider-Man Homecoming soon and I was hoping
to find
whatever comic arc it was based on if there is one and make those comparisons on this watch.
Also with
Captain Marvel coming out, I’d like to figure out what storyline her movie will be based on and
read
that
before the movie comes out. I don’t imagine there’s enough info about that yet though. Another
one I’d
be
interested in finding the source material for is Ant-Man and The Wasp. I love seeing them pull
scenes
directly from the comics like in The Defenders when Matt Murdock introduces himself as Jessica
Jones’
attorney. This ended up being way more jumbled than I’d originally hoped |
I’d like to find the source material for some of the MCU moviesNetflix series. |
if many of the mcu movies are based on any specific books that iron man 3 is roughly based on
the
extremis
arc in the iron man series . iron man 3 is ant-man and the wasp . |
if many of the mcu movies are based on the extremis arc in the iron man 3 is roughly based on
the iron
man 3
is ant-man and the wasp . |
What are the other movies based on any source material? |
Are there any movies based on the Infinity Gauntlet? |
Iron Man 3 is roughly based on the Extremis arc in the iron man series . I love seeing them pull
scenes
directly from the comics when Matt Murdock introduces himself as Jessica Jones . |
| so I have chronic migraineschronic daily headachescluster headaches and I've currently fallen in
love
with
dabs but I also love flower honestly but the smoke man, the smoke can give me a headache which
is
exactly
what I don't want so what can you guys suggest as an alternative? I know edibles would be
obvious but
they
just don't seem to work for me or maybe I'm not trying the right one? I've tried a tincture as
well but
didn't feel shit even after basically pouring it down my throat |
I need a smoking device that won't give me a smoke headache and any suggestions on strong
ediblestinctures
that may help |
i have chronic migraineschronic headaches and i 'm fallen in love with dabs and i 'm not trying
to work
for
me or maybe i guys suggest as an alternative . |
i have chronic migraineschronic daily headachescluster headaches and i 'm not trying the right
one . i
love
dabs . smoke man , the smoke can give me a headache . |
what are the best edibles for chronic migraineschronic headaches? |
I have chronic migraines and I'm looking for an alternative. |
I have chronic migraineschronic daily headachescluster and want to know what I can do to help as
a
alternative . Thanks in advance for any help you guys can help ! Thanks ! |
| This is an extremely hard question to pose but I really need help with this. I currently work at
a movie
theater, and there is an usher there — let’s call him J. J is a perfectly nice person, but he is
quite
severely mentally challenged. Like he only works one day a week as an usher, can’t drive, lives
in a
group
home, and you can tell just by looking at him that there’s something wrong with him
macrocephaly, short
stature, awkward gait. Oh, and he’s at least 40 years old. He could be my dad! Anyway, J has a
raging
crush
on me. He gets super excited when he sees me and is like “My best friend! I love you. We should
hang out
some time.” And he is quite handsy, too. Two weeks ago, he gave me a shoulder massage as I was
clocking
in
for my shift. I backed away and told him no, but I don’t think he understands certain social
cues, like
that
touching people like that is not socially acceptable. Anyway, for whatever reason, I have a
pattern of
attracting guys like J, and my mom likes to guilt trip me for not being interested in them.
She’s like
“You
don’t have to have sex with them, Carly! Just be nice and be their friend!” Sorry mom, but I am
looking
for
a suitor with whom I can connect on a deeper level and with whom pursue a meaningful and mature
romantic
relationship. I can’t do that with J. I keep trying to explain to her that if someone is
mentally
challenged
enough, that sex with them could constitute statutory rape, but I feel like my mom wants me to
be
someone’s
caregiver instead of someone’s significant other. She has actually suggested I date someone like
J
because
“regular guys won’t find you beautiful or desirable |
I don’t want to date a much older, severely mentally challenged man and I feel very conflicted
about it.
|
i ca n't do that with j , but i feel like my mom wants me to be someone 's caregiver instead of
someone
's
significant other than caregiver . |
mom wants me to be someone 's caregiver instead of someone 's rape , but i feel like my mom is
mentally
challenged enough , that if someone constitute statutory rape . |
I am looking for a suitor with whom I can connect on a deeper level with. |
I have a crush on a mentally challenged coworker and I don't know what to do. |
I work at a movie theater , and my mom likes to guilt trip me for not being interested in them .
She has
actually suggested I date someone like J because “ regular guys wo n’t find you beautiful . |
| Hi, throwaway as my Mum is awesome and uses Reddit, don't want her knowing this my account. Over
the
past
couple months, my girlfriend and I have been thinking more and more of getting a place together.
We both
have inheritance and it makes sense to invest in property. We're very much happy despite it only
being 3
years together, and we both know what we have to do should worse come to worse. Sounds good,
right? My
issue
is with my Mum. My Dad left at an early age I still see him now and he already knows and is
supportive
of my
decision, I love my Dad very much. and for a long while my Mum took all the burden of me and my
brother
24M
growing up. We never had much money but my Mum provided us with what she could, clothes, food,
haircuts
etc
etc and has been there for us when we needed help emotionally. She has no issues with my GF at
all and
treats her like the Daughter she never had. She even buys random clothespresents for her all the
time!
They
get on really well. My issue is that when I'm thinking of telling her about moving out, I get
this real
sense of guilt. She has been such a great Mum to me and I don't want to upset her with this
suggestion
of
getting a place with my girlfriend. I want her to know that this isn't me leaving for good, but
I want
to
let her know that this is something I really want to pursue to kickstart my future. I really
don't know
how
to approach this with her without inadvertently upsetting her. I know i'm an adult and this post
seems
kind
of childish, but I just don't know what to do. Any advice, Reddit |
Not sure how to approach moving out to my Mum without upsetting her. She's been a great Mum my
whole
life
and I feel guilty every time I want to talk to her about it. |
i want to upset my girlfriend 's with a suggestion of getting a place with my girlfriend and i
do n't
want
to pursue to kickstart my future . what should i do ? |
she has been such a great mum to me and i do n't want to let her know that this is something of
getting
a
place with my girlfriend . |
I want to get a place with my GF, but I don't know how to tell her without upsetting her. |
My Mum and I are getting a place together and I don't know how to approach her about it. |
My girlfriend and I have been thinking more and more of getting a place together , but I want to
let her
know that this is something I really want to pursue . |
| I've been on 200mg Lamictal lamotrigine for 7 or 8 years, and I missed my meds 2 days in a row
due to
losing
my prescription bottle and having insurance issues while trying to replace it. It's been a few
days
since I
got that figured out, and I'm still having really weird symptoms. I'm not sure if it's
withdrawal or
something else, so thought I'd post here to see if anyone has any insight. It's really hard to
describe,
but
I kind of feel like things are slightly in slow motion. I also have reduced feeling in my hands
and
face.
The face is the most noticeable it's similar to getting numbing shots at the dentist. I know
everything
looks normal and is working like it should, but it's hard to feel what my face is doing when I
speak or
smile or generally emote. The hands thing is weird, too touching things just feels different
than usual,
and
typing seems like a bit of a chore especially on my phone. My depth perception is also slightly
off. Not
super incorrect, exactly. I can still reach things or drive or walk pretty naturally, but
everything
just
feels off slightly. I've missed my meds for a dose or two before and have felt normal after one
pill
while
getting back on schedule, but I've now had 3 doses approximately on schedule and still just
feel. Weird.
I
barely remember my day at work yesterday, and actually made up an excuse and left early because
I felt
so
out of sorts. Sorry for the wall of text. I guess |
I feel weird as fuck after missing a couple of Lamictal doses. Wondering if it's withdrawals or
a brain
tumor. |
it 's been a few days , but i 'm still having really weird symptoms . slow motion is slightly in
slow
motion
. slow motion motion motion reduced feeling in my hands . |
it 's really hard to describe , but i 'm still having really weird symptoms . i do n't know how
to
reduced
feeling in my hands and face . |
I've been on 200mg lamictal lamotrigine for 7 or 8 years and I'm still having weird symptoms.
|
I've been on Lamictal for 7 years and I'm having withdrawal symptoms. |
I missed my meds 2 days in a row due to insurance issues while trying to replace it . I 'm not
sure if
it 's
withdrawal or something else , but it 's hard to feel what my face is doing when I speak or
smile or
generally emote . |
| Hey guys. I'm currently a second-year Pre-psychobiology student here at UCLA. These past 2 years
have
been
very stressful for me as I feel like I'm not living my full potential. I do only ok in classes,
and I'm
having trouble motivating myself to get involved in much extra curricular activities. In short,
I just
feel
like my confidence is not where it used to be and I'm feeling like I'm not growing or improving
as a
person
at all. I've had the idea of taking a sort of gap so I can have more time to figure things out.
However,
I
realized that I want to commit to trying to improve my life in general by doing something
different for
myself. I was wondering if it's possible to take a whole year off so I can focus on doing EMT
trainingwork
all the while taking an internship I know I can apply for so long as I have medical experience.
This
process
would probably take over a whole year but I feel like it would give me the tools and experience
that I
need
in order to be more driven and confident as I finish college so I can graduate doing more than
just
doing
classes |
I want to try to take a whole year off so I can focus on brining my life back up. I still want
to finish
my
degree and I intend on coming back after a year gap. What is the process of doing this and is
this
feasibledifficult to pull through? |
if it 's possible to take a whole year off so i can focus on doing something different for
myself . i
want
to commit to trying to improve my life in general . |
if it 's possible to take a whole year off so long as i want to commit to trying to improve my
life in
general by doing something different for myself . |
Is it possible to take a whole year off so I can focus on doing EMT training all the while
taking an
internship? |
I'm a second-year pre-psychobiology student and I'm wondering if it's possible to take a year
off to
improve
my life. |
I want to take a whole year off so I can focus on doing EMT trainingwork all the while taking an
internship
I know I can apply for so long as I have medical experience . |
| Alright. So someone told me that every year, gardening is an experiment And boy are they right.
On to
the
issue. I planted 34 asparagus. I dug the trenches. I added compost, etc, etc. However, I
misunderstood
when
it said to add soil every 2-3 weeks. I thought that it meant once they SPROUTED to add more
soil, then
repeat. So basically, I think I have asparagus popping up they literally look like tiny
asparagus is it
too
late to add more soil? How bad did I fuck it up? It's been exactly 4 weeks today. Only about
5ish of the
plants are actually showing |
my reading comprehension needs work |
i have asparagus popping up they literally look like tiny asparagus is it too late to add more
soil
every
2-3 weeks . what bad did i fuck it up ? |
i have asparagus popping up they literally look like tiny asparagus is it too late to add more
soil and
soil
every 2-3 weeks . what bad did i fuck it up ? |
I have asparagus popping up. |
How did you add more soil? |
How bad did I fuck it up ? Is it too late to add more soil ? Edit : Thank you all for your
responses . I
think it 's a good idea . |
| I want to retire at 35 LATEST. Reason being there are so many things you can do at 35 that you
can't at
65.
I've been looking into this on the internet. There are lots of get-rich-quick schemes, or SCAMS.
People
tell
you to start your own business. Or you have to be proficient at coding or website building. The
Dave
Ramsey
equivalent models are modelled around retiring at 65ish. Cryptocurrency has no intrinsic value
and not
worth
holding. I have a full-time career as a financial associate. I know that if I develop in this
field I
can
reach upwards of 100k annual income. I have 6.5 years left until I reach 35. I hold some
tax-sheltered
mutual fund shares designed for high growth, global equity-heavy, and a portion of my portfolio
is
industry-specific science tech. But their growth is 15 percent annual tops and regular investing
for the
next 6.5 years won't reach 2 million. What should I do |
I want to retire at 35 but conventional careers don't make enough money. Any realistic method?
Looking
to
work hard towards them. |
you ca n't at 65 . 65 latest is so many things you can do at 35 that you want to start your own
business
.
you tell you to start your own business . |
i want to start your own business . i have a full-time career as a financial associate . i ca
n't at 65
but
you can do at 35 latest . |
I want to retire at 35. What should I do? |
I want to retire at 35. |
I want to retire at 35 LATEST and have a full - time career as a financial associate . What
should I do
?
Edit : Thank you all for your input . |
| After watching long sword users trip me all day as the hammer user at lunatras head all day
please
understand your job before you go near the head of a monster is the tail and anything else
breakable on
the
monster before you going joining me at the head |
please be mindful of people using bigger weapons |
long sword users trip me all day as the tail and anything else breakable on the head of a
monster is the
tail and anything else breakable on the head of a monster . |
lunatras head all day as the hammer user at lunatras head of a monster is the tail and anything
else
breakable on the monster before you going joining me at the head . |
learn your job before you go near lunatras head |
please don't go near the head of the monster. |
please understand your job before you go near the head of a monster is the tail and anything
else
breakable
on the monster before you going joining me at lunatras head all day |
| I am a freshman in high school, currently in a concert band, and will be moving to symphonic
wind
ensemble
next year, and am currently planning on upgrading from my current clarinet. Right now I am using
an old
Clarinet that I got way back in 5th grade. I leased it for a few years, and bought it on the
cheap a few
years later. It has served me well, but I feel like I need to move on from this one next year.
It has a
fairly cheap sound, and the my director recommends an upgrade. We probably won't get it until we
come
closer
to the start of next school year, around August. But, we are beginning the process now. Any
recommendations
on where to start looking and what would be a reasonable price |
Where should a high schooler start looking for their first nice clarinet? |
need recommendations on where to start looking and what would be a reasonable price in a concert
band .
concert band , and will be moving to symphonic wind ensemble next year . |
i am a freshman in a concert band , and will be moving to symphonic wind ensemble next year ,
currently
planning on where to start looking and what would be a reasonable price . |
Moving to symphonic wind ensemble next year, need advice on where to start looking. |
I need to upgrade my clarinet in a few years. Where should I start? |
I feel like I need to move on from this one next year . Any recommendations on where to start
looking
and
what would be a reasonable price for price ? Thanks ! |
| Alright so. Basically, the only viable pistol is the Makarov. It does a nice amount of damage
for it's
price, diverse ammo and etc. Now we have, let's say, the P226. It costs around 15K roubles in
comparison
to
4K, not adding the other parts 9x19mm expensive ammo and mags. The ammo types, perform basically
the
same,
penetration difference doesn't go over 5 and probably same for damage. Sooo. I have a suggestion
why not
lower the price of those better pistols, so that the price difference would be up to like 3-5k
in
difference? Same with the automatic one, it was quite viable and awesome before the major
increase in
price,
but now? It's recoil is insane, the only reason you'd take it is because you're already taking
over 500K
in
gear. Same with night-vision. Sure, it gives you an amazing advantage over those who don't have
it, but
the
thing is, those who don't want to waste around 150K roubles, aren't going to buy it and only go
daytime.
For
this, the suggestion would be why not lower the price, or make raid time not selectable? That
would make
it
at the very least viable, because right now, why would you buy it? Except for the first
peacekeeper
quest of
course. Same for flashlights not counting lasers. They give away your position like an autist
screaming
in
some dark alley and are way too expensive. In the long run, after you played a bunch and
accumulated
lots of
wealth, it's not really noticeable that they cost like 8k alone besides the attachments they
need, but
early
on? Come on |
prices need to be lowered to make them viable, but not lowered enough to be considered over
powered.
Pistol
mag prices could be increased in addition to the ammo price changes making them cost a nice
amount and
not
be a throwaway. |
the suggestion would be why not lower the price , or make it at the very least viable , because
right
now ,
the only viable pistol is the makarov . |
the suggestion is the makarov quest , or make it at the very least viable , because right now ,
why
would be
why not lower the price , not selectable ? |
Lower the price of the Makarov, or make raid time not selectable. |
The Makarov is the only viable pistol in the game right now. |
The price difference does n't go over 5 and probably same for damage . They give away your
position like
an
autist screaming in some dark alley and are way too expensive . |
| Hello, I am posting this to see if anyone has any good ideas about how to create a variable
number of
MapViews to be displayed in respective cells of a CollectionView, without consuming a shit-ton
of
memory.
Last I tried, I reluctantly instantiated a new MapView for each cell in the collection view, and
unsurprisingly, this consumed way too much memory ~500Mb. Any ideas or insights would be greatly
appreciated
|
Need unique map views for each cell, trying to avoid using too much memory. |
how to create a variable number of mapviews to be displayed in respective cells of a
collectionview ,
without consuming a shit-ton of memory , and unsurprisingly , memory ~ 500mb . |
how to create a variable number of mapviews to be displayed in respective cells of a new mapview
,
without
consuming a variable number of memory . i am posting this to see if anyone has any good ideas ?
|
How do I create a variable number of MapViews to be displayed in respective cells of a
collectionView?
|
How do I create a variable of a number of cells? |
Looking for a variable number of MapViews to be displayed in respective cells of a
CollectionView ,
without
consuming a shit - ton of memory . Any ideas or insights would be greatly appreciated |
| I mean, for the most part, subreddits are not policed. Once people subscribe to a bunch of
subreddits,
they've made their personalized front page and don't even look at what subreddit a post is
posted to.
They
just upvote it because they like it. I believe more mobile users are the cause of many
subreddits having
irrelevant posts getting upvoted. On mobile people tend to stick to their frontpage and scroll
down. On
the
computer, people generally click on various subreddits and browse that way. Mods of certain
subreddits
don't
remove the posts because more content to their subreddit is positive. The heavily policed ones
have less
content and aren't featured on the front page as much. So sometimes it's not really in the
interests of
the
mods to remove posts |
Basically, what I'm saying is that it is up to the subscribers to self-police and you shouldn't
really
worry
about these types of comments. Lots of times it leads to people sharing the correct subreddit,
which
gives
smaller subreddits their deserved attention. |
subreddits are not policed . so sometimes it 's not really in the interests of the mods to
remove the
posts
. mods of certain subreddits do n't remove the posts . |
subreddits are not policed , subreddits do n't remove the posts because more content to their
subreddit
is
positive . i mean , for the most part of the mods to remove posts . |
More mobile users don't remove posts because they like it. |
I don't think it's a big deal. |
Once people subscribe to a bunch of subreddits , it 's not really in the interests of the mods
to remove
posts because more content to their subreddit is positive . Edit : spelling |
| It seems people are divided on the subject. On one hand, a mostly un-vocal majority seem to
doubt its
effectiveness, while a highly vocal tiny minority seem to praise its effectiveness. This
evidence may
reveal
more truth than I can assure at this moment. In any case, I’ve forgotten to mention that i am
actually
at a
satisfactory level in Japanese at the moment. For it only being over a year, I’ve been making
strides in
the
right direction as far as what resources I use and how I use them. I’m actually expecting a lot
from the
future henceforth, I know what I’m doing now is going somewhere awesome. At least that’s what my
gut
tells
me |
I can’t for sure say that ajatt will work. But I also don’t think there’s harm in trying. I will
continue to
study while putting the ajatt method into affect. I just have a right feeling about it. |
i 'm actually at a satisfactory level in japanese at the moment , japanese is divided on the
subject .
japanese is going to mention that i 'm doing now . |
what i 'm doing with a satisfactory level in japanese at the moment , i 'm not at a satisfactory
level
in
japanese at the future henceforth , forgotten to mention that i am actually expecting a lot from
the
future
henceforth . |
I don’t know what I’m doing. |
I’m not saying it’s not effective, but I’d like to think it is. |
I am at a satisfactory level in Japanese at the moment , I know what I ’m doing now is going
somewhere
awesome . What do you guys think ? EDIT : Thanks for all the responses . |
| Hi fellow UH residents. Lately, a group of students has been partying out of control by the pool
and
blasting heavy bass from the late afternoon to the early AM on a semi-regular basis. I can feel
my room
shake pretty high up in the building, and I can only imagine what it is like for the lower
floors.
Calling
security does nothing - they only go out and say something half the time, and when they do, the
group
just
turns their bass up higher. I went down to talk to management about it today, and the building
manager
told
me that the building has a strict policy against parties by the pool after 9pm. Obviously, it
hasn't
been
enforced lately. If you have noise complaints, the manager recommended that you bring them to
the front
office so that they can build a case against these people and possibly fine them. Hate being
that guy,
but
something has to be done. I'm all for people partying, but I don't want to hear your music in my
apartment
as if I'm standing right next to the speaker |
Take noise complaints up with management if you want something to actually be done about it.
|
the building has a strict policy against parties by the pool after 9 pm . manager told me to
build a
case
against these people and possibly fine them . |
the building manager told me that the building has a strict policy against parties by the pool
after 9
pm ,
and the manager recommended that they can build a case against these people . |
If you have noise complaints, talk to management. |
Don't be afraid to talk to management about it. |
If you have noise complaints , the manager recommended that you bring them to the front office
so that
they
can build a case against parties by the pool after 9 pm . |
| A friend that I would consider to be in my close circle of friends has been acting suspicious
recently.
Last
week she texted my boyfriend suggesting that they surprise me and take me out to celebrate my
test
score.
Obviously my boyfriend told me what she said and I even typed some of the texts to her on his
phone
politely
explaining that the day she wanted to go wouldn’t work. She suggested an alternate date and I
knew about
this since I was the one texting her. When I told her that I knew about the plans she got all
upset at
my
boyfriend for revealing it, as if she expects us to keep secrets from one another. Clearly she
couldn’t
take
the hint and now wants to go On the alternate date. What is strange though is that she asked my
boyfriend
directly and not me to confirm this alternate date. Since there is no longer a surprise I’m not
sure why
she
had to text him or she couldn’t ask both of us or just me?. I am sick and tired of her asking to
hang
out
with us as my boyfriend and I both have busy schedules and I’d like to spend date night with him
alone
without her tagging along |
friend is pushing boundaries and I’m not sure what to do about it. |
she asked boyfriend directly and not me to confirm this alternate date . alternate date is that
she
could
n't take the hint and now wants to go on the alternate date date . |
she asked my boyfriend directly and not me to confirm this date . strange though is that she
could n't
take
the hint and now wants to go on the alternate date . |
Friend asked my boyfriend directly and not me to confirm an alternate date. |
My friend is acting suspicious of me and my boyfriend. |
My boyfriend asked my boyfriend directly and not me to confirm this alternate date . I am sick
and tired
of
her asking to hang out with us as my boyfriend and I do n't know what to do . |
| My boyfriend let him come over and the 3 of us played Mario Kart on Nintendo switch, and some
PS4 games.
My
boyfriend went out to get us Chinese food, and left us alone. While playing, he got closer to me
and he
pretended to stretch and put an arm around me. I asked what the hell was he doing. He said that
he
enjoyed
spending time with his best friend and a beautiful woman \me. He then kissed me on the lips, and
had his
arms around my waist, and kissed me on the cheeks. I tried to squirm out. I yelled at him and
asked how
he
could betray his brother like this?! He told me that he loved me and wanted to date and sleep
with me.
He
was always sad that I dated and slept with many guys and never thought of dating or sleeping
with him.
He
wants me to leave my bf for him. What should I do now? Should I tell my boyfriend? He always
says how
awesome his brother is and that he’s looking forward to spending more time together, yet I don’t
know
how to
tell him about the kiss. My boyfriend also is insecure from being rejected in the past , and I
am his
first
girlfriend first girl he slept with, and we have discussed marriage. He knows that I am not able
to
modify
my past and ex boyfriendsguys I had sex with, but he is jealous that I have more experience than
him, as
I
had \and still have\ ex boyfriends trying to get me to come back. He wants to marry me and have
kids
with
me, and so do I |
boyfriend's brother kissed me. What should I do? |
he wants me to leave my bf for him . i do n't know how to tell him about the kiss . how do i
tell my
boyfriend ? should i tell him about the kiss ? |
he wants me to leave my bf for him , yet i do n't know how to tell him about the kiss . what
should i do
now
should i tell my boyfriend ? |
My boyfriend kissed me on the lips, and I don't know how to tell him. |
My boyfriend let me come over and play Mario Kart 3. He kissed me on the lips and said he loved
me.
Should I
tell my bf? |
My boyfriend let him come over and the 3 of us played Mario Kart on Nintendo switch . He wants
me to
leave
my bf for him . What should I do ? |
| I got rid of it by disabling 2 factor auth. 2FA is far too much trouble every one of my devices
re-prompted
me daily to re-authenticate with a code sent to one of my other devices. I was spending all my
time
authenticating. Since turning 2FA off, I still get a prompt every day or two that to keep using
iCloud I
have to authenticate with the code sent to another device. But no code is ever sent to the other
device.
At
least now I can at least just dismiss and ignore the prompts |
Apple's 2FA is a goddamned mess. Just the latest Cloud fuck-up on Apple's part. |
disabling 2 factor auth . disabling 2 factor auth is far more trouble than disabling to
re-authenticate
with
a code sent to one of my devices . 2fa is far too much trouble . |
disabling 2 factor auth . i got rid of it by disabling 2 factor auth . code sent to one of my
other
devices
re-prompted with a code sent to one of my other devices . |
2FA is too much trouble. |
2FA is too much for me. |
I got rid of a code sent to one of my other devices and I still get a prompt every day or two
that I
have to
authenticate with the code sent . |
| First time posting on reddit or rrelationships, but here we go. As the title says, I have been
with my
boyfriend since September and we have been going strong ever since. We are best friends and
partners in
crime, meaning that we have no secrets around one another, when we have any disagreements, we
like to
talk
them out and solve them and we respect each other's opinions, we have common aims and plans for
the
future.
Every time he walks into the room I am in, it brightens my day and I know for a fact that he
cares about
me
immensely. We have already exchanged I love yous and there's complete trust between the two of
us.
Recently,
he has been extremely busy with university-related stuff and starting up at a new job.
Consequently, he
is
always exhausted and tired, but nonetheless always makes time to hang with me and we have an
amazing
time
together. However, we are both very affectionate, and until recently we would make out pretty
intensely
whenever we had a chance. We don't live together, as rent in our city is pretty expensive and
are living
with each of our respective relatives. However, and in the last few days, I have noticed the
frequency
of
our kissingmake outs has fallen. I didn't want to raise the issue and talk to him before even
having a
clear
idea of what was going on in the first place, but he ended raising it up today. He told me that,
lately,
he
doesn't feel in the mood for kissing. When I asked him to tell me why he felt in such a way, he
told
that
his libido has recently gone down and that he feels drained because of the new job and upcoming
university
deadlines. I also asked if it had something to do with our relationship, and he told me that no,
that
our
relationship is great and that he doesn't want to lose me. Moreover, he has also told me before
that he
suffers from depression and as far as I am concerned, his therapist has not changed his
medication
lately.
Should I be worried reddit? I miss him kissing me, as it is always great. He always goes the
extra mile
to
reassure me that he loves and cares for me immensely |
recently, my boyfriend doesn't kiss me as often as before, yet is still incredibly warm and
affectionate
with me when i asked him about it, he told me it was because his libido has gone down recently
and he
thinks
it is because of sudden lifestyle changes |
should i be worried reddit ? do n't feel in the mood for kissing , but do n't know what to do .
edit : i
've
been going to kissing me , but i do n't know what to do . |
boyfriend does n't feel in the mood for kissing . i have been with my boyfriend since september
and we
have
been going strong . should i be worried ? |
My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time, but lately he doesn't feel in the mood
for
kissing
make outs. |
My boyfriend and I are in a great relationship, but he has lost his libido and I don't know what
to do.
|
Boyfriend and I have been going strong ever since . We are best friends and partners in crime ,
and we
are
both very affectionate , but he does n't feel in the mood for kissing . I asked if it had
something to
do
with our relationship , and he feels drained because of the new job and upcoming university
deadlines .
|
| Now my title may seem as though im still depressed about us not being together. I dont think
that’s the
case. The case is im not over how it happened. Let me explain. So we were together for about a
year and
towards the end we moved super quick. Moved in together, tried to start a familyhindsight is
2020 this
was
stupid. Well things got super stressful and our break up was disastrous. The cops ended up
getting
called,
and while im not perfect. The things that I was alleged with were not the truth at all. I was
arrested.
I
spent 12 days in jail and 1.5 years on probation. 200 days of that was on house arrest. I
legally
couldnt
see or speak to her. Which of course i followed by. I am not a criminal, but the courts didnt
see it
that
way. I did my time. I’d rather not go into detail. During this time of being away i reflected a
lot on
the
situation and her. I realized that we moved way too fast. We wanted the same outcome with each
other but
we
were taking different paths to get there and this is why it caused so many issues. I realize
that we are
not
meant to be together, but i have this void feeling. This feeling of having a bridge so burnt
with
someone i
loved to death that cannot really be repaired. I just want to actually have a resolution with
her.
Instead
of not talking to her. Im torn if i should contact her and just explain myself and hoping to
wish her
the
best in her life. I just dont like having enemies. Especially not with a person I had visions of
marrying. I
wrote a message I was planning on sending her. I read it almost everyday, but im too scared to
send it.
What
do you guys think? Thank you |
Gf and I broke up in a bad way. Things happened that landed me in jail. Im still not over how it
happened.
Just want closure, not to get back with her. |
i want to contact her , but im too scared to send it to her . resolution with her best in her
life .
resolution with her best in her life . |
im too scared to contact her the best in her life , but im torn if i should contact her the best
in her
life
. i just want to actually have a resolution with her . |
Broke up with my girlfriend of 1.5 years. We are not meant to be together. I want to have a
resolution.
|
I broke up with my gf of 1.5 years because I wasnt perfect. |
I spent 12 days in jail and 1.5 years on probation . I want to contact her and hoping to wish
her the
best
in her life . What do you think ? |
| A month ago i got my car windshield replaced by safelite. While in the process of replacing my
windshield
they some how damaged the paint of my car and dirtieddamaged my interior. I reported this to the
manager
and
he said all damages would be taken care of by them. But they want me to bring it to a shop they
regularly
take damaged customer cars to. And this repair shop is where they tell all customers to go to.
Assuming
this
is NOT the first time they damaged a customers car due to carelessness. I feel that the repair
shops
within
that safelite location are inadequate of fixing the damages - properly and professionally. Am i
legally
allowed to take my repairs else where and not to a place required by them? While also having
them pay
for
all the damages. Since they caused the damage should i not have the say to bring it where ever i
want?
Im
afraid that since the 2 shop usually works together. Then they will come up with a scheme plan
to reduce
worksmenship cost by lowering quality repair. Also i do not want them to fix it improperly and
then
going
back again to get it repaired. Waste of time. Those are the 2 primary reason why i want to
select my own
store. But hes afraid i might know someone who works at my selected shop. So i cant ask for a
paint job
while at it. I want to bring them to a small claims court but im not sure if i would win. Even
though
damages are certain to be caused by the workers. Location philadelphia, pa |
i want safelite to give me the option to bring my car anywhere i want to get it fixed while
having the
check
covered by them. Though the amount will be equal to the price of the dealership. But safelite at
the
moment
only gives me the option to have it repaired at one place. |
i legally allowed to bring it to a shop they regularly take damaged customer cars to . while
also having
them pay for all the damages and not to a place required by them . |
they want me to bring it to a shop they regularly take my repairs else where and not to a place
required
by
them . but they pay for all the damages . |
I want to bring my car windshield replaced by safelite. They want me to bring it to a shop they
take
care
of. |
I got my car repaired by safelite. They want me to take care of the damages. I dont want to pay
for the
repairs. |
I got my car windshield replaced by safelite . I want to bring them to a small claims court but
i m not
sure
if i would win . Any help is appreciated . |
| Hi friends, I did a Google and Reddit search for this specific question, but could only find
these two
links
Braun says not to expose fluids to excessive heat while EMSWorld shows research on other
drugs.but not
fluids like Lactated Ringer's or Normal Saline. Scenario you work in a desert and it gets to
127F \~52C\
at
the peak, so vehicles sitting in the sun can get much higher \I would estimate 145F with
darker-colored
vehicles. You have general-purpose med bags for each vehicle, and a full-sized bag for yourself
with
fluids,
and you keep the personal bag out of the heat. If someone is directing you to put fluids in the
vehicles,
and you know these fluids will be heated in the trucks all summer, what researchevidence would
you
provide
to show that the fluid will be harmful for a patient when it's 120-145F, as well as unusable due
to the
damage caused by storage. No medical direction to consult \this problem can't just be forwarded
to
medical
control\, just your opinions on how to navigate this scenario. I will add edit more details in
later
when
you guys bring up aspects that I forgot. Also, these are not ambulances that plug-in while
sitting.just
normal vehicles |
Is it even worthwhile to store intravenous fluids in vehicles that will be sitting in the sun
and
reaching
120F\ temperatures? |
if someone is directing you to put fluids in the vehicles , and you know these fluids will be
heated in
the
trucks all summer , but could only find these two links braun . |
if someone is directing you to put fluids in the vehicles , but could only find these two links
braun to
excessive heat while emsworld shows research on other drugs ? |
Don't put fluids in vehicles while sitting. Just normal vehicles. |
Don't put fluids in your vehicles. |
If someone is directing you to put fluids in the vehicles , what researchevidence would you
provide to
show
that the fluid will be harmful for a patient when it 's 120 - 145F ? |
| I was the second player, a sorcerer with terrible physical stats. I'd just accidentally created
Meaghan,
a
woman with the mind of an infant, and my only concern was getting her out safely, so I tied a
rope
between
us and tried to jump across, thinking I'd get the Aarakocra to help me pull her when he flew to
the
other
side. But then I rolled a 1 to jump across. So I fell onto the trap door, which opened below me
and
started
to suck me in. Meaghan was a nice sturdy dwarf, but she didn't understand what was happening and
wasn't
much
help and started to slide in as well. When the party runs up they find us both dangling from the
edge,
and
me about to cut my rope so Meaghan can escape. Happily with a lucky role they were able to save
us both
|
tied a rope to my weak sorcerer so the party was able to save me. |
accidentally created meaghan to help me pull her when he flew to the other side . edit : i 'm a
woman ,
but
i do n't know what i 'm talking about . |
i tied a rope between the mind of an infant , and my only concern was getting her out of
dangling from
the
edge , thinking i 'd get the aarakocra to help me . |
I tried to jump across a trap door and ended up stuck in a trap. |
Aarakocra saved my life. |
I was the second player , a woman with a physical stats , and I fell onto the trap door , which
opened
below
me and started to slide in as well . |
| With punches and kicks, you have a full range of movement for your limbs to provide extra
momentum.
Headbutting someone only gives you as much range as your neck will allow, which is much shorter
and thus
has
less momentum behind it. The tradeoff is that your skull is a lot harder and more dense than the
bones
in
your hands and feet. Normally, this is a viable tactic. But if you're headbutting something much
more
solid
and dense than your own skull, like a Samoan skull, then the advantage is lost, and you injure
yourself
|
Punches and kicks can have more momentum behind them, headbutts are only effective against
things less
solid
than your own skull. |
if you 're headbutting something much more solid than your own skull , like a samoan skull , and
you
injure
yourself . skull is a lot harder than the bones in your hands and feet . |
your own skull is a lot harder and more dense than the bones in your hands . but if you 're
headbutting
something much more solid and dense than a samoan skull . |
Headbutting is more dense than your own skull. |
Headbutting gives you more momentum and gives you less skull. |
Headbutting someone only gives you as much range as your neck will allow , which is much shorter
and
more
dense than the bones in your hands and dense than your own skull . |
| I haven’t had many bad interviews in my 23 years of living, but. My parents told me I needed to
get a
job at
16. Okay, fine. Typical thing for a parent to say. I apply to places like crazy for a week
straight.
Finally
I get an interview at Sonic Midwest restaurant chain. I come in 15 minutes early for the
interview and
the
hiring manager made a note of that. She asked me the typical interview questions, asked me what
my hours
of
availability were, and gave me a tour of the place. The interview was over after that and I left
in good
spirits. I wait for a week to get a response from the hiring manager, she calls me back when
after I
tried
getting ahold of her the first time. She said “Oh right! My apologies for never getting back to
you.
Please
come by for a second interview at 3pm today!” I get over there early again and wait patiently
for the
hiring
manager. She comes out with a smile on her face ready to formally introduce herself to me again.
She
goes on
and on about how you can advance a lot within Sonic seeing as she was a manager, she points over
to at
the
time brand new mustang and says “I’m living proof of that. I just paid that baby off.” and I say
“that’s
awesome! I love mustangs.” I actually do, not sucking up. She then says “However, I don’t think
you are
the
right fit so we won’t hire you.” I respond with “what’s the point of having a second interview
if I’m
not
getting the job in the end?” She literally just walks away after this. I was so confused as a
shy 16
year
old kid |
looking for first job at 16, got an interview at Sonic. Did well in the first interview. Gets a
2nd
interview just so hiring manager could brag about herself and tell me I didn’t get the job. |
i 'm not getting the job in the end , but i 'm having a second interview if i 'm not getting the
job at
16 .
16 . 16 interview interview is the point of having a second job . |
my parents told me i needed to get a job at 16 . i 'm not getting the job in the end of having a
second
interview if i 'm not getting the job at 16 . |
Got a second interview at Sonic Midwest restaurant. |
I got an interview for a Sonic restaurant. |
My parents told me I needed to get a job at 16 . She comes out with a smile on her face ready to
formally
introduce herself to me again . I just paid that baby off . |
| My friends are great - don't get me wrong. I have a blast playing casual games with them, stuff
like
minecraft, golf with your friends, etc. But when it comes to CSGO, Overwatch, Fortnite, all
relatively
competitive games, I do not enjoy playing with them. At all. I am in the upper 10 skill category
in
these
games, while they rest in the upper 90 or 80 categories, making it difficult to have fun with
them. My
question is - How do I tell them that I don't want to play with them because of this? I don't
want to
say
Look - I don't want to play with you guys because I'm better, but I don't want to just punish
myself and
play with people I consider to be dragging me down, and lowering my stats which I get that this
is
petty,
but it's something I care about because it's one of my only talents |
I'm good at competitive video games, my friends are not. How do I tell them I don't want to play
with
them
because of this. |
how do i tell them that i do n't want to play with them because i do n't want to play with
people i
consider
to be dragging me down ? |
how do i tell them that i do n't want to play with them because of this ? i do n't want to play
with you
and
play with them . |
How do I tell my friends that I don't want to play with them? |
How do I tell my friends I don't want to play with them? |
How do I tell them I do n't want to play with them because of this ? I am in the upper 10 skill
category
in
these games , making it difficult to have fun . |
| Hey everyone so my dog just had a liter of fluid drained out of him just yesterday. We don't
know
exactly
how it occurred but he is might be in the continuing stages of cancer \no clue if that
contributes to
it\
\he had one of his hind limbs amputated because of Osteosarcoma. He's been going to chemo for a
while
but we
stopped once everything seemed fine. Basically what I'm trying to say is that this came out of
nowhere,
the
cancer and more recently the buildup of fluid in his lungs. My parents were taking him for a
walk and
all of
a sudden he sat down and didn't want to get up, which was really concerning along with his
breathing
pattern. So my parents ended up taking him to the emergency to which we later found out that
there was a
buildup of fluid in his lungs. He's stable now and we have to watch him constantly but my
question is
does
just drinking water contribute to more buildup of fluid in his lungs? We're not even sure if he
has
Pulmonary Edema, this was just based off of research. Thanks so much |
Does drinking water contribute to Pulmonary Edema? |
does just drinking water contribute to more buildup of fluid in his lungs ? is does just
drinking water
contribute to fluid drained out of him ? fluid drained of fluid ? |
my question is does just drinking water contribute to more buildup of fluid in his lungs . he 's
stable
and
we 're not even sure if he has pulmonary edema . |
My dog had a liter of fluid drained out of his lungs, is drinking water contributing to more
buildup of
fluid in his lungs? |
Dog had fluid drained out of his lungs, is this normal? |
does just drinking water contribute to more buildup in his lungs ? We 're not even sure if he
has
Pulmonary
Edema , this was just based off of research . Thanks ! |
| Took a selfie with my friend today on my oneplus 5t. He was jumping in the background- regular
camera
app.
After i took the photo, i checked it out in gallery. The photo was crispy- i could see both of
our faces
clearly and he was lookin super nice in this action shot. After this i backed out and put my
phone in my
pocket. I got to another class and went to show someone. It was fine for like a second, and then
it
literally changed and he just became a blurry mess and we could nolonger see his face anymore.
I'm
trying to
figure out what happened- because we literally saw it change but we cant get it to change back.
my
friend
says its a gif- but when i bring it up its a jpg. it's one single image that was taken and its
changing.
Help anyone |
Took a photo, everything was crisp and clear earlier but now when i access it it looks blurry
and gross.
|
took a selfie with my friend today on my oneplus 5t , but when i bring it up its a jpg . jpg .
gif . gif
.
gif . |
took a selfie with my friend today on my oneplus 5t , but when i bring it up its a jpg . it 's a
gif -
oneplus 5t . |
Took a selfie with my friend today and it changed. |
I took a selfie with my friend and he changed his face. |
My friend was jumping in the background- regular camera app and i 'm trying to figure out what
happened-
because we ca nt get it to change back . Help ! ! ! |
| i honestly want to build up a relationship based on true love , trust and respect \My seek from
that to
build-up family not to play around\ my problem is i dont know how to begin i hope if anyone like
to give
me
some tips i would be so thankful for that . \i ve never been in a relationship before totally
brand-new
|
I m \25 M\ want to know How to build a relationship . i m not a social guy i tend to talk with
anyone
whenever their are reason for talking you may say that i m an introvert . what should i do any
suggestions ?
|
i want to build up a relationship based on true love , trust and respect \ my seek from that to
build-up
family not to play around \ my problem . |
want to build up a relationship based on true love , trust and respect \ my problem is i dont
know how
to
begin to play around \ family . |
i want to build up a relationship based on true love and respect. |
i want to build a relationship based on love and respect. |
i want to build up a relationship based on true love , trust and respect \My seek from that to
build -
up
family not to play around\ my problem . Thanks ! |
| I 23M have been in relationship with my Girlfriend 22F for more than 2 years. I live in another
country
doing masters. She is with her family in her home town doing her Bachelors. Lately I have been
feeling
lonely because my two roommates are on vacation and I am alone in the house for a month. I don’t
have
much
friends to hangout because I am new here. I have been repeatedly telling my girlfriend that I am
feeling
depressed and need to talk to her. I call her and she doesn’t call back or reply. She just reads
whatever
message I send her and ignores it. Yesterday she posted a photo on Instagram with her best
friend 23M
saying
about how she had great late night talks with him and how grateful she is for having a friend
like him.
As
you would expect, I lost my mind. Here I am, depressed and wanting to talk to her and calling
and
whatnot,
there she is having fun. I asked her that you don’t have time to talk to your depressed
boyfriend but
have
much time to have late night talks with him? I also asked her why are you ignoring me, not
replying to
my
calls and not caring at all. She said the post was about past when she had those talks and he
asked her
to
post the picture. I didn’t stress much on this because that’s not what I am most concerned
about. She is
pissed at me because I asked her about that and not talking to me. She couldn’t understand that
I am
alone
and depressed and just wanted to talk to her. Now, here I am even more depressed than before,
trying to
call
her. Did I make a mistake telling her about the post? What should I do now |
Girlfriend not caring about me being alone and depressed. Asked her about a post she made
yesterday. She
is
mad at me and not talking at all. |
i have been repeatedly telling my girlfriend that i am feeling depressed and need to talk to her
. she
is
pissed at me because i asked her about that and not talking to me . |
girlfriend posted a photo on instagram with her best friend 23m saying about how she had great
late
night
talks with him and i am feeling depressed and need to talk to her . |
My girlfriend posted a picture of her best friend saying she had great late night talks with him
and I
lost
my mind. |
I am depressed and my girlfriend ignores me. |
I have been dating my girlfriend for more than 2 years . I am depressed and need to talk to her
and have
much time to have late night talks with him . |
| So we all know by now that the character Famous Actor James Allen McCune was sort of eased out
and
replaced
by Jamie as a means of separating himself from his own personality there's also the whole show
within
the
show thing with season 2, but for clarity, does John Redlinger's character still see Jamie as
the Famous
Actor personality, or does he treat him like Jamie, who happens to be a famous actor |
what is the personality of the relationship between Jamie and John? |
the character famous actor james allen mccune was sort of eased out and replaced by jamie as a
means of
separating himself from his own personality , or does he treat him like jamie . |
the character famous actor james allen mccune was sort of eased out and replaced by his own
personality
, or
does he treat him like the whole show within the show thing with season 2 , but for clarity .
|
Does John Redlinger still see Jamie as the Famous Actor personality? |
James McCune was replaced by Jamie Redlinger |
we all know by now that the character Famous McCune was sort of eased himself from his own
personality ,
and
does John Redlinger 's character still see Jamie as a famous actor ? |
| So for a little context, I've been having problems with my computer since I've had it Win 10
sucks but
this
is a whole new ballfield. A few nights ago, I uninstalled McAfee from my com. It informed me
that doing
so
would remove it from the hard drive, but I haven't had problems with the hard drive after
removing
things
before, so I choose to remove it anyways. Two hours after I did this, my com. starts shutting
down
without
prompt. It doesn't go to the shut down screen to do so, it just cuts to black, similar to how it
would
if I
just pulled the battery if the com. was still on. Just immediate shut down. Now, the first time
I
started it
up after this happened, it took me to the normal start up screen with the loading dots from hell
and
gives
me a message about it being updated. It completes that, then takes me to Windows start screen.
Here's my
problem though It shuts down after being on for only 20-30 minutes. I took it to the Geek Squad,
but
they
want 100 to run a diagnostic on it. Me being a broke ass college student, I politely declined. I
was
wondering if one of you fine folks could help me figure out how to get my com. to stop acting
like it's
possessed by the vengeful ghosts of all my ex girlfriends. Thank you for reading |
Com. crashes, only stays on for 20-30 minutes after being booted back up. |
if one of you fine folks could help me figure out how to get my com , uninstalled mcafee from my
com ,
uninstalled mcafee from being on for only 20-30 minutes . |
i uninstalled mcafee from my com and mcafee mcafee shuts down after being on for only 20-30
minutes , i
was
wondering if one of you fine folks could help me get my com . |
My com shuts down after 20-30 minutes and I need help figuring out how to stop it. |
Computer won't shut down after removing hard drive. |
I 've been having problems with my computer since I did this , but it shuts down after being on
for only
20
- 30 minutes . to stop acting like it 's possessed by the vengeful ghosts of all my ex
girlfriends .
|
| Hey guys, So I just had the unfortunate event occur of loading into a raid fully geared only to
arrive
within the raid with absolutely nothing Except my wallet in my pouch. When I loaded in, my
wallet was
accompanied by my key bar, and a bunch of meds. Those unfortunately were all gone, RIP keys, but
the
wallet
survived. Looking back the Wallet was the only insured item I had in my pouch. So, insure your
docs case
key
bars fellas. Might save ya from losing a lot of hours spent grinding |
Insure your keybars even if they never leave your pouch. Bug currently that wipes what you load
in with
including Pouched items. Only items to survive for me were ones insured and inside of container.
|
my wallet was accompanied by my key bar , and a bunch of meds . so , insure your docs case key
bars
fellas .
wallet was the only insured item . |
my wallet was accompanied by my key bar , and a bunch of meds . , insure your docs case key bars
fellas
.
looking back the wallet was the only insured item . |
My wallet survived, insure your docs case key bars fallas. |
I lost my wallet in a raid. |
my wallet was accompanied by my key bar , and a bunch of meds I had in my pouch . Might save ya
from
losing
a lot of hours spent grinding keys . |
| There was this girl I liked, and she liked me back. We never officially dated or anything, but
we talked
all
the time and shared romantic feelings together and it was a great time. Her and I started to
distance a
little because we both met other, more serious people in our lives. However, it was okay for her
to like
another guy, but not me to like another girl. Once she found out I liked this girl, she started
cutting
herself and threatening suicide. She told me that she would keep doing this unless I stopped
talking to
the
girl and cut myself in return. Me, being the naive young boy I was, obliged and ended up cutting
myself
out
of fear of this girl killing herself. I figured some self harm would be nothing in order to save
this
girls
life. This progressed for nearly a year until I was told by my friends that this was not a
normal
occurrence. After being enlightened, I tried politely ending things, and then she told me she
had
leukemia
and was dying anyways, so I should stick around and make her last months happy for her. She sent
me pics
of
her with breathing tubes on and a ventilator to “prove” she had cancer. I later found out she
faked the
cancer and the breathing setup was her moms that she posed for a picture in. I eventually just
built up
the
courage to leave and haven’t looked back since |
a girl made me cut myself and faked cancer because I wanted to break up |
she sent me pics of her with breathing tubes on and a ventilator to '' prove her moms that she
posed for
a
picture in . she faked the cancer and the breathing setup . |
she sent me pics of her with breathing tubes on and the breathing setup was her moms that she
posed for
a
picture in . i found out she faked the cancer and cancer . |
I cut myself out of fear of a girl killing herself and she faked cancer. |
Girl I liked cut herself and threatened to kill herself. |
Met a girl I liked , she told me she would keep doing this unless I stopped talking to the girl
and cut
myself in return . She sent me pics of her with breathing tubes on and a ventilator to “ prove
she had
cancer . |
| Complaints about matchmaking are going to happen regardless of how good the system actually is.
There
are so
many variables involved that are outside of HiRez's control. You could literally have the same
person
play
every role on both teams in a 5v5 game and the games wouldn't be even every time. Maybe one
team's comp
is
better, maybe one guy's feeling a little sick, maybe one guy's just having a bad game, maybe
someone
made a
really smart call, maybe one guy's playing a god he isn't that comfortable with, etc. Most
matchmaking
complaints are a result of people who are unableunwilling to improve their gameplay and blame
their
shortcomings on matchmaking. Of course, there are a few edge cases here and there that are
actually
really
bad matchmaking, but that's what the matchmaking improvements are probably for. A clear
indication that
matchmaking isn't that bad is that the same players consistently reach diamondmasters. Look at
LoL or
Dota,
both have the resources and playerbase to make a really good matchmaking system, and yet both
still have
people complaining about matchmaking |
Quit if you want to, but not because of matchmaking. It's not going to be perfect and never will
be. Its
fine where its at and most complaints about it can be fixed by talking a closer look at ones own
gameplay.
|
matchmaking is going to happen regardless of how good the system actually is . matchmaking
complaints
are
unableunwilling to improve their gameplay and blame their shortcomings on matchmaking .
matchmaking
complaints about matchmaking . |
most matchmaking complaints are going to happen regardless of how good the system actually is .
complaints
about matchmaking . unableunwilling to improve their gameplay and blame their shortcomings on
matchmaking .
|
Matchmaking is going to happen regardless of how good the system is. |
The matchmaking system isn't perfect, but it's pretty damn good. |
matchmaking are going to happen regardless of how good the system actually is . There are so
many
variables
that are outside of HiRez 's control , but that 's what the matchmaking improvements are
probably for .
|
| Quick background Bought this older iMac G3 from Craigslist that the guy said was for parts. I’m
up for a
challenge, so I asked if it turned on, to which he said yes, there’s just an error message. I
buy the
computer as the outside looks mostly normal and then when I go to open the back access flap,
it’s a
little
brown. Inside, this. I’m still wondering what happened. I texted him and he says it’s “safe to
plug in”.
The
melted end of the power cord says otherwise |
Craigslist guy sold me a computer that had been on fire inside without mentioning it. |
it 's a little brown . melted end of the power cord says it 's '' safe to plug in '' access flap
.
melted
end of power cord . |
the power cord says it 's a little brown , it 's safe to plug in the back access flap , melted
end of
the
computer as the outside of power cord . |
I bought a new iMac G3 from Craigslist and it melted. |
Don’t buy a Mac from Craigslist. |
I buy the computer as the outside looks mostly normal and then when I go to open the back flap ,
it ’s “
safe to plug in ” . What do ? |
| I have a Welbilt model W73691 that I bought in 1993. i took him outside to defrost the freezer
tray as I
do
annually. I used a screwdriver to knock away some big chunks of ice stupid, I know now, and i
punctured
the
tray and coolant started hissing out. Imagine the ocean volley ball scene from the movie
Castaway.
Called
every appliance repair shop in the area and can't find anyone that works on these. Scoured the
internet
for
replacement parts or even a like model on ebay to change out parts. No luck. I am not interested
in
repairing him to save money. This guy I named him Walter at some point long ago has been my beer
fridge
for
since freshman year 25 years ago, and has worked like a champ over the past 2 decades and 5
moves
despite my
wife's requests to get rid of him. Keeps beer at perfect sub 32 temp. I am relatively handy and
work for
a
company that manufactures MiUSA tools, just not for the HVAC world so this stuff is new to me.
Any
advicelinks you have are welcome. Thanks |
Guy is way too overly sentimental about a refrigerator. Looking for advice or suggestions on how
to
repair a
Welbilt W73691 freezer trayreplace coolant sealed system. |
i have a welbilt model w73691 and ca n't find anyone that works on these . advicelinks you have
are
welcome
and work for a company that manufactures miusa tools , just not for the hvac world . |
i have a welbilt model w73691 that i bought in 1993 , called every appliance repair shop in the
area and
ca
n't find anyone that works on these . |
I have a beer fridge and need help fixing it. |
I have a W Norton model w heater. |
I have a Welbilt model W73691 that I bought in 1993 . I am not interested in repairing him to
get rid of
him
. Any advicelinks you have are welcome . Thanks ! |
| This is quite similar to how modifications and crew skill work in WoT. When a player purchased a
tank,
they
have to choose a crew for it, and train said crew by either paying a fee for 75 competency, gold
for 100
or
Spaded, according to your proposal, or they can have the crew be trained at 50 for free. The
player can
buy
repair kits, fire extinguishers and first aid packs as soon as they get the tank for a small
amount of
the
in-game currency, and instead the player researches different guns, turrets engines etc for the
tank and
trains the crew all the while. While a crew is being trained, they improve their tankgun
handling,
reloading
etc. A crew reaches its full capacity at 110, where it can then train special skills, such as
better
handling, being able to tell when a tank is looking at you, better turret traversegun handling
etc |
this is like what they have in that other game, good job |
crew skill work in wot . when a player purchased a tank , they have to choose a crew for it , or
they
can
have the crew be trained at 50 for free . |
modifications and crew skill work in wot , gold for 75 or spaded , according to your proposal ,
and
train
said crew be trained at 50 for free . |
A crew can train the crew all the while a tank is being trained. |
Tanks can be trained to deal with tanks better than tanks. |
A crew reaches its full capacity at 110 , where it can then train special skills , being able to
tell
when a
tank is looking at you , better turret traversegun handling etc |
| Today my boyfriend's boyfriend called me to let me know that our boyfriend had lied to us and
gone to a
club
and met up with an ex that was very unhealthy for him. He told us that he was going to look for
a casual
hook up, which would have been absolutely okay, but instead, he had been in contact with this
guy and
that
is a clearly defined relationship boundary. We all had clearly stated that we were all not okay
with him
even being in contact with this guy because he was super abusive and our boyfriend would
re-establish
that
unhealthy connection with him. The third partner is unaware because they're asleep, but the two
of us
who
know feel like he was willing to put all three of these relationships on the line for one night,
which
is
really hurtful. When he called his boyfriend to pick him up, he got in the car expecting
everything to
be
okay, as if he hadn't just done something really hurtful and unacceptable. As if he didn't just
use his
partner for a ride. He ended up not seeing the guy, but not out of care for us, but because he
found out
that the guy was bringing someone he didn't like. He didn't take our feelings into consideration
and it
really really hurts. Does anyone have any advice? I want to be empathetic because he's been
going
through a
really hard time with his mental health, and there is an underlying cause as to why he did this,
but
it's
still a huge violation of trust and I want him to understand how absolutely unacceptable and
hurtful
this is
to all of us. I would like to try to preserve this relationship, but I'm not sure if that's
healthy, or
even
possible consider how he betrayed my personal trust |
bf went to see an abusive ex and crossed major relationship boundaries, can I preserve this
relationship?
|
boyfriend had lied to me to let me know that our boyfriend betrayed my personal trust . i 'm not
sure if
that 's healthy , or even possible . |
my boyfriend 's boyfriend called me to let me know that our boyfriend had lied to us and gone to
a club
and
met up with an ex that was very unhealthy for him . |
Boyfriend's boyfriend lied to us and went to a club, met up with an ex that was very unhealthy
for him,
and
we all agreed that we were not okay with him even being in contact with him. He found out that
the guy
was
bringing someone he didn't like, and it really hurts. |
My boyfriend's ex called me and my boyfriend to let us know that he was going to a club with us.
He lied
and
said he was okay with us hooking up with him, but we were in an unhealthy relationship with him.
He
ended up
seeing someone else and didn't take care of him. Is this a violation of trust? |
boyfriend 's boyfriend called me to let me know our boyfriend had lied to us and gone to a club
and met
up
with an ex that was very unhealthy for him . I want to try to preserve this relationship , but I
'm not
sure
if that 's healthy . |
| REM cycles average 1.5 hours. So theoretically a person could take 2 3 hour naps during a 24
hour period
and
function just like anyone else. However it's not just REM sleep that we need. Certain hormones
such as
insulin balance themselves while we sleep. We also need a rest period for our muscles to fully
recover
|
It's better to get 8 hours of sleep then 6 and two. |
we need a rest period for our muscles to fully recover . so theoretically a person could take 2
3 hour
naps
during a 24 hour 24 hour period . |
we need a rest period for our muscles to take 2 3 hour naps during a 24 hour period .
theoretically a
person
could take 2 3 hour naps . |
It's not just REM sleep. |
It's possible but we need to balance ourselves. |
We need a rest period for our muscles to fully recover while we sleep . Edit : Thanks for all
the advice
everyone . I really appreciate it . It 's not a big deal . |
| My best friend has recently been diagnosed with a chronic and incurable disease. Before the
diagnosis,
she
did use to feel headaches and pains and i always used to do complete tasks and assignments for
her and
even
massage her and bring and cook food for her. Although we are just friends but we are very close
and
trust
each other a lot. But after the diagnosis, she is avoiding and ignoring me and trying to be
distant even
though i want to be close with her all the time and take care of her I feel like she is
depressed. Do
you
know why does she seem angry or trying to avoid me and not letting me take care of her? Any
suggestions
on
what i can do to make her feel that she is unconditionally loved no matter what and to help her
in this
difficult time |
My best friend seems depressed because of her recent diagnosis of an incurable disease. Why does
she
seem to
be avoiding me and being distant? How can i show that i love her unconditionally? |
my best friend is diagnosed with a chronic and incurable disease . i want to be close with her
all the
time
and take care of her i feel like she is depressed . |
my best friend has recently been diagnosed with a chronic and incurable disease . i want to be
close
with
her i feel like she is depressed and ignoring me . |
best friend has chronic disease and i want to be close with her all the time and take care of
her. |
My best friend is depressed and i want to help her. |
best friend is depressed and i want to be close with her all the time and take care of her . Any
suggestions
on what i can do to make her feel that she is unconditionally |
| In every incarnation it has ever had, it has been either garbage that nobody wants, or so broken
OP on
some
champs that it's manually disabled from doing what it says on the tooltip. The core mechanic of
multiplying
on-hit effects is too strong for any champ that relies on on-hit effects, while taking up too
much of
the
item budget to be used effectively by champs that don't care about on-hits. It was an attempt to
make a
ranged version of Hydra, but Hydra is fine because it's melee-only and only applies damage and
lifesteal
|
If an effect has to be manually disabled whenever it's good, it's bad design and should just be
removed.
|
it 's melee-only and only applies damage and lifesteal . hydra is fine because it 's manually
disabled
from
doing what it says on the tooltip . hydra is garbage . |
it 's an attempt to make a ranged version of hydra , but it 's a disabled from doing what it
says on the
tooltip , hydra is fine . |
Hydra is fine because it's melee-only. |
It's not broken, it's just OP. |
Hydra is too strong for any champ that do n't care about on - hit effects , but Hydra is fine
because it
's
melee - only and only applies damage and lifesteal . |
| Treats cover it all. The way they get dogs to sniff around maybe looking for clues in the story
is to
condition the dogs to look for treats in those places. If the dog found a treat there 9 times
practise
runs,
why wouldn't it be there the 10th time actual shot? You can notice this when the dog is supposed
to be
lying
quietly or barking. They're always barking at looking at the trainer off screen. They never look
like
they're just chilling cos they're not - in their mind they're on the clock looking for their
next cue
|
Movie dogs are trained the same way your dog is trick trained. Just more professionally. |
if the dog found a treat there 9 times practise runs , why would n't it be there the 10th time
actual
shot ?
barking . dog is supposed to be lying quietly or barking . |
if the dog found a treat there 9 times practise runs , why would n't it be there the 10th time
actual
shot .
clues in the story is to condition the dogs to look for treats in those places . |
Treats cover it all. |
Treat your dog like a dog. |
If the dog found a treat there 9 times practise runs , why would n't it be there the 10th time
actual
shot ?
They never look like they 're not - in their mind they 're on the clock looking for their next
cue .
|
| Hi Reddit! I just started therapy 3 weeks ago and this has been on my mind for quite a while.
Since
starting
therapy and talking about it more I kind of now obsess over this topic. I'm 22 now and I
honestly don't
know
what the hell I was thinking when I was 17. I probably wasn't thinking. Or perhaps I thought
that I was
very
mature. I realize that dating people almost 10 years older than me was very much a poor choice
of mine.
It
messed me up a lot because the power in the relationship was so imbalanced. All of my concerns,
worries,
likes and dislikes were dismissed in the relationship. I was coerced into having sex with them a
lot of
the
time. Now this left me with overcompensating and wanting to be in control 100 of the time in new
relationships. I feel unwantedrejected when my current partner doesn't want to have sex with me.
I'm
trying
to work through all of this with my therapist but I feel like therapy makes me go back to
memories my
brain
tried to get rid of and I feel overwhelmed. The more I think about it the more disgusted I feel.
What
did
those people see in me? I'm only 22 but I cannot imagine going out with someone who's 17-18.
Essentially
I
came here to get some opinions on this. What is going through the mind of a 26-27 year old when
he
starts
dating someone significantly younger? Is it just me who finds it gross now? How can I stop
obsessing
about
this |
I dated guys who were significantly older than me when I was around 17-18. I want to understand
what
their
motivethought process could have been. |
what is going through the mind of a 26-27 year old when he starts dating someone significantly
younger ?
how
can i stop obsessing about this ? gross now ? |
how can i stop obsessing about this ? edit : thanks for all the help . i 'm not sure what to do
. edit :
i
did n't know if i was 17 . |
I started therapy 3 weeks ago and now I feel unwantedrejected when my current partner doesn't
want to
have
sex with me. |
I'm 22 and obsessing over my past relationships. |
I started therapy 3 weeks ago and I do n't know what to do . What is going through the mind of a
26 year
old
when he starts dating someone significantly younger ? |
| We often hear people from all sides, left-wing, right-wing, feminist, anti-feminist,
non-feminist and so
on,
proclaim the same gender equality is good. But I disagree. Because genders are not equal. To me,
it
perfectly acceptable that a woman gets over 80 times the custody of the child, or that most
people who
work
in dangerous jobs are men, or any other societal difference. Genders are not equal in nature, so
why
they
should be in society. Considering that women make worse leaders generally, it is, in my opinion,
fine
that
men are leaders of nations, corporations, etc. Considering that woman are nearly always weaker
physically
than a man, it is okay that women get a smaller criminal penalty for hitting a man than vice
versa |
Women and men are different in nature and it is okay that society treats women and men
differently
because
of biological differences. |
why they should be in society . genders are not equal in nature , but genders is good . proclaim
the
same
gender equality is not equal , right-wing , feminist , non-feminist , non-feminist ,
non-feminist , etc.
.
|
why they should be in nature , proclaim the same gender equality is good . feminist ,
anti-feminist ,
feminist , feminist , feminist , non-feminist and so on , proclaim gender equality . |
Gender equality is good, but it is okay to hit a man than vice versa. |
I agree that gender equality is good, but I disagree that it is acceptable. |
Genders are not equal in nature , it is okay that women get a smaller criminal penalty for
hitting a man
than vice versa , so why they should be in society ? |
| Ok, so it's been roughly a month since my computers refused to boot, extremelly similar to past
incidents
with ram so I thought it could be this, but in the past, the solution was to move te ram from
slot 1 to
slot
2, and it worked, this time with no success, my father brought me a spare ram for testing, to be
sure if
it
was the ram or the slot, it refused to work on slot 2, but went normally booted, loaded windows,
and
then
went black, I think the ram wasn't enough on slot 1, whuch I thought gad stopped working |
old ram worked only in slot 2 and is now danified, test ram only works in slot 1, but wasn't
enough to
properly load windows. |
i think the ram was n't enough on slot 1 to slot 2 , but in the past , the solution was to move
te ram
from
slot 1 , it refused to work on slot 2 , to be sure if it was the ram or the slot . |
my father brought me a spare ram for testing , to be sure if it was the ram or the slot of slot
2 , and
then
gad stopped working . |
don't move te ram from slot 1 to slot 2 |
try moving the ram slot from 1 to 2, it might help |
the solution was to move te ram from slot 1 , and it refused to work on slot 2 , and I think the
ram was
n't
enough on slot 1 . Thanks |
| So this actually happened back in 2014. I would’ve been 12 at the time. So I’m my business study
class,
my
friends and I had the great idea of making and selling fresh donuts for a profit. We each made
about 25
and
got to keep some donut batter which takes days to prepare. At home that evening, with no one to
supervise, I
decided to make some donuts. So I filled a pot with oil and brought it to a boil and made a
couple. They
didn’t taste right and I thought to myself “oh, this must be the wrong kind of oil”. I thought
“I need
to
clean this pot to try again”. So I took the pot off the stove and I put it in the sink. And I
turned the
tape on. There was a giant ball of mist and within a minute I had giant blisters on my arm. For
those
who
don’t know, mixing water with boiling oil will cause the mixture to expand and evaporate,
creating a
large
cloud of burning mist. I went to the neighbors, the took me to the hospital and I had to wear
bandages
on
that arm for 2 weeks I looked like someone from naruto |
I mixed water and boiling oil and created a burning death cloud in my kitchen, burnt my arm and
went to
the
hospital |
i had giant blisters on my arm . so i filled a pot with oil and brought it to a boil and made a
couple .
oil
and oil . |
had giant blisters on my arm , brought it to a boil and made a couple of mist and within a
minute i had
giant blisters blisters oil and brought it a giant ball of mist . |
Tried to make fresh donuts, ended up with giant blisters on my arm. |
Tried to make donuts, burned my arm. |
I filled a pot with oil and brought it to a boil and made a large cloud of burning mist . I had
to wear
bandages on that arm for 2 weeks . |
| Short and sweet for ya. I'm moving out of my roommates house in a week, and have been trying to
tackle
cleaningpackingdonating stuff a little each day. Today I decided to take care of the cat litter
room. I
vacuum the floors, bag up the trash the used litter, and go to scoop the boxes. I try to scrape
along
the
bottom of the box, and the scoop didn't want to come with me. It snaps. Cool cool, I think we
have an
extra
in the garage. Go to garage. Locate the 'ole scooperado, head back to the litter boxes. Try the
same
maneuver. Snap. Fuck. Well, lucky for me we have a third in my bedroom which I use to finally
scoop that
fucking cat box I actually learned from my mistakes and didn't fucking break it this time. Done.
Floors
check, litter boxes check, trash check. Awesome. Let's take the trash out! Oh wow, heavier than
I
expected.
All good, just use two hands. Open trash can lid, feel sand on my feet, and a lot less weight in
my
hands.
Sigh. I broke the bag open on the corner of the trash bin. Cue me, for the next 15 minutes,
using the
remaining scoop and a dust pan to scoop up litter clumps from the grass and driveway into a new
trash
bag,
of course. All done. Bag is carefully put into trash can. Sigh of relief. Time to head to
Reddit. Not
nearly
as bad as the stuff that's on here sometimes, but enough to ruin my day and productivity a lil
bit and
stink
up the driveway. Had to take a mental break for ten minutes, type this out, and now I'm off to
buy a new
litter scoop |
Tried to clean cat litter room, broke two litter scoops in the process, and exploded a 25lb bag
of cat
litter all over my feetdrivewaylawn. |
i broke the bag open on the corner of the trash bin , and now i 'm off to buy a new litter scoop
.
litter
scoop . trash bin . |
broke the bag open on the corner of the trash bin , and i 'm off to buy a new litter scoop . i
broke the
bag
open on ten minutes . |
Broke my cat litter box open on the corner of the trash bin. |
Tried to scoop a litter box, ended up breaking it. |
I 'm moving out of my roommates house in a week , and have been trying to tackle
cleaningpackingdonating
stuff a little each day . I broke the bag open on the corner of the trash bin , and now I 'm off
to buy
a
new litter scoop . |
| Wow so I definitely didn't expect to wake up and find that a three year old greasy picture of me
with
Elijah
Wood got this many upvotes, but here's the full story This was at Copenhagen airport in Denmark.
I was
meeting some friends there, and we were going to roadtrip to see a Tori Amos concert in a castle
in the
countryside. It was late around 10-11PM because there was a baggage handler strike so two of our
party
were
having trouble coming over from the UK, and I was sitting at arrivals with two other friends,
when he
walks
past us, and I go .was that Elijah Wood?! and one of my friends goes I. think it was, what are
the odds.
But
that was that. Some time passes and I turn around and he's literally a couple feet behind me
talking to
some
people, but I didn't want to intrude. Five minutes later he's STILL there, so my friend offers
to walk
up to
him with me, and so we did. She did most of the talking - her suitcase hadn't been unloaded from
the
plane
because of the strike, and he hadn't gotten his suitcase either, I had been at different
airports for
going
on ten hours by this point. and you can't see it here, but I was wearing comfy harem pants, as
was my
friend. And he goes jokingly Well, at least you're dressed comfortably for such a day, you're
already in
your pajamas!. Well excuse you Frodo, you walked all the way to Mordor with nothing but the
clothes on
your
back so shut your mouth. I didn't say that |
it was a stroke of luck, if it hadn't been for my friend this picture wouldn't exist, he was
really nice
and
approachable and I choose to believe that he complimented my pants. |
elijah wood is the way to mordor with nothing but the clothes on your back so you walked all the
way
shut
your mouth . and one of my friends goes i . |
walked all the way to mordor with nothing but the clothes on your back so shut your mouth . wood
?!
excuse
you frodo , you are not wood wood . |
I walked all the way to Mordor with no clothes on my back. |
I walked past Elijah Wood and he offered me his suitcase. |
I did n't expect to wake up and find that a three year old greasy had n't been unloaded from the
plane
because there was a baggage handler strike in a castle in the countryside . |
| The place I work is a little pricey but high quality. We have a lot of regulars and this one guy
in
particular comes in all the time, orders one dish, pays in cash and heads out. He’s sweet, a
little
awkward,
but we like him. I seat him in my section right after opening, he’s the only guy in there and
I’m the
only
server on. I go to take his order and he tells me he wants a bigger meal tonight usually orders
a small
plate but he has loads of change, will that be ok if my tip is in change? I tell him it matters
little
to me
and he should treat himself! Ok, go on the duck. I brought him some toast on the house while he
waited
and
even changed the music to his favorite station. The meal is done, and I bring him his check. I
watch him
start to lay out a pile of ones and fives and about 7 worth of change in piles. He keeps looking
it over
and
over. I’m worried he doesn’t have enough, and I kind of want to go over and tell him it’s ok, he
can get
me
next time. But I don’t want to be insulting. I stand pretty close at the host stand, make eye
contact
often,
and after 10 minutes or so I say “are you all set sir?” He says yes, but keeps sitting. Finally
he grabs
the
check and hands it to me, saying “I’m sorry but I’ve been waiting a long time”. He sure has! And
I’m
confused because he has so much change on the table, but I take his check with apology and go
get him
his
change. .4 cents change. He left me a 5.50 tip. In quarters. So confused |
Man pays half in quarters but waits 20 minutes for 4 cents in change. |
i 'm worried he does n't have enough , but i kind of want to go over and tell him it 's ok , but
he can
get
me next time . |
he has so much change on the table , but i do n't have enough to go over and tell him it 's ok
to get
him
his change . |
A customer left me a 5.50 tip. |
Guy wanted to change his tip, I didn’t want him to. |
I have a lot of regulars and high quality , but I do n't know what to do . EDIT : Thank you all
so much
for
all of your help and advice . I really appreciate it . I 'm going to take his order to get him
to lay
out a
pile of ones , but he does n't want to be able to get me next time . |
| Sometimes conversations about things may offend you, that is a small price to pay to get to the
truth of
things, even if that truth is not to your liking. Being able to say what one thinks is very
important
for
that very reason, it allows people to discuss and reach the most correct conclusion possible. If
you try
hiding ideas, you will just end up with a bunch of 'for show' statements and no solution. How
will
someone
debunk an idea if it can't be openly expressed, all you are doing is getting these people to not
talk,
but
you haven't convinced them, thus their actions won't change |
you won't get to the truth if you are concerned about everyone's feelings all the time and you
can't
solve
stuff if you aren't seeking the truth aka reality |
being able to pay to get to the truth of things is not to offend you , even if it allows people
to
discuss
and reach the most correct conclusion possible . |
it 's a small price to pay to get to the truth of things , but it 's not to your liking ,
conversations
about things may offend you . |
Don't hide ideas, but don't hide them. |
If you don't like something, don't talk about it. |
if you try hiding ideas , you will just end up with a bunch of ' statements and no solution .
How will
someone debunk an idea if it ca n't be openly expressed |
| I need to buy a car. I have 2,900 saved and I would really like to get something in a higher
price range
that would be reliable. Nothing higher than 10K. I've been denied a previous loan about 4 months
ago. My
score is decent but I have a short history. No cards or loans. Just bills. I know the dealer may
finance,
but I have been told they'll rip me off here if I'm not ripped off on the price. I work anywhere
from
30-40
hours a week and I usually bring home 1,200 a month and I have 400 of expenses every month, not
including
food. How much should I be trying to spend each month if I can get the car financed |
I need a new car. I have 2,900 cash to spend but I'd prefer something in the 5,000-10,000 range
that'd
be a
bit more reliable but dont know how to be financed the money. |
i need to buy a car . 2,900 saved and i would like to get something in a higher price range that
would
be
reliable . 2,900 saved my month . |
how much should i be trying to spend each month if i can get the car financed . i need to buy a
car .
how do
i spend each month ? |
How much should I be trying to buy a car? |
How much should I spend on a car? |
I need to buy a car . How much should I be trying to spend each month if I can get the car
financed ?
Thanks
in advance for any help you guys ! |
| So we saw Hulk get smashed by Thanos early on, then seemingly was afraid to show his face again.
Was
this
because he was beaten? Is he afraid to lose again? I pose an alternate theory. What if Hulk is
part of
the
endgame? We all know that comic Hulk gets stronger as his anger grows, making him become even
more
powerful
if someone gets one over on him. Does the MCU Hulk have the same ability? If he does, it might
make
sense
that keeping this from Thanos could be a good secret weapon, but there's no way for Hulk to know
this.
But,
wait! There's a time stone! And from what we've seen of filming, there may be some new looks at
historical
events in the MCU. So is it possible that someone went back and told Hulk to take a fall in
their first
match, just so he can come back later and dominate Thanos as we all want to see? Sure, why not?
It's not
as
far-fetched as some other theories I've seen posted here. My only supporting evidence is the
lack of
Hulk in
this film. There has to be a reason, other than him being scared to lose. Nobody is paying to
see
Banner, so
either leave him out entirely, or this is leading to some bigger storyline |
Hulk intentionally kept his ability to grow in strength from Thanos in their first meetup, so
that this
could be used against him in the endgame. |
if hulk is part of the endgame , but there 's no way for hulk . hulk is stronger as his anger
grows ,
making
him become even more powerful . |
comic hulk is part of the endgame ? hulk is stronger as his anger grows , making him become even
more
powerful if someone gets one over on him . |
Hulk can come back and dominate Thanos as we all want to see. |
Hulk is scared of Thanos, so he goes back in time to defeat Thanos. |
Hulk Hulk gets stronger as his anger grows , making him become even more powerful if someone
gets one
over
on him . What if Hulk is part of the endgame ? ? |
| We need new types of battle maps. As a WOTWOW player, I think I understand the design of the
current
selection of maps used in the game. They seem to have adapted what they had from WOT. While this
worked
well
for long-range firing and establishing choke points with tanksartillery, it is less useful for
the unit
warfare of TW Arena. As any long-time Total War player knows, warfare from this period took
place
largely on
open plains. The reasons are obvious – coordination of various units types for maximum
efficiency. No
legitimate commander would split up his army into 5-6 small groups to randomly move though
passes and
choke
points. This is the problem with a lot of the battles in TW Arena, and over-complicates the unit
balancing.
Basically every player is left to fend for themselves, but the units from the period were NEVER
designed
to
fight alone. Battles should about strategic deployment and maneuver on the open field. This
can’t happen
with the current map selection. Yes, keep the current maps, but add a bunch of new, open maps to
fight
on
|
Suggestion Give us more open field maps where teams actually have to fight as an army.
Individual
players
would therefore have a chance to work together to win, without being isolated all over the
battlefield.
|
we need new types of battle maps . we need new maps to fight on . we need new types of battle
maps in tw
arena , and over-complicates the unit balancing . |
keep the current maps , but add a bunch of new , open maps to fight on . over-complicates the
unit
balancing
. arena , and maps in tw arena maps . |
New types of battles should be about strategic deployment and maneuvering on the open field.
|
We need new battle types. |
We need new types of battle maps . Battles should about strategic deployment and maneuver on the
open
field
, but add a bunch of new maps to fight with the current map selection . |
| Wow, I just realized I'm getting downvoted for speaking the truth so I have to get something off
my
chest.
As hard as it is to swallow, young i.e. millennial workers are ok with doing the absolute bare
minimum
work.
I have seen it at McDonalds and I have seen it in a professional environment. I personally
experience
young
workers come in late, leave early, and do really half assed work. News flash.you have this grand
delusion
that you do a good job because us old farts are picking up your slack and making sure the
building
doesn't
burn down around you. If you want 15hour you have to earn it. That means starting at 7.25 an
hour and
busting your ass to show you are worth more pay. You don't get 15hour because you are entitled
to it,
you
get it because you fucking earned it. I started my first job making 4hour back in 1994.by 1997 I
made
12hour
because I busted my fucking ass and worked 60 hours a week. In fact, at one point I was working
3 jobs
in
order to save up for college.construction from 6am-3pm, cutting grass from 4pm-8pm, and working
retail
on
the weekends. By 2003 I had a vehicle that was paid for and I had just paid my way through
college |
Be like the Japanese workers and bust your ass to get ahead. Don't be like millennials and sit
around
holding your cock waiting for something to happen. |
you do n't get 15hour because you are entitled to it , millennial workers are ok with doing the
absolute
bare minimum work . 15hour you have to earn it . |
you do n't get 15hour because you want 15hour you have to earn it , you are entitled to it .
workers are
ok
with doing the absolute bare minimum work . |
You don't get 15hour because you earn it. |
If you want to work at McDonalds, you have to earn it. |
If you want 15hour you have to earn it . You do n't get 15hour because you are entitled to it ,
and
busting
your ass to show you worth more pay . |
| Oftentimes the way people appropriate cultures does denigrate and devalue things that people
find
extremely
important. POC in America have suffered immense injustice historically and still are
systematically
oppressed. Like.lets take the feathered head dress for example. Their people suffered through
genocide
and
exploitation, they are essentially relegated to reservations which can often have extremely poor
living
conditions, if they want to take part in their cultural practices. They have very little
representation
in
American media and what does exist is pretty bad. They are still treated poorly even by our
government -
see
the way they were treated at Standing Rock. Theres a long history of sexual violence toward NA
women by
white men too. The headdress is very important to them and the feathers are actually supposed to
represent
different tribes. When a Victoria's Secret model wears it to make herself look exotic its a slap
in the
face. It sexualizes an essentially sacred artifact for the pleasure of white men. It doesnt pay
respect
to
its significance, it doesn't acknowledge its history and it continues the feelings of being
stripped of
your
culture. We are not taught enough about other cultures or histories in America. Everything we
are taught
is
whitewashed and we live in a society that holds up white supremacy, our president is a Nazi
loving
incompetent McDonald's homunculus. People from marginalized communities have had to hide or
abandon
parts of
their cultural identity in order to stay safe throughout American history so it's just fucked
when white
people decide to use cultural artifacts without even knowing their significance - bindis, black
hair
styles,
spirit animals, anything you see at a festival lol |
non-white cultures have been penalized legally and socially throughout American History so it
feels
shitty
to see white people who dont even know that what they are wearingdoing is important, get to do
so
openly,
freely, and often times for profit. Its a case by case thing essentially because we can't know
everyones
background just by looking at them but yeah. |
it doesnt pay respect to its significance , but it continues the feelings of being stripped of
your
culture
. histories in america is not stripped of your culture . |
it does n't matter respect to its significance . we are not taught enough about other cultures
or
histories
in america . it 's the feelings of being stripped of your culture . |
We are not taught enough about other cultures or history in America. |
Oftentimes culture is the way to go. |
We are not taught enough about other cultures or histories cultures without even knowing their
significance
- bindis , black hair styles , anything you see at a festival lol so it does nt pay respect to
its
significance . |
| My boyfriend 30M and I 23F are nearing the end of our lease a shoebox apartment for 745
electricity each
month. We're tired of living in small spaces with inconsiderate neighbors issues with shared
parking,
shared
laundry, etc. Living in a single family home is ideal and I think will really improve our
quality of
life
for us and our two kitties. However, it costs more to live in a single family home both because
rent is
higher and often you'll end up responsible for utilities at least where we live. We found a home
with a
private landlord for 925 a month with no utilities included probably 1,000 a month on average -
about
200
more a month that we pay now. This is, when halved, below 30 of both our incomes currently.
We're both
employed, have no debt, no car payment, no student loans, etc. Additionally, we're both about to
get
raises.
Our major expenses outside rent are gas and eating out we do this several times a week as both
of us
work a
lot and our apartment kitchen is laughable. The new place is larger, has a reasonable kitchen
and
laundry
machines, is in a cool neighborhood close to my work, has a yard and basement, lots of windows,
etc. Why
am
I feeling so nervous about putting down the deposit? Is there something obvious I'm overlooking
that
I'll
regret later |
Is spending more money on renting a home over an apartment really worth it? |
why am i feeling so nervous about putting down the deposit ? is there something obvious i 'm
overlooking
that i 'll regret it ? thanks for the help . |
boyfriend 30m and i 23f are nearing the end of our lease a shoebox apartment for 745 electricity
each
month
. i feeling so nervous about putting down the deposit . |
My boyfriend and I live in a single family home for 745 electricity each month. We're both
unemployed
and
have no debt and no debt. I'm worried about putting down the deposit. |
My boyfriend and I are looking to move in together, but I'm nervous about it. |
My boyfriend 30 M and I 23F are nearing the end of our lease a month on average - about 200 more
a month
that we pay now . Why am I feeling nervous about putting down the deposit ? |
| Basically the title, I hang out and talk with this guy but when I mention other guys or friends
I'm
close to
he says critical or mean things about them. For example, there is a guy I met in class last
semester who
was
quiet and kind and we got on really well, I have looked at him in class trying to get him
attention to
wave
and this guy says it's odd and that he looks socially inept. Another guy that is really nice to
me and
always asks me about my degree, he said that he's heard he grabs girl's asses in clubs and
sleeps
around.
This guy also has Bipolar and is going through a manic phase to my belief and keeps joking about
seeing
eachother naked. Is he jealous or just nasty |
Guy friend is mean about other guys I'm close to. Is he jealous or just rude in nature? |
is he jealous or just nasty ? is he jealous or mean things about them ? critical or mean things
about
them
or friends i 'm close to he 's jealous . |
i hang out and talk with this guy i 'm close to he says critical or mean things about them . how
do i
mention other guys or friends ? |
Guy I'm close to says critical things about other guys and friends. |
Guy I'm close with constantly talks about other guys and I don't know if he's just jealous. |
I hang out with a guy I met in class trying to get him attention to wave and this guy says it 's
odd and
is
going through a manic phase to my belief |
| Hey i'm a Music student in Glasgowuk, I want to start promoting bands and I have no money or
experience
to
speak of really. To circumvent this I'd like to organise a few gigs at free spaces and even
outside on a
park or something. Are there any people out there that either have their own equipment or just a
desire
to
do something cool and help me put on some shows, so we can both gain some experience? Honestly
musical
ability or experience is not required. In terms of playing shows outside, I'd like to organise
an event
outside for free in a nice setting. there are a ton parks here, so it wouldn't be hard, acoustic
musicians
may be more suited to thisno amps but if anyone has a portable amp that could work. If I got
permission
from
the neighbourhood and the council, it shouldn't be a problem |
I want to put on some free shows and start promoting, Does anybody play in a band that would be
interested?
Or even just wanna help me out see some cool music? even if your not in a band but play a little
or
would be
interested in coming to this, please give me a shout |
i want to start promoting bands and i have no money or experience to speak of really . i 'm a
music
student
in glasgowuk . what do i do ? |
i want to start promoting bands and i 'm a music student in glasgowuk , i 'd like to organise a
few gigs
at
free spaces and even outside on a park . |
I want to organise a few gigs outside for free in a nice setting. |
I want to start a music festival in Glasgow, any ideas? |
Are there any people out there that either have their own equipment or just a desire to do
something
cool
and help me put on a few gigs at free in a nice setting ? |
| Last night, my now ex and I got in an argument that led to the front of my apartment complex to
get his
things back to him. I asked him to wait outside the complex since he’s shown tendencies to be
physically
aggressive before. I went up to my third story apartment to retrieve his things and locked the
door
behind
me as I normally do. Somehow, he managed to climb in the back window to the complex and started
banging
on
my door within the first 30 seconds of me being there. I didn’t answer as I didn’t want him
coming in my
apartment. His response was the break my door—the frame broke and the lock came off. His
reasoning was
that
I was “stealing” his stuff because I didn’t answer the door right away. He offered to fix it
himself
once he
calmed down some, but I don’t want to be charged when I move out of the complex. So, I contacted
my
landlord
to come fix the door, but now my ex denying he did it so he won’t have to pay for it. I tried
recording
our
conversation as Ohio is a one party consent state, but he noticed, took my phone, and deleted
it. Is
there
anything I can do to hold him financially responsible |
My ex broke into my apartment complex, broke my door because I didn’t answer, and is now denying
he did
it.
What can I do? |
landlord wo n't have to pay for it . is there anything i can do to hold him financially
responsible .
door
is fix the door . ex denying he did it so he wo n't have pay for it . |
my ex denying he did n't have to pay for it , but now my ex denying the door , contacted my
landlord to
come
fix the door door . |
My ex broke my door because I didn’t answer the door right away. He offered to fix it himself
once he
calmed
down, but now my ex denies it. |
I broke into my ex’s apartment complex and he won’t pay for it. |
My ex and I got in an argument that led to the front of my apartment complex to get his things
back to
him .
I do n't know what to do . |
| I'm so upset at myself. My boyfriend surprised me with an amazing, fancy dinner for our one year
anniversary
yesterday. I already wasn't feeling well when he told me we were going to dinner but when I saw
what he
planned I didn't have the heart to tell him I wasn't that hungry. In the end I pushed myself to
eat the
fixed menu he ordered for us and the bill was over 500, I couldn't handle it and after dessert I
ended
up
going to the bathroom and throwing it all up. I can't believe I wasted so much of his money and
am so
disappointed in myself for not speaking up and simply saying I didn't feel well. I feel like
I've wasted
the
effort he put into planning this. I also feel like I missed out on some amazing food that we
would
usually
never splurge for. He doesn't know I threw it up and I just told him I loved it because
regardless of
how I
felt health wise I loved that he put in so much effort to make sure I felt special. But I can't
stop
stewing
in my own feelings. Help |
my boyfriend is amazing and bought us an expensive anniversary dinner. Threw it all up, he
doesn't know.
Feel horrible guilt and FOMO |
i ca n't believe i wasted so much of his money and am disappointed in myself for not speaking up
. fancy
dinner for our one year anniversary yesterday . |
my boyfriend surprised me with an amazing , fancy dinner for our one year anniversary , am so
disappointed
in myself for not speaking up and simply saying i did n't feel well . |
Boyfriend surprised me with an amazing dinner for our one year anniversary. I threw it all up
and now I
feel
like I've wasted the effort he put into planning it. |
Boyfriend didn't tell me he was going to dinner with me, I threw up all over the bathroom. |
I ca n't stop stewing in my own feelings because I do n't have the heart to tell him I did n't
feel well
when he told me I was n't that hungry . |
| So yesterday my 20F boyfriend 22M was scrolling through my Facebook and there was a picture that
I took
of
one of my friends which she tagged me in and he reacted to it with the “wow” button. It was a
really
good
picture but he’s liked the same picture on Instagram before so I don’t see why needed to give it
attention
again. It was weird because he doesn’t know her too well, isn’t friends with her on Facebook and
the
picture
was posted months ago. I was a bit jealous because he didn’t like any of my pictures when he was
creeping on
my Facebook. This is the same friend he randomly brings up, obsessed over her instagram photos
to me so
it
makes me uncomfortable.I have a slight feeling he has a crush on her but I could be wrong. I
also feel
like
from her POV it would look like he was trying to get her attentionflirting. I don’t consider
myself too
jealous. I wouldn’t mind if he did that to one of his own friends because he actually knows her.
I also
don’t mind him having female friends. I want to bring this up to him. Not only about reacting to
the
picture
but the fact that he always talks about her. It makes me so uncomfortable because I get this
weird gut
feeling he’s into her. I know he really likes me and would never cheat and I don’t want to start
a fight
before our 6 month anniversary which is in 2 days. What should I do |
my boyfriend always talks about one of my friends and reacted to one of her pictures on Facebook
from
months
ago. It makes me super uncomfortable because I have a weird gut feeling. I’m not sure if it is
worth
mentioning to him. |
my 20f boyfriend tagged me in and he reacted to it with the '' wow '' button . so i took of one
of my
friends which she tagged , obsessed over her instagram photos to me . |
my 20f boyfriend randomly brings up , obsessed over my facebook and he reacted to it with the ''
button
. so
it was scrolling through my facebook photos to me . |
My boyfriend has a crush on a girl on my Facebook and it makes me uncomfortable. |
My boyfriend is obsessed with his female friend on Facebook and it makes me uncomfortable. |
My boyfriend 22 M was scrolling through my Facebook and tagged me in and he reacted over her
instagram
photos to me so it makes me uncomfortable . What should I do ? |
| My Bank of America credit card account of 10 years recently got closed with the reason stating
my risk
profile no longer aligns with the bank's risk tolerance. I have had this credit card for a
while, so I
had
accrued quite a bit of cash rewards. I never felt the need to cash out my cash rewards and by
the time
my
account closed down, I had ~182. Upon receiving notice of BOA closing my CC, I attempted to cash
out but
the
website kept giving me errors. The written letter I received stated that all cash rewards will
be
forfeited.
No grace period. No warning. Absolutely nothing. I was aware CC and Debit cards work
differently, but it
never occurred to me that CC companies can just shut down your account and your cash rewards can
disappear
on their terms. So, I wanted others to know that if they have a substantial amount of cash
rewards, be
cautious that they can just take it away |
Bank closed my CC account and made me forfeit all my accrued cash back rewards with no warning.
other
details. I have a checking account with BOA and was doing some cryptocurrency trading on the
side. I was
fully aware that banks don't like cryptocurrency in general because of the legality grayness, so
BOA
shutting down my checking account didn't come too much of a surprise. However, they quickly shut
down my
CC
account several days later even though my CC account had nothing to do with cryptocurrency. |
if you have a substantial amount of cash rewards , be cautious that they can just take it away .
so , cc
and
debit cards are occurred to me that cc companies can just shut down your account . |
if they have a substantial amount of cash rewards , but i wanted to know that if cc and debit
cards can
just
take it away from cc companies . |
If you have a large amount of cash rewards, be careful. |
Bank of America closed my credit card account 10 years ago. |
My Bank of America credit card account of 10 years recently got closed with the bank 's risk
tolerance .
I
wanted others to know that they can just take it away . |
| Hmm.I just want some clarification.when you say full 34 tank build, does that mean the Nakroth
has 3 or
4
tank items or all tank items? I'd imagine if the Nakroth has a lot of armor items, you won't be
able to
do
much damage to him given that your ult does physical damage. Nakroth in general is pretty
annoying to
deal
with because he runs away so easily. If you are on Murad, chances are you'll just have to go for
someone
else on the team and let your magic damage dealers handle him if they can. Murad's CC against
Nakroth
isn't
that useful considering it just slows Nakroth down, and Nakroth can dash away, which is
unaffected by
movement speed decreases. A fed Tulen can probably chase after him a bit and finish him off with
an ult.
Natalya, assuming she can land her stun a big if can also combo him down before he can dash
away. There
are
probably other options out there, but that's what I can think of at the moment. Do you have
armor
piercing
arcana? That probably would help a lot in general against tank builds |
Best strategy against tank Nakroth is probably to deal with his teammates first. Nakroth in
general is
just
annoying. |
if you have armor piercing arcana , chances are you 'll just have to go for someone else on the
team and
let
your magic damage dealers handle him . |
do you have armor piercing arcana ? if you are on the team and let your magic damage dealers
handle him
if
you want to go for someone else . |
Nakroth has a lot of armor items, but you won't be able to do much damage to him. |
Nakroth is annoying to deal with, Murad is useful against him. |
If you are on Murad , chances are you 'll have to go for someone else on the team and let your
magic
damage
dealers handle him if they can dash away . |
| Hello Reddit, TIFU. I've been trying to quit smoking forever. I was diagnosed and treated for
breast
cancer
in 2015, and went through chemo, radiation, and a double mastectomy. To say this was hard on our
relationship is an understatement. Since surgery, my body has not recovered. I'm exhausted all
the time.
My
libido has dried up in dust. These things are not making my marriage any easier. I did quit for
a year,
and
as addictions do, this crept up on me. I've gone a few months here and there, but she recently
gave me
the
ultimatum that I either quit or she will divorce me. I tried Reddit I did. I don't want to lose
her!
Last
night, she came home unexpectedly and I had cigarettes on my breath. She went in her room, had a
meltdown
and left for the night. Today, I see on the book of faces that she removed our relationship
status. A
few
months ago I exhausted my savings to get us out of a financial bind. I feel like I've given her
everything I
could. Today, I feel completely lost. I don't know how I can explain this to her, that my
addiction to
cigarettes goes way back to being a kid, and that smoking has not only been a habit but the
steady
coping
mechanism that has remained stable in my life. Suggestions friends |
my wife gave me an ultimatum to quit smoking or she would divorce me. I failed. |
i do n't want to lose her , but i 've been trying to quit smoking forever . i do n't know what
to do . i
do
n't know what to do . |
i 've been trying to quit smoking forever , but she recently gave me the ultimatum that i either
quit or
she
will divorce me . what do i do ? |
Tried to quit smoking for a year, wife came home unexpectedly and I feel completely lost. |
My wife left me for cigarettes. |
I was diagnosed and treated for breast cancer in 2015 , radiation , and a double mastectomy . I
do n't
know
how I can explain this to my addiction to get us out of a financial bind . |
| Hey there reddit. So, First a little background story that will help you understand what Im
worried
about I
have met this girl in November of last year, after I broke up with my ex, who cheated on me in
front of
my
eyes and gave me extremely strong trust issues and relationship anxiety. In the beginning of the
relationship, this was a huge problem. She was however willing to make it work, and after a few
ups and
downs, a couple breakups and getting back together, she has found a way to deal with it in a way
that it
completely disappeared. It has also bonded us incredibly and we both value and love each other
more than
ever. We have some problems we need to work on still, but she has shown willingness to listen so
I think
she
is really the one and I plan to propose to her in the summer. However, now I have been accepted
to a
university in a different country. She is currently studying here and will finish her university
in 1
year
after which she will come move in with me. I am scared that my anxiety and trust issues will be
too much
to
handle for her as they will most certainly come back, especially since I won't be able to see
her that
much
anymore. So far, to combat this, we agreed we will both have data plans and share our location,
so we
can
text each other any time in case I get an anxiety attack, and so I can battle my anxiety by
knowing
where
she is. Mind you, Im not controlling or jealous, but sometimes I just get this irrational fear
that
something is going on and I need to be assured that it is not. I trust her, but its something I
can't
fight
with. What I am asking for is this Do you have any experience with situations like this? What
helped you
through it? Any tips and tricks on how to fight this |
I am going to propose to my GF right before I leave the country for a year, I am afraid my
anxiety and
trust
issues will destroy my relationship. |
i have been accepted to a university in a different country , now i wo n't be able to see her
that much
anymore . should i handle for her as they will most certainly come back ? |
i have been accepted to a university in a different country , trust issues will be too much to
handle
for
her as they will most likely come back . |
I have trust issues and trust issues, and I need help fighting them. |
My girlfriend and I are going to be in a different country for the summer, and I need advice on
how to
fight
my anxiety. |
I broke up with my ex , who cheated on me in front of my eyes and gave me extremely strong trust
issues
.
She has found a way to deal with it in a way that it completely disappeared . What helped you
through it
?
|
| This girl has never done anything harmful to me personally, however, she have done many bad
things to my
friends. This include faking an abortionpregnancy, stealing credit card informations from many
of my
friends, hacking into their venmo accounts, stealing one of my good friend’s identity to open a
couple
of
credit cards, etc. The tricky thing is, she’s very good at being shameless and manipulating
people into
feeling sorry for her so a lot of people in my circle are still friends with her. Furthermore,
these
terriblecriminal thing that she dodid is an ongoing thing even after she was confronted multiple
times
by
the people that was affected. However, she denies it every time and act like she’s clueless. I
have
talked
to her personally, attempting to cut ties. Basically asking her to give me some space because
she also
tend
to get me and all of my other friends involve in her personal business basically in helping her
stalking
this guy friend in the group. But the most important reason is, I’m trying to protect myself
from her
stealing my personal informations. She agreed but then she did the opposite of giving me space.
She
would
message all of my friends about me asking why I’m being like this towards her and spam me at the
same
time.
I would be hanging out with a random friend and she would be messaging them about me and I
didn’t even
know
they even talk in the first place. I never opened the messages she sent me and I have decided to
hide my
activities on facebook, snapchat, instagram, etc. because I knew it wouldn’t be a good idea to
block her
at
the moment. I also don’t want her to be around me, get close to me, or see what I’m doing but
it’s hard
when
she hang out with my friends. In the end, I do not want to be the next victim. I do not want any
of my
friends to be the next victim. She is a thief and a criminal and I don’t want to associate
myself with
her
|
Someone in our friend group is a shameless, manipulated thief. Some of my friends still hang out
with
her.
How do I cut her out of my life without loosing my friends? |
i do n't want to associate myself with her , but i do n't protect myself from her stealing my
personal
informations . i do n't want to be the next victim . |
she is a criminal and i do n't want to associate myself with her , i do n't want to protect
myself from
her
stealing my personal informations . what do i do ? |
This girl has done bad things to my friends and I don't want to be the next victim. |
A girl who has never done anything harmful to me is trying to get me to cut ties with her. |
I do n't want any of my friends to be the next victim . She is a thief and a criminal and I do
n’t want
to
associate myself with her at the same time . |
| I realized these past weeks that I’m 100 I don’t want to be with my girlfriend for my whole
life. While
we
have a lot of great moments together and while I love her very much, I think we’re simply too
much
incompatible on a lot of things. It made me very sad to realize that, because I still love her.
It’s
also
breaking my hearth to imagine her being brocken hearted after our would be brake up. Do you
think it
would
be selfish to stay with her even if I do not see a future for us on the long term ? Would it be
better
for
her if I ended things more quickly ? On one side I still love her and do not want to miss on
some great
moments with her, but on the other, I don’t want to feel like I’m “using her” while I wait for
someone
better. It’s my first love and I’m very much confused, all help would be appreciated |
I know for a fact that I don’t want to stay with my gf for the rest of my life but I still love
her.
Would
it be better to end it all. |
i do n't want to be with my girlfriend for my whole life . i do n't want to be with her , but i
do n't
want
to be with my girlfriend . |
i realized these past weeks that i 'm 100 i do n't want to be with my girlfriend for my whole
life ,
because
i still love her and realize that i am 100 . |
I don’t want to be with my girlfriend, but I still love her very much. |
I don’t want to be with my girlfriend, but I still love her. Should I break up with her ? |
Do you think it would be selfish to stay with her even if I do not see a future for us on the
long term
? On
one side I still love her . |
| I am almost positive I have some sort of chronic viral condition, Ive shown symptoms of Lyme’s
disease
since
I was 10 and had Bell’s palsy for the first time. I’ve been achy, twitchy, withdrawn, anxious,
sad,
fluttery, and fatigued for as long as I can remember, I’m 23 now. Long story short, I’ve had
some
unnerving
symptoms pop up in the last couple of years. My previous primary care doctor an MD never seem
too
concerned
about my symptoms. I know that something is wrong, and this doctor more or less told me to take
an
antihistamine, see a therapist, and get more sleep after my Lyme test came back negative. She
wouldn’t
even
acknowledge my protests about the test being notoriously unreliable. Last month I decided I
wasn’t going
to
wait around trusting some lady who couldn’t seem to stay in a room with me for 10 minutes while
I nearly
cried trying ton explain my symptoms and how downright shitty I felt. I looked up LLD’s near me
and
phoned
up the first name on the list. I noticed he had ND next to his name, I thought sure, why the
heck not?
I’ve
never been to a naturopath, and there’s only 3 people on this list. At my appointment today I
could
tell,
even though we hadn’t met, he actually read the paperwork his office requested from me, he knew
a lot
about
me and it was so easy to talk to him about my symptoms without feeling scrutinized. He
recommended in
depth
dietary changes, he also wanted to take my blood to run something like 15 tests of various kinds
to
determine I wasn’t dealing with some other kind of issue before I have to dish out money for the
fancy
new
western blot test I forget the name. I know this is long, but I just wanted to put the
information out
there
if someone else is looking for it |
If you feel like your doctor isn’t listening to you, please, find a new one! |
i have a lot of chronic viral condition , and i know that something is wrong , see a therapist ,
and get
more sleep after my lyme test . |
i am positive , and get more sleep after my lyme test came back negative , and chronic viral
condition ,
ive
shown symptoms of lyme 's disease and lyme test for the first time . |
I’m almost positive I have Lyme’s disease, but I’ve had some sort of viral condition since I was
10 and
have
no idea what to do. |
I’m positive I have Lyme disease. |
I have to dish out money for the fancy new western blot test I forget the name . I just wanted
to put
the
information out if someone else is looking for it . |
| Nearly as practical as inches Sorry, I died from laughing. Why the hell are monitors measured by
their
diagonal size in inches? You can't even compare 219 and 169 monitors with that. And using inches
for it
even
in Germany where we use metrics makes no sense |
inches are not practical unless you know them since your first day on Earth |
the hell are monitors measured by their diagonal size in inches . and using inches for it even
in
germany
where we use metrics makes no sense . germany monitors with that . |
why the hell are monitors measured by their diagonal size in germany where we use metrics makes
no sense
.
and using inches for it , 169 and 169 monitors . |
You can't even compare the two. |
You can't compare monitors to monitors. |
You ca n't compare 219 and 169 in Germany where we use metrics metrics are monitors measured by
their
diagonal size . And using inches for it even though it makes no sense . |
| Journalistic bias sky at least tries to hide the political leanings abc openly pushes greens
stories on
a
variety of hard left issues the problem lies in the policy of impartiality the news should be
more
centrist
I dont have a problem with the abc but to make a statement that they are the best only means
that they
fit
your bias and news media should be disliked as to left for the conservative voter and to right
for the
labor
voters. There is a jugling act with any media business but appeasing the far left means a loss
in
credibility. My bias is i am conservative but to understand the way news should operate for the
most
acurate
news conservatives see it clearer as everything the ABC stands for is against what we stand for.
Diversity
hires which turn away more talented applicants as there are jobs at the abc that exclude races
only
offering
to indigenous quite racist in aplication and leaves out prospective candidates. The greens have
taken
over
the abc and i dont want the abc to become a conservative platform just move to a point at least
where
you
say the unpopular terms but tell the news like it is |
They aren't by any stretch impartial. |
they are the best only means that they fit your bias and news media should be disliked as to
left for
the
conservative voter and to right for the labor voters . |
journalistic bias sky at least tries to hide the abc to become a conservative platform .
journalistic
bias
and news media should be disliked as to left for the labor voters . |
Journalistic bias sky at least tries to hide the political leanings abc. |
Media bias is a real problem and should be addressed. |
I am conservative but i do nt want the abc to become a conservative platform just move to a
point at
least
where you say the unpopular stands for is against what we stand for . |
| Ughhh this really bothers me too. When people say “If CICO worked or was easy, everyone would be
doing
it.”
I don’t think anyone is saying it’s easy to do, it takes a lot of will power even if you don’t
have
circumstances medical or mental against you. Having a mental disorder doesn’t mean that the math
and
physics
behind it, isn’t real, it’s just significantly harder. If you eat less calories than you burn,
you will
loose weight. Whether you feel hungry all day or you want to binge eat so bad because it’s
comforting to
you
means that you might need help for those circumstance but if you still didn’t eat when you’re
hungry or
when
you really needed the comfort, the calorie deficit over time will work to lose weight |
being hungry doesn’t mean cico doesn’t work and medications typically don’t make you gain
weight, the
side
effects like hunger can make it difficult to overcome weight loss. |
i do n't think anyone is saying it 's easy to do , it takes a lot of will power even if you do
n't have
circumstances medical or mental against you . |
i do n't think anyone is saying it 's easy to do , it takes a lot of will power even if you do
n't have
circumstances medical or mental disorder . |
If CICO worked, everyone would be doing it. |
I don’t think it’s as easy as you think. |
If you eat less calories than you burn , it takes a lot of will power even if you do n’t eat
when you
’re
hungry or when you really needed the comfort |
| I genuinely don’t think the American people, let alone the rest of the commonwealth and the
world would
allow that, and like so many other people have pointed out we can not sustain a hardline trade
war with
the
US but we do have means to really take a stance once and for all because i for one am not ok
with being
pushed around by a freakin sesame street character, So yea i think a week or two without all of
the oil
we
export to the US would get the message through to there leader |
Sorry to all the Americans that would be affected by this but its time for us to stop pulling
punches
|
i think the american people , but we do n't think a week or two without all of the oil we export
to the
us
would get the message through to there . |
do n't sustain a hardline trade war with the us but we do n't think the american people have
pointed out
we
can not sustain a hardline trade war . |
I think a week or two without oil we export to the US would get the message through there leader
|
I don’t think we’re alone in the world, but it’s hard to sustain a trade war. |
we can not sustain a stance once and for all of the oil we export to the US would get the
message
through to
there leader , i think a week or two without all |
| There are several walk-ins downtown and around campus that are open in the evening and on
weekends
however,
because they are walk-ins, you don't really have the power to choose which doctor you want to
see you
simply
get assigned whichever doctor is available when you walk in. The probably non-exhaustive list of
clinics
is
here I've personally been to Clinique Medicale de la Cite 300 Leo Pariseau and Alpha Medic
Centre Ville
1253
Rue Guy. The first one requires you call after 6pm the day before you want to visit the doctor
to book
an
appointment, even though they are by principle a walk-in clinic. However, if you don't have
Quebec
health
insurance the telephone system is incredibly difficult to navigate. The second one accepted
walk-ins as
late
as 3pm on a Saturday and the wait was probably around 90 minutes, but the doctor only saw me for
like 5
minutes and spelt the name of a medication wrongly on my prescription. It took my pharmacist
several
days of
phone calls to the clinic to get it fixed before I could get my meds |
There are off-campus clinics that are open after-hours, but expect long waiting times and
doctors who
are
very rushed because they have too many patients to see in too little time. |
there is no power to choose which doctor you want to see you simply get assigned whichever
doctor is
available when you walk in . phone calls to get it fixed before i could get my meds . |
walk-ins , you do n't really have the power to choose which doctor you want to see you simply
get
assigned
whichever doctor . walk-ins downtown and around campus . |
If you don't have Quebec health insurance the telephone system is extremely difficult to
navigate. |
There are many walk-ins around campus, but they are very difficult to navigate. |
If you do n't have Quebec health insurance the telephone system is available when you walk in .
The
second
one requires you call after 6 pm the day before you want to visit the doctor to book an
appointment .
|
| In response to 2 Scarlet Witch has a history of fucking up. Why did the city go down in AoU? She
left
her
post and her brother died because of it. Why did Vision not have the stone fully removed? She
left her
post
and the surgery was interrupted. Why was Thanos able to know where Vision died and thus use the
time
stone
to bring him back? She waited until the last possible second to pay the proce for the previous
fuck up.
Scarlet Witch is, without a doubt, the single most unreliable member of the Avengers. Hell,
she's the
most
unreliable character in the entire MCU right now. Dr. Strange should have destroyed the stone at
first
still
not clear on how they planned to do that sure as fuck hope it wasn't the same way that they
planned to
destroy the Mind Stone but when he saw that the only way for them to win was let Thanos win, he
didn't
flinch from the thought of dying again. Yeah there's no defending Quill, really. You can
minimize his
mistakes, though, by saying that he literally couldn't kill Gamora on Knowhere because of the
Reality
Stone
and his fuck up on Titan was set up by Dr. Strange |
Scarlet Witch is like Sakura. She's super powerful but still completely useless. |
scarlet witch is , without a doubt , she 's the most unreliable character in the entire mcu
right now .
scarlet witch is a history of the avengers . |
scarlet witch is , scarlet witch has a history of fucking up , scarlet witch witch witch witch
witch
avengers . , she 's the most unreliable character in the entire mcu right now . |
Scarlet Witch is an unreliable character and Dr. Strange should have destroyed the Mind Stone at
first.
|
Scarlet Witch 2 has a history of history. |
Dr. Strange should have destroyed the stone at first still not clear on how they planned to do
that sure
as
fuck hope it was n't the same way for them to win . |
| Most of the time, the Internet takes up to half of the story, and runs with it, occasionally
attempting
to
start a political movement without properly explaining the situation in the post. Reddit
brigading is a
great example of this, and it’s arguably worse on Twitter. So what you should do is try to
research on
multiple websites with different political biasesstances, rather than just multiple posts in the
same
community most non-comedy subs have a political leaning, left or center. The process is muddied
more by
clickbait and political agendas, which can and will coincide. Just hang around rscience for a
bit, many
of
the posts have titles with made up content andor a clear political agenda. So yeah |
never get all your info from the same or too similar websites. It hurts your ability to make an
informed
decision. |
what you should do is try to research on multiple websites with different political
biasesstances ,
rather
than just multiple posts in the same community most non-comedy subs have a political leaning ,
and it 's
arguably worse on twitter . |
what you should do is try to research on multiple websites with different political
biasesstances ,
rather
than just multiple posts in the same community most non-comedy subs have a political leaning ,
left or
center . |
Reddit brigading is a great example of a political movement. |
The Internet takes up half of the story. |
try to research on multiple websites with different political biasesstances , rather than just
multiple
posts in the same community most non - comedy subs have a political leaning , left or center .
|
| So, I finally did it, guys. I finally found the most smart, beautiful and compassionate girl,
probably,
in
the world sorry mom!. I met her over the internet. We plan to hang out this weekend and I am
absolutely
terrified. I struggle with depression and very, astronomically low self esteem. I ask myself
very often
why
she's wasting her time with me and I do truly believe that she deserves better than I. She looks
past
all of
that, and I do think she likes me. Now, lets talk about my past relationships. It has almost
always
ended
miserably. They have either cheated on me, or dropped me for someone else. I am not good with
women,
though
the one I'm talking to now believes that I've got plenty of game. I think the biggest thing that
scares
me
is that it is going very good. She laughs at all my jokes. She is incredibly attractive, and our
conversations go on for hours. I guess I'm just worried that I'm going to go on ahead and screw
this up
like
I have screwed up all the past relationships. I want to be the very best I can be for her, but
if the
past
is any indication, something will go wrong. Some much better guy will come along. I don't know.
Maybe
I'm
just not ready for this but -boy- does it feel so, so good. I Haven't felt this level of
happiness and
capacity to look forward to something in a very, very long time |
I struggle with depression and very low self esteem. She can look past all that and seems to
like me. I
am
terrified of screwing it all up. also, this is a throw-away. |
we plan to hang out this weekend . we plan to go on ahead and screw this up like i have screwed
up all
the
past relationships and relationships . |
i 'm going to go on ahead and screw this weekend . i 'm just worried that i have screwed up all
the past
relationships i do n't terrified . |
I'm scared that I'm going to screw up my past relationships. |
I finally did it, and I'm terrified. |
I met her over the internet . I want to be the very best I can be for her , but if the past is
any
indication , something will go wrong . |
| Hey guys and girls, I need to rant a little and would like your opinion. I've been a vegan for a
little
over
a year now and so far I rarely told anyone who didn't explicitly ask me, mostly because I
quickly
realized
that it's often futile to discuss these matters with omnis who are not in any way open to
change.
Anyway, at
the moment I am the only person who does not eat meat at my work place, and since I work in the
health
care
sector where there is a lot of wrong information about vegan nutrition floating around so
actually like
everywhere else, but in my experience, these people believe into their wrong facts even more
because
they
studied medicine I never told anyone there that I am a vegan. Today at lunch four of my
colleagues two
of
which were my superiors started discussing sustainable living and it quickly became apparent
that they
saw
it as unattainable to live sustainably and everyone who tries is weird. Eventually of course the
topic
of
animal products came up and the arguments against it ranged from the usual But how could you get
enough
calcium without dairy? to the absurd I don't care that calves die because of dairy production,
because I
eat
them anyway. Then of course the self appeasement started I only buy locally produced meat. and
all the
time
I was sitting next to them, not saying anything because I doubted they would be interested in
what a
vegan
had to say about these topics. So right now I feel kind of bad for not taking this chance to
educate
people
even though I am pretty sure I would not have been able to overcome their flawed logic. How do
you deal
with
situations like that? Do you proactively tell people that you are vegan |
Listened to my colleagues sharing the whole range of omni arguments and did not interject. What
would
you
have done? |
i am a vegan , but i do n't eat meat at my work place , and i do you deal with situations like
that ?
edit :
i 'm vegan . |
how do you deal with situations like that i am a vegan . vegan nutrition is vegan , and since i
work in
the
health care of the wrong facts . |
I have been a vegan for over a year, people believe in their wrong facts even more because they
studied
medicine I never told them. How do you deal with situations like this? |
How do you deal with people who don't know what they are talking about? |
I am the only person who does not eat meat at my work place , and I feel kind of bad for not
taking this
chance to educate people . How do you deal with situations like that ? |
| Some background info about myself I’m 23, female, and have always been very insecure about
myself. I
have a
fair number of friends at least two with whom I’m close with, and my family supports me fully in
whatever I
do. The problem is that I tend to react to a lot of thingssituations emotionally. I’m one of
those
superfeely people INFP and struggle to manage my emotions e.g. not take everything too
personally, not
overreact. Self-awareness helps somewhat. I’m aware when I’m starting to lose control, and try
to “reel”
my
emotions back inbrush it off as a joke. Rationally, I know that I probably shouldn’t be reacting
this
way —
that the other party has no intention of hurting me whatsoever. The jealousy comes thick and
fast,
though,
and I find myself reacting with saltiness at least. One of my friends have commented on my
seemingly low
EQ,
and I’m inclined to agree with her. I have panic disorder and depression these sometimes
exacerbate
deep-rooted feelings of sadness and worthlessness. I’ve started hitting the gym in hopes that
exercise’ll
help me get my shit together. Would really appreciate other tipsadvice though, on how to be a
more
emotionally stable ? individual |
I react emotionally to most social situations and have really low self-esteem. How do I love —
or at
least
start appreciating — myself a bit more? |
i tend to be a more emotionally stable , on how to react to a lot of thingssituations people
infp and
struggle to manage my emotions e . superfeely . |
how to be a more emotionally stable stable stable emotionally . i 'm one of those superfeely
people e .
, on
how to react to a lot of thingssituations ? |
How do I be more emotionally stable ? |
I’m insecure about my emotions. How do I get better? |
I have a fair number of friends at least two with whom I ’m close with , and my family supports
me fully
in
whatever I do . I have panic disorder and depression . |
| I am in that place right now where everything is not going great, just a little off. Lack of
energy and
excitement. For example, I finished school, did some hard professional tests, so I should be
proud of
those
accomplishments. But now I am supposed to start looking for a job and I can’t even gather the
strength
to
send out emails or go out to network. Not for any particular reason. Time just seems to fly by
without
me
getting my stuff done. And okay. maybe there’s a part of me that doesn’t want to be stuck in a
job. Even
though I know that once I have the job I will be excited by the puzzles there are to solve, and
the
people
that I can help out plus the extra income would be great. And another part of me is just anxious
about
the
application process and having to explain why there are gaps in my cv |
I generally would like to feel better, more energetic, more confident so that I can land a job
and also
feel
excited about it. Ps. I’m not on my meds but rather find other ways than meds. |
i am supposed to start looking for a job and i ca n't even gather the strength to be stuck in a
job .
maybe
there 's a part of me that does n't want to be stuck . |
supposed to start looking for a job that does n't want to be stuck in a job and i ca n't even
gather the
strength to send out emails or go out to network . |
I don’t want to be stuck in a job. |
I’m in a place where everything is great, but it’s not great. |
I am looking for a job that does n’t want to be stuck in a job . What are gaps in my cv process
and
having
to explain why the extra income would be great ? |
| There’s a major concept you need to understand herd immunity. The big misconception about
vaccinations
is
that they make you immune to that disease many of them are not going to give you a complete
immunity to
the
disease in question, they just help boost your odds of resisting it far more than your body will
on it’s
own. Say a vaccine has a 90 success rate. So long as everyone who can safely get the vaccine
does get
it,
that combined level of resistance means it’s very difficult for them to get infected by that
disease,
and
anyone who’s unfortunate enough to catch it is less likely to spread it around to more people.
which is
especially important for the populations that can’t safely take vaccines the elderly, infants,
immuno-compromised, etc. Now add in some small groups who can vaccinate, but choose not to. If
they then
go
on to catch the disease, not only do they have to contend with it with only their body’s natural
immune
systems spoiler alert for a lot of the diseases we get vaccinated for, it ain’t pretty, they’re
also
able to
transmit it to anyone who comes into proximity with them. Even if those people are vaccinated,
they can
potentially become carriers of the disease themselves and transmit it to anyone they come into
contact
with,
and suddenly we have a really nasty variant of Six Degrees of Kevin Bacon. The more people who
are now
latently carrying the disease, the more likely it is that even vaccinated people will catch a
full-fledged
case of it, and the people who can’t get vaccinated are now put in very real danger now that the
bubble
of
disease resistance from the people around them has been compromised |
don’t be an asshole, and get the shots. |
the more people who are now latently carrying the disease , and the people who make you immune
to that
disease many of them are not going to give you a complete immunity . |
the more people who make you immune to that disease many of them are not going to give you a
complete
immunity to the disease in the people around them . |
Vaccines are not going to give you a complete immunity to the disease, they just help boost your
odds of
resisting it. |
Vaccines don’t make you immune to the disease, they make you resistant to it. |
The big misconception you need to understand herd immunity are not going to give you a complete
immunity
to
spread it around to more people than your body will on to catch it . |
| I was having this conversation with my gf this weekend while traveling- what do you tell
outsiders who
need
convinced Cleveland is worth visitingstands out from other cities? I feel I always say the
standards-
art
museum, edgewatermetroparksemerald necklace, architecture, music scene, etc., but fear it isn't
the
greatest
argumentit could use fine tuning haha |
I love my city and want skeptical outsiders to too! |
what do you tell outsiders who need convinced cleveland is worth visitingstands out from other
cities ?
what
do you think but fear it is n't the greatest argumentit ? |
what do you tell outsiders who need convinced cleveland is worth visitingstands out from other
cities ?
edit
: thanks for the help ! edit : thanks for all the help ! |
what do you tell people who need convinced Cleveland is worth visitingstands? |
what do you need to know about Cleveland? |
what do you tell outsiders is worth visitingstands out from other cities ? I feel I always say
the
standards- art museum , edgewatermetroparksemerald necklace , music scene , etc . Thanks ! |
| It really depends on the college. Talk to the admissions at the college of choice. Some require
minimum
grades like a C- for the transfer credit to count. Yes, they most likely will look at your
Ryerson
Undergraduate transcript. Some schools would put more emphasis on your undergrad over high
school. Most
universities require at least a 2.67~3.00 cGPA to be considered for admissions. Some
collegesuniversities
would have an academic explanations essay as part of their application where you talk about why
your
grades
are low etc |
talk to admissions of the collegeuni that you wanna apply to. |
it really depends on the college , for the transfer credit to count . 00 cgpa to be considered
for
admissions . 00 cgpa at the college of choice . |
talk to the admissions at the college of choice . minimum grades like a c - for the transfer
credit to
count
. 00 cgpa to be considered for admissions . |
Talk to the admissions at the college of choice. |
It depends on the college. |
Talk to the admissions of minimum grades like a C- for the transfer credit to count . Some
collegesuniversities would have an academic explanations as part of their application where you
talk
about
why your grades are low etc . |
| I've been wondering the same thing. As its basically passed the May 1 deadline I'm not sure what
to do.
I
have orientation on friday and just wonder about how fast I would know if I got placed or not.
Been
searching on the OCH Database and everything is either overpriced or has horrible reviews |
How fast do you hear back so I can know when to sign something off campus? |
how do i got placed or not . as its basically passed the may 1 deadline deadline . orientation
on friday
is
not sure what to do . orientation on friday . |
i have orientation on friday and just wonder about how fast i would know if i got placed or not
. i 'm
not
sure what to do 1 deadline . |
How fast would I know if I got placed or not |
I have no idea what to do. |
I have orientation on friday and want to know if I got placed or not . Edit : I 'm not sure what
to do ,
I
'm just wondering if anyone is interested . |
| There's a girl I like a lot at school, but I don't know her or any of her friends, nor do I have
any
classes
with her. It's going to take a while for me to get to a point where I know the people around her
enough
to
be able to talk to her. The only times I get to see her are briefly in hallways before classes,
but
since I
know nothing about her and the school is large I have no idea where she walks by I only know
where she
passes in the morning. My plan is to work out different routes every day to walk past and see if
she
passes
there too. So, Is it creepy for me to spend all this time figuring out routes and scavenging the
school
all
just to see her briefly every day? If you were said person, would you feel uncomfortable knowing
this
information? Thanks to anyone who gives enough shts to actually reply to my stupid, stupid
question |
I like a girl, don't know her, so I'm gonna walk around the school a bunch to to find out where
she
crosses
from class to class. Am I being creepy? |
is it creepy for me to spend all this time figuring out routes and scavenging the school all
just to see
her
briefly every day ? if you were said person , would you feel uncomfortable knowing this
information ?
|
is it creepy for me to spend all this time figuring out routes and scavenging the school all
just to see
her
briefly every day ? what do you feel uncomfortable ? |
Is it creepy to spend all this time figuring out routes and scavenging the school all just to
see her
once
every day? |
I like a girl at my school, but I don't know her. Is there a way to get to know her? |
Is it creepy for me to spend all this time figuring out routes and scavenging all just to see if
you
were
said person , would you feel uncomfortable knowing this information ? |
| Hey, pregnant woman here, lurking around because I heard your subbreddit is awesome. I think the
gesture
depends on how far she is. If she is first trimester, things are still developing so maybe
something
smaller
like a card and flowers- make her dinner that she can stomach. Stuff like that. I am 35w and I
made it
clear
I wanted to go out for brunch because we had better be celebrating mother's day! I'm gonna have
this
baby
any time now or at least it feels like it. I'd be disappointed if he doesn't get me a card and
some kind
of
gift. This is my first mother's day and just because baby is inside and not outside doesn't mean
I
shouldn't
be celebrated- especially given how much I've suffered and sacrificed for baby already. I know
I'm
planning
on making my husband an excellent 'dad starter kit' for Father's day and spoiling him |
definitely do something to acknowledge her motherly sacrifices no matter where she is in
pregnancy. |
i 'd be disappointed if he does n't get me a card and some kind of gift . brunch is celebrating
mother
's
day . brunch is celebrating mother 's day . |
gon na have a card and some kind of gift . i 'm gon na go out for brunch , mother 's day , gift
, mother
feels like it . |
I think the gesture depends on how far she is. |
It depends on the woman. |
I think the gesture depends on how far she is . If she is first trimester , things are still
developing
so
maybe something smaller like a card and not outside does n't mean I should n't be celebrated-
especially
given how much I 've suffered for baby already . |
| This is not how transfer budgets work. If we spend 50m on Fred, 20m on Dalot, 70m on Sandro and
85m on
Griezmann, it will not mean we are spending 225m in one season. If they are all signing five
year
contracts,
then those numbers will be amortized 225÷5 and our accounts will reflect only an extra spending
of 45m.
Of
course, you will have to take into account that signings made over the last 5 years will also
appear on
this
year's accounts |
We don't need Fellaini to stay solely because of budget constraints. |
this is not how transfer budgets work , but transfer budgets work is spending 225m , 20m on fred
, 20m ,
70m
on sandro and 85m on fred . |
if we spend 50m on fred , 20m on sandro , it 's not how transfer budgets work , we are spending
225m in
one
season . 85m , 70m on sandro . |
This is not how transfers work. |
This is not how transfers work. |
If you spend 50 m on Fred , you will have to take into account that signings made over the last
5 years
will
also appear on this year 's accounts . Edit : |
| The only problem is that he cast suggestion right at the end. Up until that point, it could’ve
been a
very
elaborate show. No one rolled exceptionally well on insight checks towards her and after a few
they
didn’t
seem to care. Had Jester cast Zone of Truth on her in the inn when they met, it would’ve been
not only
much
safer for the party but it would’ve eliminated all doubt about her intentions and they all
would’ve been
on
the same level of knowledge the entire trip. Obviously it’s more entertaining to not force the
truth out
at
the beginning from a show stand point |
it doesn’t matter if she was being honest the whole time, there was no way to know because
Suggestion
was
one of the last spells cast, minutes before Matt called the game for the week. |
jester cast zone of truth on her in the inn when they met , it would 've been on the same level
of
knowledge
the entire trip . obviously it 's more entertaining to not force the truth out . |
had jester cast zone of truth on her in the inn , it would 've been on the same level of
knowledge the
entire trip in a show stand point . |
It’s more entertaining to not force the truth out at the beginning of a show stand point. |
It’s not the cast that is the problem. |
The only problem is that he cast suggestion on the same level of knowledge the entire trip and
it would
’ve
eliminated all doubt about her in the inn . Edit : spelling |
| I've been playing since launch and have dabbled in just about everything. Normally for a league
opener I
just run with usually a bow spec of some sort but always peter out around Tier 12 maps due to
sub-par
survivability and issues with Uber Izario. I am also my group of friends carry most of the time
in a
league
so I am focused on fast clear speeds. With the flashback, what inexpensive league starter, and
since it
is a
short league I am not planning on multiple toons, what is the most entertaining, tanky spec I
should try
that I can reasonably expect to at least handle the shaper Still haven't killed him yet?
Moderate clear
speed would be nice and very burnt out on Poet's Pen builds and I really don't feel like farming
200
chance
orbs like I did in beast to get a pair. Actually. I have a personal challenge I think I am going
to try,
ZERO uniques However if I get a Bisco Collar and belt I reserve the right to change this policy
for just
those two since I'm the guy that has to PL and give glowies in my circle of friends. So |
What starter spec should I try that is up to shaper viable with ZERO 0 uniques in use? |
what is the most entertaining , tanky spec , and since it is a short league i am not planning to
at
least
handle the shaper still have n't killed him . |
what is the most entertaining league starter league starter league i should try that i can
reasonably
expect
to at least handle the shaper still have n't killed him yet ? |
What is the most fun, tanky spec I should try to get? |
What is the most efficient way to clear a league? |
I want to get a Bisco Collar and belt I reserve the right to change this policy for just those
two since
I
'm the guy that has to PL and give glowies in my circle of friends . |
| I like a girl from my tuition classes, so i asked my friend to introduce me to her , he told her
i wanna
be
her bf , she got mad , for a while we didn't talk , then i apologized but i said she over
reached , she
didn't like that either , she said next time i wanna say something ,i say it to her and not send
someone
,
she wasn't happy with the apology i could see it. Few months passed ,i would keep looking at her
in
class ,
then i built up some courage and talked to her again ,apologized again , she forgive me this
time but i
still couldn't go talk to her,too shy. One day my friends said if i don't go talk to her , they
gonna
beat
me up because all i talk about is her but never go talk to her,so i talked to her for a while,
next day
i
talked to her again for like an hour , next weekend i took her on a date , talked for hours ,
then
things
slowed down After like a month,i talked to get for a while and took harry potter and deathly
hollows
from
her,she likes reading , then she stopped showing up for tuition classes , so i went to her
school , gave
her
back the book with some other books i bought for her Next day i went back there again and gave
her my
number, she didn't call me ,i waited a couple months, so i went back to her school , she said
she was
busy
and she will call when she's free , went back to her school this week, she was furious , she
said she
didn't
had a good day at school then told me i should find someone else and she doesnt wanna talk to me
anymore,
But i wanna be with her , can someone help |
i like a girl from my tuitions classes ,everything was going well but then she just got mad and
ended it
|
i like a girl i wan na be her bf , she told her i wan na introduce me to her , she was n't happy
with
the
apology i could see it . |
friend told her i wan na be her bf , he was n't happy with the apology i could see it . i do n't
know
what
to do . |
I like a girl from my tuition classes , she doesn't want to talk to me anymore ,but i want to be
with
her
|
I like a girl , she doesn't want to talk to me anymore , i ask her to introduce me to her bf ,
she says
no ,
i give her my number , she goes back to school , she's mad at me for not talking to her anymore
|
I like a girl from my tuition classes , she told her i wanna be her bf , she was n't happy with
the
apology
, she said she did n't had a good day at school then told me i should find someone else |
| Time for some positivity. I did my placement matches today. I went in as a six-stack of friends,
with
roles
predetermined. Any form of toxicity was not allowed and we actively tried to strategize and
adapt to the
enemy team when needed. We knew the risk of teaming up and got matched against better players
for most
games. We went 8-2. It might not be 10-0, but I'd say we absolutely crushed our placements. I
started
playing Overwatch on PC in december, so I had a lot of trouble aiming at first because I was
used to
with a
controller on console. During my first season S8 I got placed in silver, but managed to fight my
way up
to
mid gold. I then decided I needed more time to practice my aim and went back to QP. At the start
of S9,
I
placed mid gold. I was a little bummed because I felt like I had become way better in terms of
mechanical
skill. I already had the game sense because of previous experience with Overwatch and other
shooters on
console and the way I liked to research the meta and strategies. After putting in a little bit
more
time, I
finally made it to Plat and ended the season after about 30 hours of playtime at 2613SR. This
season, I
placed at 2756SR. A new career high and a great boost to my confidence. My goal for this season
is
reaching
Diamond and it actually feels like a reality now. I won't be playing in six-stacks anymore, but
at least
I
have met plenty of great people these past couple of seasons. So, to finish my wall of text,
this is my
advice to anyone who is looking to climb During matches, don't be afraid to ask the players who
communicate
and aren't toxic to be your friend. Having someone or multiple people you know you can rely on
during a
match makes the game way more fun to play. Always stay positive and you will attract good people
around
you.
I couldn't have done this without some of them |
Placements went great. Got ranked at a new career high after an unsure start on PC. Advise for
those
stuck
in lower ranks Be positive and don't be afraid to ask good people not necessarily good players
to become
friends or team up. It will make the game way more fun. |
do n't be afraid to ask the players who communicate and are n't toxic to be your friend . so ,
to finish
my
wall of text , this is my advice to anyone who is looking to climb during matches . |
looking to climb during matches , do n't be afraid to ask the players who is looking positive
and are
n't
toxic to be your friend . always stay positive . |
Don't be afraid to ask the players who aren't toxic to be your friend. |
Don't be afraid to ask for help. |
Do n't be afraid to ask the players who communicate and are n't toxic to be your friend . Always
stay
positive and you will attract good people around you . I could n't have done this without some
of them .
|
| We are in a relationship for 6 months. Everything is great and we have a lot of fun together,
and the
only
thing that worries me is the amount of time we spend with each other. I am the kind of guy who
would
want to
see his gf as often as possible. I know that everyday, with our busy schedules, is not an
option, but it
still would be nice to get the feeling that she wants to meet even if it's not going to happen.
We don't
have any regular datenights, and all of our dates are being planned spontaniously. And by that I
mean I
am
always available for her, so when and how often we meet is only her decision. I guess I spoiled
her from
the
beginning of the relationship by making her my number one priority - I do have friends and
passions, but
I
have always preffered to meet with her The problem is I don't feel ok with dates once a week,
even
though we
have everyday online contact. I can get through busier time, like finals, with such frequency of
seeing
each
other, but with my gf its like this all the time. And since we both are students and live 30
minutes
from
each other, I don't get why we meet so rarely. not like she has a lot of friends and spends time
with
them
instead of me - most of the time she spends alone or comes home to her parents \they live 1h
away from
our
city. I have already talked with her about it , she said that we can try meeting more often but
it
didn't
happen. We love each other, but I am still thinking about breaking up with her - right now I
can't
imagine
this relationship going further with this frequency of seeing each other. Do you think it's
possible
that
she is just getting into this relationship a little bit slower, and after some time will be
ready to see
each other more often |
I see my gf only once a week. Do you think it may be only beacuse she is slowly getting into
this
relationship, and it will change? |
do you think it 's possible that she is just getting into this relationship going further with
the
frequency
of seeing each other and after some time will be ready for breaking up ? |
she is just getting into this relationship a little bit slower , but i am still thinking about
breaking
up
with her - right now i ca n't imagine this . |
I don't feel ok with dates once a week, even though we have everyday online contact. |
My gf and I are in a great relationship, but the frequency of meeting each other makes me feel
spoiled.
|
We are in a relationship for 6 months . I am the kind of guy who would want to meet even if it
's not
going
to happen . I am thinking about breaking up with her - right now I ca n't imagine this
relationship
going
further with this frequency of seeing each other . |
| I fucked up. Cute girl with nice personality sits across from me in management class \we sit at
round
table
with four seats at each table.\ At first there were four people at our table, but the other two
people
quit
coming to class so its been jsut us for a few weeks. Unfortunately I let all those weeks slip me
by
without
really talking to this girl at all beyond some minor classroom related banter during group
projects. She
probably doesn't know my name. I put myself in this shitty situation but I want to dig myself
out. Any
advice? There really any opportunities to talk during class so I would have to do it either
before or
after
class. What are my options at this point? I haven't really grown a connection with her so don't
feel
like
it'd be acceptable to ask her out, but I don't want to permanently lose contact with her when
class
ends.
Does anyone have any insight on what I could do to at least try and salvage this situation
before it's
too
late? As the title says, there are only three sessions left, one of which is an exam day, so I
really
only
have two days left to actually talk to her |
Haven't talked to a girl all semester but want to try and make up for lost time on the last week
of
classes.
|
i want to dig myself out , class , class , class , class class , class , class , name , name
name ,
opportunities to do it . |
she probably does n't know my name , i want to dig myself out , talk during class so i would
have to do
it
either before or after class . |
Cute girl with nice personality sits across from me in management class, I let all the weeks
slip me by
without talking to her. What can I do? |
Cute girl sits across from me in class. I want to talk to her, but I don't know how. |
I want to dig myself out , but I do n't want to lose contact with her when class ends . Does
anyone have
any
insight on what I could do to salvage this situation ? |
| For a bit of background this girl and I used to date in high school but only for about 4 months.
A while
after we broke we decided to be friends with benefits. This lasted about two years, on and off.
One day
she
confessed to me that she had feelings for me and wanted a relationship or to just be normal
friends. I
felt
the same way So we decided we would give a relationship one last try and see how it went. I had
grown up
a
lot since we first dated and I thought I was ready for something serious. For 2 months before we
started
dating I had booked a lads holiday and still planned on going but just staying loyal. A couple
weeks
before
I left for the holiday which was about 3 months into our new relationship I had decided that
things
weren't
working out between us and I was planning on ending it after I got back. I didn't want to break
up
before I
left because that seemed sleazy and I didnt plan on getting with anyone anyway. However a couple
nights
in I
ended up getting plastered, picking up a girl at a club and went back to the hotel and had sex
with her.
The
next day I woke up and realised my mistake. I quickly realised that this was the biggest mistake
i have
ever
made and that I truly did love this girl. It's now two years later and we are still together. I
have
never
told her what happened. I sometimes get conflicted and want to tell her but I know it would
completely
destroy her, especially as she is extremely self conscious. I now know how much I love her and I
would
never
do anything as horrible and selfish as this ever again but I sometimes get overcome with guilt
and
struggle
with self-loathing |
I cheated on my girlfriend at the start of our relationship while on holiday. Biggest mistake
I've ever
made
and I now realise that I love this girl more than anything. |
it 's now two years later and we are still together . hotel and had sex with her . hotel and
went back
to
the hotel and hotel hotel . |
i ended up getting plastered , picking up a girl at a club , went back to the hotel and we are
still
together . what do i do ? |
Had sex with a girl at a club and now we are still together. |
I slept with a girl I used to date in high school and I regret it. |
I used to date in high school but only for 4 months . She confessed to me that she had feelings
for me
and
wanted to be normal friends . I have never told her what happened . |
| I literally just broke up with my girlfriend of over 5 years, and am already feeling horrible
and having
second thoughts. I honestly do love her. The stress of the relationship was just killing me. I
felt like
she
was 100 dependent on me to be happy, and it was just too much for me. As soon as I told her I
wanted to
break up she got up and left. I am already going through all of our pictures and just feeling
downright
awful. That face she made as I was breaking up with her, I will NEVER get that out of my head. I
cannot
believe I have hurt someone that badly, let alone someone I love and care about. I was
completely 100
determined that I was making the right decision, and now I just don’t know. I know it was my
decision,
and
she’s probably feeling way worse than I am right now, but this is seriously killing me. Someone
who has
been
in a similar situation, please help |
I have just broken up with my girlfriend of 5 years. I feel absolutely horrible and don’t know
if I made
the
right decision. |
broke up with my girlfriend of over 5 years , and now i just do n't know what to do . edit : i
'm not
100 %
sure i was making the right decision . |
broke up with my girlfriend of over 5 years , and am already feeling horrible and having second
thoughts
.
what do i broke up that i was making the right decision ? |
I just broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years and am already feeling awful. |
I broke up with my girlfriend of 5 years because I was too dependent on her. |
I broke up with my girlfriend of over 5 years , she got up and left . I do n't know what to do .
EDIT :
Thank you all for your advice . I really appreciate it . |
| For those that didn’t know, Convenience fees can only be charged if different than the
business’s
“standard”
form of payment which they can charge no such fee. Usually this is at the companies main office
BUT must
be
reasonable as a standard. So they can’t ask people to pay in Ohio for a show in New York. If
there are
outrageous convenience fees call the ticket seller and ask for the appropriate fee free payment
methodchannel. Services fees can be whatever they want them to be, it’s them charging you for
providing
a
service. The idea is to make as much money as the consumer is willing to pay for their stated
rates, if
too
high, consumers will likely and should go to another vendor. What people frequently don’t know
is that
there
must be a proper channel, where say, paying for and printing at home is more convenient.
Convenience
fees
are as high as a third of the cost of a ticket, and will continue to be that way until people
realize
they
don’t have to pay them. This will likely cause an increase in service fees, which is fine
because the
now
educated consumer knows exactly what they’re paying for |
Call ticket vendor, ask for fee free payment channel, save big monies |
convenience fees are as high as a third of the cost of a ticket . convenience fees fees can be
whatever
they
want them to be , it 's them charging you for providing a service . |
services fees are as high as a third of the cost of a service . services 's them charging you
for
providing
a service to be , it 's charging you do n't have to pay them . |
Convenience fees can only be charged if different than the business. |
Convenience fees are not the same as standard fees. |
Convenience fees are as high as a third of the cost of a ticket , and will continue to be that
way until
people realize they do n’t have to pay them . |
| Its great that you send us your kind thoughts, but it absolutely isn't sufficient. I mean, it is
great
that
you can casually dash off a comforting post to reddit . but if I had a leader who was playing
bullshit
politics with nuclear missiles, battering markets, increasing poverty . HURTING CHILDREN . I
would be in
the
fucking streets before he had a chance to alienate allies. So . thanks for your thoughts and
prayers, OP
.
but what the fuck have you DONE? Did you vote last election? Have you written to your local
political
leaders? Have you donated funds to alternative parties? Have you written letters to editors?
Have you
talked
to your neighbours? Picked up a sign and went out to a rally? Or is your total mea culpa a white
bread
post
on Reddit telling us you want a group hug |
Yep. Canada is real close to a fuck you guys. This is your problem as much as ours. Get your
asses off
the
couch and get fixing. |
thanks for your thoughts , but what the fuck have you done to your neighbours ? or is your total
mea
culpa a
white bread post on reddit telling us you want a group hug . |
op is n't sufficient , but what the fuck do you vote last election ? edit : thanks for your
thoughts . i
'm
not sure what to do . |
Thanks for your thoughts and prayers. |
Reddit is a great place to vent. |
what the fuck have you DONE ? Have you talked to your local political leaders ? Or is your total
mea
culpa a
white bread post on Reddit telling us you want a group hug ? |
| Just a super quick post. I got my printer maybe 6 months ago, and have loved it ever since. Over
the
past
two months though, my prints have just gone down.down.down in quality. No matter what I'd do, I
couldn't
get
a good print. It was getting to the point where things would come off the bed feeling like a
sponge. I
finally ran across a post about a clogged nozzle, and how the filament isn't supposed to curl up
as it
comes
out. Mine was, HEAVILY So, I took my hot end apart, cleaned everything out as best I could, and
still,
had
the same problems. albeit, it was a LITTLE better Researched some more.and decided to just try a
new
nozzle.
I installed bad boy, and MY GOD, I have a brand new machine again. It is printing things at
80.90 mms,
and
coming out perfectly clean and beautiful. I am so pleased |
Spend the 10 and get a new nozzle every once in awhile, your prints will thank you for it. |
try a new nozzle , and have a brand new machine again . printing things at 80 . printing things
ever
since .
printing things at 80 months ago . |
try a new nozzle , and my god , i have a brand new machine again . i do n't try a new nozzle at
80 . i
do
n't know what to do . |
I had a clogged nozzle, cleaned it out, and now I have a brand new machine. |
I love my new printer. It's amazing. |
I got my printer maybe 6 months ago , and my prints have just gone down.down.down in quality . I
have a
brand new machine again , and it is printing things at 80.90 mms |
| This happened over the weekend but I only realized it last night. After years of buying the
10-20 cheap
reading glasses, I finally broke down last week and bought a pair of good, prescription glasses
that
cost
over 350. Fast forward to the weekend where a few buddies and I had a few drinks and went to see
the new
Avengers Infinity War in 3D. I went straight to the theatre to get tickets and was texting them
as they
went
and picked up a couple other friends. I had to put my new glasses on to see the text messages
and they
did a
good job. We go in, give our tickets to the ticket dude and get our free 3D glasses. I put my
reading
glasses in my shirt pocket and wore the 3D glasses as I enjoyed a great movie. The movie ends,
credits
roll
and as they do, I text my SO to tell her I'd be home soon. Before I texted her, I took my 3D
glasses
off,
obviously, and put on my new readers. When I finished texting, I looked up at the credits to
catch the
final
scene. I had to take off my glasses so I could see the screen and so I just moved them to the
top of my
head
while they were still around my ears like you do with sunglasses. So, we walk out of the movie
and
there's a
bin for recycling the 3D glasses. We throw our 3Ds in the bin and go our separate ways. All day
Sunday
was
spent working outside and doing things around the house that didn't require reading. Monday, I
go to
work
and realize I forgot to bring my glasses with me as I hadn't yet formed the habit of packing
them. I get
home last night from work, put on my glasses and can't figure out why everything looks like
shit. I can
see
better without them! What the hell? Did my eyes get that much worse already? Until I take them
off and
realize I was wearing the cheap ass 3D glasses and donated my 350 new glasses to someone
watching a 3D
film
|
I swapped a 350 pair of glasses for some cheap, made in China 3D glasses |
i put my glasses in my shirt pocket and wore the 3d glasses as i was formed the habit of packing
them .
3d
glasses in my shirt pocket . |
forgot to bring my reading glasses in my shirt pocket and wore the 3d glasses as i enjoyed a
great movie
. i
go to work and realize i formed the habit of packing them . |
Went to see Avengers Infinity War in 3D, forgot to bring my glasses with me. |
Went to see Infinity War 3D, forgot my glasses. |
I broke down last week and had to put my new glasses on to see the new Avengers Infinity War in
my shirt
. I
was wearing the cheap ass 3D glasses and ca n't figure out why everything looks like shit . |
| If you really want Marilyn to be the middle name, I'd strike Mae and, uh, Marilyn off the list.
Mae
Marilyn
and Marilyn Marilyn aren't good combinations. P I'm guessing you had a different middle name in
mind
with
that as the first?. My favourites on their own are Lenore, Eloise and Saoirse. Personally not a
fan of
Ophelia for multiple reasons. For pairings, Eloise Marilyn or Saoirse Marilyn have the best flow
Lenore
Marilyn sounds a bit awkward but it might just be because I stumble over the R's because I'm
used to
rolling
them. I wouldn't recommend using Saoirse outside of Irelandthe UK though |
Eloise Marilyn Dunnigan is my favourite. |
if you really want marilyn to be the middle name , marilyn off the list . marilyn marilyn is n't
good
combinations . marilyn off the list of marilyn and saoirse . |
if you really want marilyn to be the middle name , i 'd strike mae and marilyn off the list of
mae
marilyn
and marilyn are n't good combinations . |
If you want to be the middle name, go for it. |
Marilyn, Marilyn, Elorese, Lenorese |
If you want Marilyn to be the middle name , I 'd strike Mae and Marilyn Marilyn off the list . I
'm used
to
rolling them outside of Irelandthe UK though . |
| At first it kind of felt like that but for the most part I do my best to control the situation
and get
the
info I need. Ultimately the questions I ask and my fast action can directly effect the outcome
of the
situation along with the phenomenal first responders I work with. So |
I don’t feel helpless because if I do my job correctly I play a major role in helping |
i do my best to control the situation and get the info i need to directly effect the outcome of
the
situation along with the phenomenal first responders i work with . |
my best to control the outcome of the situation along with the phenomenal first responders i
need to
directly effect the situation and get the info i ask and my fast action can directly effect .
|
I do my best to control the situation. |
I do the best I can to control the situation. |
I do n't want to control the outcome of the situation but I work with my fast action . Thanks
for the
help
guys ! I 'm sorry if this post is n't the right subreddit |
| At forest in 2016, we woke up Sunday morning to find that Saturday night's rain storm had
completely
fucked
one of our canopies. It was already being held together with duct tape, twine, and a little
hope, so no
big
loss. But the whole canopy was still full of water. Like at least 5 gallons full, no wonder the
thing
collapsed. We didn't want to dump the water all at once and flood the campsite, so we decided to
use one
of
the stakes to punch a bunch of holes in the canopy so it would drain slowly. And then we decided
to use
this
draining water to all take our showers for the morning. The great thing was, it had been so
dusty and
dry
that weekend that even with the rain that night, the water soaked into the ground almost
immediately
|
we repurposed our busted canopy into a camp shower for the whole group. |
use this draining water to all take our showers for the morning . and then we decided to use the
draining
water to find that saturday night 's rain storm . |
woke up sunday 's rain storm , we woke up showers for the morning , draining water to all take
our
showers
showers storm . and then we had to use this draining showers . |
Fucked a canopie in the middle of the night. |
Woke up in the middle of the night to a rain storm. |
Saturday night 's rain storm had completely fucked one of our canopies . We did n't want to dump
the
water
all at once and we decided to use this draining water to all take our showers for the morning .
|
| Removing the power turns off all computer hardware except BIOS and CMOS, since they’re essential
to
maintaining the computer working. They have their own button cell batteries to keep their
settings
stored.
By removing the battery and pressingholding the power button, all current is removed from most
other
components when the BIOS attempts to boot, only leaving itself and CMOS with a small, yet
important,
power
supply |
Take out the battery, hold the power button, only BIOS and CMOS remain, leaving GPSwireless
radio chips
with
nothing. |
removing the battery and pressingholding the power button , only leaving itself and cmos with a
small ,
yet
important , power supply , bios and cmos , power supply . |
removing the power button , pressingholding the power turns off all computer hardware except
bios and
cmos ,
power supply . removing the battery and pressingholding bios attempts to maintaining the
computer
working .
|
Removing the power turns off all computer hardware except BIOS and CMOS. |
Removing the power turns off all the hardware. |
Removing the battery and pressingholding the power button , all current is removed from most
other
components when the BIOS attempts to boot , only leaving itself and CMOS with a small . |
| Yea, the time is convoluted bit makes either interpretation plausible. Obviously I prefer the
time
travel
explanation, but the illusion theory being so similar to the story of Anor Londo is a strong
point for
it. I
like my time travel theory because of the finality it implies. As I understand it, DS3 is
supposed to be
the
last one and I think there's sort of a metagame narrative being told in the Ringed City Gael is
the
player.
We just want more Dark Souls. We want to see everything the setting has to offer and conquer
every
challenge
From Software can throw at us. In my time travel theory, that's exactly what Gael does. We see
that this
doesn't actually fulfill him, though. He's even hungrier and more savage than ever even after
absorbing
every last soul in the world. When we kill him we don't even really get the whole Dark Soul. The
blood
of
the Dark Soul is basically everything we and From learned by playing and making these games. We
give it
to
the painter so she Miyazaki can make a new, better world |
Dark Souls 3 is actually an art game. |
ds3 is supposed to be the last one and i think there 's sort of a metagame narrative being told
in the
ringed city gael . ds3 is the player . |
i think ds3 is supposed to be told in the ringed city gael is the player . travel theory , that
's the
last
one and i understand it . |
I like time travel theory because of the finality it implies. |
I like time travel because it makes sense. |
We want to see everything the setting has to offer and conquer every challenge From Software can
throw
at us
. In my time travel theory , that 's exactly what Gael does . |
| I've been dating my boyfriend for almost six months now. We're both seniors in high school, and
were
interested in each other for a couple years before we started going out. Nonetheless, now that
we're
here, I
feel.depressed? I can't even put a finger on 'the problem.' I don't think there is a problem. I
just
have
this nagging feeling that something is wrong, he doesn't really love me, I'm not good for him.
He's a
mormon, and my first boyfriend. His family hates me, because they know we've been having sex for
the
past
three months or so and the don't approve. We're going to college together in the fall, and his
parents
are
totally cutting him off. I've never had such mood swings before we started dating and I just
don't know
what
to do. I feel stuck. And even if I do get out of this rut, how do I make him feel better? When I
tell
him I
feel shitty, he says it makes him feel like he's disappointing me. What do I do? I feel so lost.
Can
someone
tell me what's wrong with me |
He's done nothing wrong, but I have this nasty feeling in my chest. What's wrong with me? |
how do i make him feel better ? when i tell him i feel shitty , he says it makes him feel like
he 's
disappointing me . i 'm dating my boyfriend for almost six months . |
how do i make him feel better ? and i do n't know how to make him feel like he 's disappointing
me . i
've
been dating my boyfriend . |
My boyfriend doesn't love me, and I don't know what to do. |
I feel like I'm not good enough for my boyfriend. |
I ca n't put a finger on ' the problem , how do I make him feel better ? Edit : Thank you all
for your
advice . I really appreciate it . |
| I learned bc of kpop and started back in 2014. Hangul seems really difficult at first, but the
written
portion of the language is amazing. It's extremely intuitive. Grammar can be tough at times, but
really
the
order is not nearly as important as in English. The subject is understood 90 of the time you, i,
she, he
and
if you plop the correct marker at the end of a noun object marker, topic marker, etc, you will
generally
be
understood. My listening skills have gotten better the more I listen to episodes without
subtitles
subtitles
make me lazy and not listen to the actual content. I had a full conversation with a Korean clerk
here in
the
us there are niche stores run by native Koreans and the biggest issues came from my poor
pronunciation.
I
have listened to dozens upon dozens of audible lessons, ttmik, etc, but I still struggle with
pronunciation.
I think I maybe just don't get enough conversation practice, but she was amazing in correcting
me. Every
Korean I have talked with I also frequent a local Korean restaurant, just to practice and they
are very
gentle in their corrections, as well as very encouraging. Four years of learning on my own makes
me want
to
go back to school and learn it in a university setting I took German in school bc I knew more of
it
going
into it and I was lazy and didn't want to learn something new |
I really love the language and I've been diving deeper into grammar whenever i can. I would
encourage
anyone
who enjoys kpop or kvariety to start learning! |
the language is amazing . hangul is better the more i listen to the actual content and not
listen to me
lazy
and not listen to subtitles make me lazy . |
the written portion of the language is amazing . subtitles make me lazy and not listen to the
actual
content
. skills have gotten better the more i listen to episodes without subtitles subtitles subtitles
. |
Grammar is great, but not as important in English as you think. |
If you want to learn Korean, go to Hangul. |
I do n't want to go back to school and learn it in a university setting I took German in school
bc I
knew
more of it going into it and I was lazy . |
| Recently realized that hs sound is too fucking loud relative to other ingame sounds, and causes
ear
ringing
after closing the game. Tried volume 0.1. Everything is a little muffled but hs sound still
earrapes.
Then
tried volume 0.01. Can barely hear anything other than shooting. Guess what, when you get
headshotted
your
ears are fucked again |
hs sound is too loud even at volume 0.01. |
hs sound is too fucking loud relative to other ingame sounds , and causes ear ringing after
closing the
game
. hs sound still earrapes . hs sound still fucked again . |
hs sound is too fucking loud relative to other ingame sounds , and causes ear ringing after
closing the
game
. hs sound still earrapes . headshotted your ears are fucked . |
Hs sound is too loud relative to other ingame sounds. |
sound is relative to other sounds. |
Everything is too fucking loud relative to other ingame sounds , and causes ear 0.01 . Can
barely hear
anything other than shooting . Guess you get headshotted your ears are fucked again . |
| Some context, I live in England and at 18 people do 'A levels', like final school exams to get
into
university, and I messed mine up last year so am retaking and she's gone to Uni. We've made all
the
whole
year absolutely fine, seeing each other alternate weekends, and now shes broken up with me 2
weeks
before my
first exam. It came out of completely nowhere. She said she wants some time to be completely
selfish,
and to
not worry about how her actions affect me, which I understand and she said shes changed so much
at
university that she's just fallen out of love and she promises she hasn't cheated or taken a
fancy to
anybody else at all. I'm really upset about it, having really dark thoughts and although my
friends and
family are supporting me as best they can the only thing that properly calms me down is her. But
I know
the
more I go to her the longer and harder going it be. In my head I only have visions of giving her
space
for a
few months then trying to win her back but i don't think its healthy for me to keep doing this
as it
just
keeps me in love with her? Over all, idk, I want to know how to deal with the situation. I know
she'd
100
rather me go to her than hurt myself but I know the more I go to her the less likely we are to
get back
together. But I don't know if its healthy for me to still hang onto the hope we might get back
together?
And
if I don't hang onto this hope I just have dark thoughts |
Girlfriend broke up after 3 years right before exams and i'm struggling to see the point in life
without
her, and want advice on whether I should try to fall out of love and if yes how? |
i do n't know if its healthy for me to still hang onto the hope we do n't hang onto this hope i
do n't
get
back together . i do n't know what to do . |
i do n't know if its healthy for me to still hang onto the hope we might get back together and
if i do
n't
know what to do . |
Girlfriend broke up with me 2 weeks before my first exam, I want to know how to deal with the
situation.
|
Girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me out of the blue and I don't know how to deal with it.
|
I do n't know if its healthy for me to keep doing this as it just keeps me in love with her . I
want to
know
how to deal with the situation . |
| I 20M work a part time position on my college campus and I have co-worker named X 21F. Now I and
X never
actually went beyond casual conversations. We never did exchange contact info or hangout or
whatever. I
haven’t seen her since past December too until now recently. I added her on facebook when she
was on my
suggested friend list. I asked her for lunch, but she always find an excuse to give to me while
seeming
interested and nice. Right now I did ask her again to see a movie at theatre and she mentioned
she
can’t,
but we should try in the Summer time. This rhythm of deferring plans and meet ups is confusing
me. Now
the
frustrating part is that I’m sure anyone has time for anything if they’re interested enough at
least for
food, unless she doesn’t eat? How to proceed with her because I feel like I’m developing a crush
on her
and
I can’t control it |
Coworker is nice to me and always postpones plans I make with her. How to proceed? |
i 'm a crush on my college campus and i feel like i 'm developing a crush on her and i do n't
know how
to
proceed with her . |
how do i proceed with her because i 'm developing a crush on my college campus and i ca n't
control it ?
i
'm sure i 'm interested in food . |
I have a crush on my co-worker and I don't know how to proceed. |
I have a crush on a co-worker and I don't know how to proceed. |
I have co - worker named X 21F. and I feel like I ’m developing a crush on her . How do I
proceed with
her
and do n't know what to do ? |
| Hi all, I'm going to start applying for grad schools next year, and I'm 99 sure I want get an
MSW also
looking at MPH programs. I currently work in public health and while I love it, it feels fairly
hands
off.
I'm going to be moving back to the California from the UK and am finding it really hard to
imaging going
back to 60 hour work weeks and barely any vacation time, especially as my husband and I will be
looking
into
starting a family in the next fewish years. I had always planned on becoming a LCSW, and think
my dream
would be to eventually work in a college. The clinical side of things plus working with trauma,
international study body, LGBTQ, etc, is something I'm very interested in |
Does anywhere here work in a university? Can I ask how you find it? How competitive are jobs?
Salary?
What's
the worklife balance like? Thank you! |
i 'm going to start applying for grad schools next year , and i 'm 99 sure i want get an msw
also
looking at
mph programs and mph programs . |
had always planned on becoming a lcsw , and i 'm going to start applying for grad schools next
year , i
want
get an msw also looking at mph programs . |
I'm going to start applying for grad school next year, but I'm not sure if I want to get an MSW
or MPH.
|
I'm going to grad school next year, but I'm not sure if I want to work in public health. |
I 'm going to start applying for grad schools next year , and I 'm looking into a family in the
next
fewish
years . Any help would be appreciated . Thanks ! |
| Vvardenfell is the area of the Morrowind chapter. But the story order of all dlcs is divided
into the 2
main
arcs, then the minor dlcs and the dungeons. The first part is the main Planemeld arc, starting
with the
base
game main, alliance and guild quests. This is followed by Craglorn and Imperial City. Then
there's the
minor
ones, consisting of the Thieves Guild, Dark Brotherhood and Orsinium dlcs. Last in the story is
the
Triaddaedric war arc, consisting of Morrowind, Clockwork City and Summerset in that order. The
dungeons
don't really matter in terms if story, besides Mephala possibly being connected to some i think
|
Vvardenfell is Morrowind, and story goes Base Game gt Craglorn gt Imperial City gt Dark
Brotherhood,
Thieves
Guild and Orsinium order doesn't really matter gt Morrowind gt Clockwork City gt Summerset btw,
sorry
for
formatting, on mobile Hope I was of help! D |
vvardenfell is the area of the morrowind chapter . but the story order of all dlcs is divided
into the 2
main arcs , then the minor dlcs and the dungeons do n't really matter in terms . |
the morrowind chapter is the area of the morrowind chapter morrowind , then the minor dlcs and
the
dungeons
do n't really matter in terms of the 2 main arcs . |
Vvardenfell is the area of Morrowind, Clockwork City and Summerset. |
Vvardenfell is the area of Morrowind. |
the dungeons do n't really matter in terms if story , besides Mephala possibly being connected
to some i
think it 's the area of the Morrowind , not the main arcs . |
| You are greatly biased by contact with a few uncommon individuals, and potentially people who
shouldn't
actually be diagnosed as Autistic. Misdiagnoses do happen. Sometimes a kid that's just weird
gets
diagnosed.
I'm a licensed Behavior Analyst and work with Autistic people everyday. Let me tell you some
stuff. 159
or
168 depends on what year of data you look at people have Autism. Of those people, 47 reach
language
fluency.
A little over 70 can speak at least short phrases. 30 are nonverbal. The only form of treatment
that has
repeatedly demonstrated strong empirical evidence of success is Applied Behavior Analysis. ABA
requires
extensive treatment to get people to fluency. We're talking hundreds, if not thousands of hours,
of 1 on
1
treatment depending on the severity of the case. Also, bear in mind that a person may reach
language
fluency
and still have profound deficits in other areas. Then there are maladaptive behaviors. Almost
every
single
person I've worked with has some form of these. Things like SIB head hitting, hair pulling, skin
picking,
rectal picking, self-biting, eye gouging. Or the person is aggressive, which is quite common. On
the low
end
clients might slap, punch, bite, or pinch you. For example, I got my glasses slapped right off
my face
last
Friday and the kid pinched my arm so hard it bled a little. On the high end, I know people who
have
suffered
broken ribs or noses from being attacked. A colleague had a client try to stab her with a knife.
As you
expect, this field has a crazy burn out rate |
The reality of Autism isn't like the movies or media often portrays. It is exceedingly rare for
an
Autistic
person to be a secret genius, or savant. Most don't reach the level of neurotypical peers. On
top of
that
there's often serious problem behaviors that need intervention. |
i 'm a licensed behavior analyst and work with autistic people . autistic . autistic people who
should
n't
actually be diagnosed with a few uncommon individuals . autistic . |
you are greatly biased by contact with a few uncommon individuals , and potentially people who
should
n't
actually be diagnosed as autistic as autistic as autistic as analyst . |
There are maladaptive behaviors, but there are many different types of treatment. |
Autism is not a disease, it's a disease. |
You are biased by contact with a few uncommon evidence of 1 treatment depending on what year of
data you
look at people to fluency . A colleague had a client try to stab her with a knife . |
| Hi all, I've got a guy in an Inventory Manager position \ecom biz\ who is responsible for
replenishing
inventory. I want to establish a bonus plan for him. I'm not trying for the perfect solution. I
just
want
something \something is better than nothing. And I don't want to reinvent the wheel. But it has
to make
sense, and I'm struggling with this because I don't have much experience with commission based
comp.
Plus
each of the metrics I try to apply commission against has it's own issues \more on this below.
His
responsibilities reorder inventory to maintain in-stock status, reduce costs, procure new 3rd
party
products
with the expectation that they well sell Things I could apply commission against, and concerns
for each
\ of
product sale revenue. Issue he's not fully responsible for the sales, and this would encourage
him to
buy
items that may not have the greatest chance of sale and could get out of control if unchecked
\we're a
small
biz, so assume it will be unchecked\ Margin of products sold. This would discourage him from
bringing in
products that have lower margins, but would encourage him to fight for lower costs. of active
Sku's.
This
can be gamed in our system, you can create variants and kits that would artificially inflate the
count.
\ of
product sale revenue for NEW SKU'S ONLY. This would be neat and tidy but it encourages him to
ignore
already-existing SKU's |
Is there a proven commission-based comp plan for an inventory manager? |
i want to establish a bonus plan for a guy in an inventory manager position \ ecom biz \ who is
responsible
for replenishing inventory . \ of product sale revenue for new sku 's . |
got a guy in an inventory manager position \ who is responsible for replenishing inventory . i
want to
establish a bonus plan for him . \ of product sale revenue for new sku . |
I want to establish a bonus plan for a guy who is responsible for replenishing inventory. |
I don't want to reinvent the wheel, but I don't know how to. |
I 've got a guy in an Inventory Manager \ecom biz\ who is responsible for replenishing inventory
. I do
n't
have much experience with commission based comp . I want something \something is better than
nothing .
|
| gt After the US implored Iraqis to rebel in 1991 and then pulled back I remember it well and it
was
controversial here the US too at the time. It was a choice between empowering Iran by supporting
the
rebellion and let's face it, Iran hated us then, and probably still do now, or allowing Saddam
to
maintain
his rule despite our then recent actions against him who also hated us. There was a lot of
disagreement
within the administration about what to do. But let's not forget the situation at the time. The
rebellion
started south of Basra 3 days before the official surrender at Safwan on 33. And it rapidly
spread. We
opted
to encourage it at first because the war was still ongoing. Who wouldn't? We were still fighting
and we
wanted help. But it grew and spread ridiculously fast. Much faster than we had anticipated.
Schwarzkopf
was
facing a complete and utter collapse of civil society, which was contradictory to our limited
objectives
i.e. removing the Iraqis from Kuwait, NOT regime change. And so, we let the rebellion wither on
the
vine,
partly because we allowed Saddam to maintain his fleet of attack helicopters to put it down. As
a young
man,
it was one of my first experiences where I realized the world wasn't black and white the other
was
perhaps
the Beirut bombings. There is a whole lot of grey. We didn't want a power vacuum. For what it's
worth,
I'm
now personally in favor of complete disengagement. There are no winners there unless you're
willing to
do
unthinkable things to win |
The Americans i.e. our military strategists fucked up. We wildly underestimated the success of
the
rebellion
and what it wanted remove Saddam, while at the same time their objectives were well beyond our
own
remove
Saddam from Kuwait. Hence, we decided to hedge our bets and preserve a strongman. |
there is a whole lot of grey and grey . disengagement is worth it . disengagement disengagement
disengagement disengagement . complete complete complete complete unthinkable . favor of
disengagement .
|
there is a whole lot of grey . there are no winners there it 's worth , i 'm now personally in
favor of
complete disengagement . unthinkable things to win . |
It was a choice between empowering Iran by supporting the rebellion and supporting it. It spread
fast
and
spread fast. |
It was a choice between the US and Iraq. |
gt After the US implored Iraqis to rebel in 1991 and then pulled back I remember it well and it
was one
of
my first experiences where I realized the world was still ongoing . |
| Been lurking and learning for a bit and I thought I'd get back to you incase anyone else scrolls
through
|
Coconut oil has the highest saturated fat. |
get back to you incase anyone else scrolls through . lurking and learning for a bit and learning
for a
bit .
lurking and lurking scrolls . incase anyone else else scrolls through . |
i thought i 'd get back to you incase anyone else scrolls through . lurking and learning for a
bit of
learning for a bit of learning back to you . |
anyone else scrolls through incase others scrolls through? |
I think you're doing it right. |
I thought I 'd get back to you scrolls through a lot of people . I 'm glad I 'm going to have to
talk to
people who do n't like me . |
| That's not the point of data caps. Data caps are intended to encourage moderation of bandwidth.
There's
no
limit on the volume of data that a system can handle, but there is a limit on the rate at which
is can
handle it. If you have 10 customers with 100Mbps plans sharing a gigabit backbone link, you're
fine. But
since it's not economically viable to have fully dedicated bandwidth for every single customer
since
everyone isn't using their full bandwidth 247, you sell more bandwidth than what you have
available in
your
infrastructure. Datacaps are intended to encourage customers to moderate their usage. Streaming
Ultra HD
content can cause you to have a steady data usage of 15Mbps, while streaming regular HD content
can
cause
you to have steady data usage of 6Mbps. If you have a 1TB data cap, streaming UHD content 24
hours a day
means you hit your data cap after five days. So if you watch a ton of Netflix and have a data
cap,
you'll
think about streaming HD content, rather than UHD content. Now, I'm not saying they shouldn't
just build
the
infrastructure necessary to handle everyone using as much bandwidth as they want, but the point
is that
datacaps are basically an indirect way to encourage limitations on bandwidth usage |
There's no limit to the amount of data you can receive, but there is a finite limit to the
amount of
bandwidth the network has available at any given time. |
there is a limit on the volume of data caps . that 's not the point of data caps . data caps are
intended to
encourage moderation of bandwidth . |
data caps are intended to encourage moderation of bandwidth . that 's not the point of data that
a
system
can handle , but there are a limit on the rate . |
Data caps are intended to encourage moderation of bandwidth. |
Data caps are meant to encourage moderation, not limit bandwidth. |
If you have a 1 TB data cap , streaming UHD content 24 hours a day means you hit your data cap
after
five
days . It 's not the point of data caps . |
| Well considering that you are thinking about seriously dating someone their religious outlook
should be
compatible with yours. Take you for example, obviously you've made up your mind about religion
and won't
listen to rational thought. It wouldn't be good for you to date someone who is religious or
someone who
can
understand why others are religious. On the other hand, the person you replied to might consider
religion
important to their life and wants someone who shares that. Everyone has certain boundaries set
up for
themselves, even you. Would you ever eat dog? If you grew up in the west, probably not because
you were
raised in a culture where that just wasn't done. On the other hand, there are countries where
eating dog
is
normal. Religion is just another guardrail like any other. It's a systematic set of beliefs and
practices
that guide how you live your life. It isn't much different from any other cultural system. So
can you
really
not understand why someone would want to date someone who shares similar beliefs |
Religion is important to them because they want someone who shares their beliefs and practices.
Considering
that they might be getting into a serious relationship, that's pretty important. Taking the most
extreme
and
most obvious viewpoint doesn't really prove anything. |
it would be good for you to date someone who is religious . religious or someone who can
understand what
you
live your life is a systematic set of beliefs . |
it would n't be good for you to date someone you live your life . religious . it 's a systematic
set of
beliefs and practices that is religious . |
Religion is just another guardrail. |
You can't date someone who shares your beliefs. |
It 's a systematic set of beliefs and practices that guide how you live your life . Would you
ever eat
dog ?
If you grew up in the west , there are countries where eating dog is normal . |
| Hey guys ! Finally got it, my federal corvette ! Now I can join the empire in peace huehuehue
Wanted to
ask
you about hardpoints, I read a lot about the anaconda having more pure dps but since it's less
manoeuvrable
it's not as good and such. So basically what I wanted to ask is, for BHCZ should I use PAs or
MCs on my
huge
hardpoints ? This is somewhat what I had in mind hardpoint wise I didn't input my internal
engineering
because i'm lazy |
What weapon loadout would you recommend for corvette ? I'm looking to get better with fixed
weapons !
|
what i wanted to ask is , for bhcz should i use pas or mcs on my huge hardpoints ? internal
engineering
because i 'm lazy . bhcz should i use pas or mcs ? |
i did n't input my internal engineering because i use pas or mcs on my huge hardpoints , for
bhcz should
i
use pas or mcs pas engineering engineering hardpoints . |
Should I use PAs or MCs on my big hardpoints ? |
What hardpoints should I use ? |
should I use PAs or MCs on my huge hardpoints ? Edit : Thanks for all the help guys ! I 'm going
to go
to
the empire and see if it 's worth it . |
| Hi, I've been doing some research on schools that I would like to apply to in the Top 15 and
it's still
not
very clear to me what fit really means and why it's important. First, I guess I should mention
what
campus
fit means to me. To me fit means school strengths finance vs marketing vs tech, student body and
general
campus environment city vs college town etc. Now what has me confused is that it seems like most
schools
in
the top 10-15 have a well rounded curriculum that will get you where you want to go. nbsp For
example,
if
you wanted to recruit into a major tech company it looks like you'd have just as good a chance
at
Wharton vs
say a SloanKellogg. I've even seen that at schools like Columbia there are tech industry related
specific
clubs where students plan treks to companies, support each other for interview prep etc. Sure,
looking
at
the employment report only 12-15 of students go into tech but I'm not sure how much of that is
self
selection. I will admit that there is a caveat here that if two schools are at a similar rank
then going
to
a program that is strong in the industry of your interest makes sense. example - going to Darden
for
consulting instead of Andrerson nbsp Fit in terms of student body is another thing that's a
little more
clear - For example, at Haas I noticed that a lot of students were trying out new ventures given
the
closeness to Silicon Valley. A lot of them also seemed very personable and friendly but I assume
that
would
be true across all the schools. They all strive to have a diverse student body right? nbsp
Lastly, fit
in
terms of location makes the most sense to me. Both in terms of industry and general lifestyle.
Say, if
you
wanted to be surrounded by businesses in a big city than Columbia would make you much happier
than going
and
sitting In Tuck |
Its not clear to me how fit in terms of school strength plays a role given that the top 10
schools can
all
get you where you want to go. Any folks here have examplesadvice? For example, should a student
turn
down
Booth for say Haas or Anderson if they were interested in technology? |
if two schools are at a similar rank then going to a program that is strong in the industry of
your
interest
makes sense . what fit really means and why it 's important . |
if two schools are at a similar rank then going to a program that is strong in the industry of
your
interest
makes sense . i 've been doing some research on schools that i would like to apply to in the top
15 .
|
If you want to be surrounded by businesses in a big city then go to a program that is strong in
the
industry
of interest. |
If you want to go to a top 15 school, go to one of the top 15 schools. |
If you want to be surrounded by businesses in a big city than Columbia would make you much
happier than
going and sitting In terms of industry and general lifestyle . I 'm not sure how much of that is
self
selection . |
| My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months now, and we have a very happy, healthy
relationship.
I
recently opened up to him about how my last boyfriend lied to and cheated on me and how that has
caused
me
to have some trust issues, and he was very kind and understanding as he had also been cheated on
in the
past. The next day, I got a notification that he had started sharing his location with me, even
though I
did
not ask him to do so nor did we ever discuss it. When I asked him about it, he said that he did
it to
show
me that he is trustworthy, and will never try to hide anything from me. I know he had good
intentions in
doing this, but I don't feel the need to know his whereabouts at all times. I went ahead and
shared my
location too, and even though I have nothing to hide from him, it feels kind of weird knowing
that we
can
track each other whenever. I have thought about talking to him about it but I don't want him to
get the
wrong idea, I appreciate the efforts that he makes to show his loyalty to me, but this seems
excessive.
I
don't want him to think that he has to do this in order for me to trust him. Should I talk to
him about
it?
In my last relationship I would have been over the moon if I had the ability to track my shady
ex-bf,
but
this time it's different and I don't want to welcome any toxicity into this relationship |
Boyfriend shared location with me recently, and I feel weird about it. Not sure if I should say
something to
him, or just let it be? |
should i talk to him about it ? i do n't want to be over the moon if i had the ability to track
my shady
ex-bf , but it 's different and did n't ask him to do so . |
should i talk to him about it ? should i welcome any toxicity into this relationship ? i do n't
know how
to
track my shady ex-bf , but i do n't know what to do . |
My boyfriend started sharing his location with me, and I don't know if I should talk to him
about it.
|
My boyfriend lied to me about how he cheated on me and I don't know what to do. |
boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months , but I do n't feel the need to know his
whereabouts at
all
times . Should I talk to him about it ? |
| Hi all, So I'm 27. I've had one major relationship, which started when I was 21, and ended
earlier this
year. I've been trying to get back in the game and have been flirty with a few dudes. First of
all, sex
with
my ex was not fantastic. I love being affectionate and touchy-feely, but it took a long time
before we
got
physical maybe about 6mosish. I also unfortunately never finished despite enjoying the feeling,
regardless
of what we tried, and I was always left wanting more. I faked orgasms for the majority of the
relationship,
just saying I finished whenever he had. Sometimes when he wanted to just focus on me I felt like
the
spotlight was on me and faked things to hurry it up. Secondly, we did a lot of kissing, none of
which I
particularly enjoyed, especially kissing with tongue. I just didn't know what to do while he was
exploring
my mouth and it didn't really turn me on. So fast forward, I'm doing awkward things with this
one guy.
To
start with he tried to sleep with me on the first date which totally turned me off and got me
running.
We
tried things again and he keeps trying to kiss me and I just. feel so uncomfortable. He's going
for the
tongues too and I don't know what I'm doing and I just stop kissing him as soon as our lips
misalign and
it
fucks everything up. The weird thing is, when I'm away from him, I'm super into the idea of
doing
physical
stuff with him but as soon as we get in person I just want to flee. And I'm 27. I'm very certain
that I
am
behind and running out of time to get this stuff straightened out |
I've been with one dude, kissed two, both sucked. Is there any hope for a 27-year old woman who
doesn't
know
how to be good at and enjoy physical stuff with other people? |
i 'm super into the idea of doing physical stuff with him , but sex is not fantastic . first of
all ,
sex
with my ex is , when i 'm away from him i just want to flee . |
when i 'm super into the idea of doing physical stuff with my ex . first of all , sex with my ex
, i do
n't
know how to deal with him . |
I want to get back in the game, but I don't know how. |
I'm 27, he's 27, I'm not sure what to do. |
I 've been trying to get back in the game and have been flirty with a few dudes . I do n't know
what I
'm
doing and I just want to get this stuff straightened out . |
| Oooh, I'm actually a student, but when I first started going to middle school, my older sister
had
warned me
of a sub that everyone had deemed the matchmaker. I was lucky enough to not ever meet her 6th
grade
which
was good for my very shy self. It wasn't until 7th grade in biology class that I finally had the
pleasure of
having her stand in front of the class. Her move was to start the class as we normally do and
take
attendance. Afterwards, she'd introduce herself and ask for two volunteers to take attendance
down to
the
office. You always get the jackass and their best friend. Substitute then refuses to let them go
and
chooses
a boy and a girl to go to the office. She also instructs that the boy has to ask out the girl
right in
front
of all of the classified staff. At this point the boy generally looks like a tomato, and the
girl has
the
most disgusted look on her face. I never once heard of a time where they actually followed
through with
what
she wanted. Never |
Substitute wanted to get a boy to ask a girl out in the front office |
i 'm actually a student , but i do n't know what i 'm talking about . i do n't know how to go to
the
office
. i do n't know what to do . |
my older sister is deemed the matchmaker and refuses to let them go and chooses a boy and a girl
to go
to
the office . oooh , i 'm actually a student . |
My sister was a douche. |
Girl in 7th grade asks boy out in front of the entire class, boy refuses to go. |
I was a student , my sister had to ask out the girl right in front of the classified staff . I
never
once
heard of a time where they actually followed through with what she wanted . |
| Hi all! First time posting in here - and would love some advice on what to do moving forward
with my old
greenhouse? situation Me and my wife are renting a property where there is an old greenhouse
that the
glass
has been broken and removed by previous tenant. We do not want to buy new acrylic glass because
we wont
be
able to take it with us. I was thinking that instead I would use the frame still but cover in
netting
and
then use the inside as a vegetable patch? This is so I don't have to remove? Is this a silly
idea? If
not
where would be best to go for netting and what kind of netting would be good to cover a veg
patch?
Thanks
|
Want to know what netting I should put over a greenhouse frame as glass is brokenmissing |
if not where would be best to go for netting and then use the frame still but cover in netting
and then
use
the inside as a vegetable patch ? |
is this a silly idea ? i do n't have to remove new acrylic glass , cover in netting and then use
the
frame
still but we do n't want to take it with us . |
what kind of netting would be good to cover a veg patch? |
what do I do with old greenhouse? |
We do n't want to buy new acrylic glass because we wo nt be able to take it with us . Is this a
silly
idea ?
If not where would be best to go for netting patch |
| Before i start, this is in regards to the parking structures near the SRWC. I will try my best
to keep
it
PG13. Most people are fine drivers but some of you out there are complete idiots. It’s a parking
structure,
not a racetrack. No need to floor it on every floor. First of all, to whoever drives the black
Kia
Optima
dude slow down. Nobody wants to see you go as fast as you can through the structure. It’s also
dangerous.
What happens if someone pulls out of their spot without looking or what if a pedestrian comes
out of
nowhere? Also your car is loud, we get it. Stop blasting out our eardrums and setting off car
alarms.
You’re
not cool. The only thing you’ve accomplished is getting the award for biggest tool. Congrats!
Stop
making
car enthusiasts look bad. I have an exhaust on my car too, but you don’t see me being a
dickhead. Next,
same
goes to whoever drives the grey Honda Accord coupe with the loud exhaust and Cal State Long
Beach
sticker in
the back window. Slow your ass down or you might hurt somebody. Also STOP GOING DOWN THE WRONG
RAMP AT
FULL
SPEED. It’s a one way ramp asshole. You almost hit another car head on because you decided it
was ok to
gun
it down the wrong ramp. Not to mention the two people who had to jump out of the way. Lastly,
whoever
drives
the Subaru Impreza with the anime on the side. Dude, you gotta look to see if there’s any
oncoming
traffic
before you make a turn in the structure. It says “YIELD” for a reason. You almost T-boned me
last week
and
didn’t even notice because you never looked to your left |
please be careful driving in the structures. If you have a loud exhaust, please be courteous to
people
walking and try not to destroy our ears and set off alarms. Just don’t be a dickhead in general.
|
it 's a parking structure , not a racetrack . most people are fine drivers . drivers are
complete idiots
.
parking structure . parking structure structure . dickhead . |
it 's a parking structure , not a racetrack . i have an exhaust on my car too , but you do n't
see me
being
a dickhead . idiots . |
Don’t be an asshole. |
Don’t be an asshole to people. |
Stop blasting the Subaru Impreza with the anime on the side . Stop T - boned me last week and
did n’t
even
notice because you never looked to your left car alarms . |
| Throwaway because this is super sensitive information and I've promised to keep it a secret. I
wrote a
wall
of text but I deleted it so I can give you the shorter version. I can provide more details if
necessary.
My
coworkerfriend is cheating on her fiance with a guy at our office who is married and has kids
and she
told
me about it and I wish she hadn't because it just kind of shattered my view of both of them. He
on the
outside seems like a good husband and dad to his young kids. I'm disappointed in my friend
because there
was
an issue in the past where she kind of got too close to one of her fiance's friends, and she
seemed
really
remorseful about the whole thing and I thought she wouldn't find herself in any similar
situations. So
like
I feel bad for her fiance, who thinks they are working through trust issues but really she is
pursuing
someone at the office. I'm disappointed for selfish reasons because I feel like I found someone
who I
really
got along with on a bunch of levels but I think I need space from her. She wants to meet up
outside of
work
soon so she can unload and talk about it and I'm.dreading it to say the least. And then I feel
conflicted
because this married guy treats my friend like a sex object I think she has feelings though,
which I
realize
is a weirdtwisted feeling to have given that she decided to pursue him, but it still makes me
feel icky,
so
the whole thing has kind of made me on edge about my interactions with married men at my office
because
clearly I was wrong about the assumptions I had about the guy my friend is hooking up with. And
also now
that I know how easy it is to cheat and not get caught and how it can happen between two
seemingly very
professional people who just work closely together it makes me realize my boyfriend could easily
cheat
on me
at work and I wouldn't have any idea at all |
I was kind of oblivious to the fact that my two coworkers are having an affair. I had a
suspicion that
they
were attracted to each other, but I thought the next thing I'd be hearing from my friend would
be
something
like they were flirting or starting to hang out after hours or something.not a full 180 where
they have
actually done stuff. And I mean maybe she didn't say anything because she knew I'd try and stop
it
before it
went further, but I'm still surprised I didn't really catch there was more going on before she
said
something. I consider myself to be a very observant person who catches most things so I'm just
kind of
shocked and now I'm second guessing the assumptions I have about the people I interact with on a
professional level. Maybe you guys can just share stories about how you're married and don't
cheat.?
|
this married guy treats my friend like a sex object i think she has feelings for her fiance with
a guy
at
our office who is hooking up with married men at my office . |
my friend is hooking up with a guy who is hooking up to pursue him , but i feel conflicted about
the guy
my
friend like a sex object . |
My coworker friend is cheating on her fiance with a guy at my office. I feel bad for her fiance
because
she
thinks they are working through trust issues and I don't know what to do. |
My coworker is cheating on her fiance with a married man and I feel guilty about it. |
My coworkerfriend is cheating on her fiance with a guy at our office who is married and has kids
and she
told me about it and I wish she would n't find herself in any similar situations . |
| I’ve been with my fiancé for about three years and we’ve lived together for two. She has always
had
issues
with anxiety and insecurity, but it has gotten worse over the years due to multiple traumatic
events
that
really destroyed her self image and life goals. She does not currently get counseling and relies
on me
and
her parents for support, but unfortunately they tend to enable more than help. That said she has
been
making
improvements and realizes that she has a problem, but still tends to frequently relapse into
unhealthy
patterns lashing out, circular thought patterns about worse case scenarios, sleeping in late,
not taking
care of herselfour homeour dog etc. She recently left school and a well paying job because she
couldn’t
let
go of worst case hypothetical issues none of which ever turned out to be legitimate. It has
really been
driving me and her family up the wall, and at times I feel more like her caretaker than her
partner,
especially with all the work I’ve done to try to support her. Now for the issue at hand. She and
I have
a
pretty normal sex drive, but when she is constantly overwhelmed and freaking out about one
parasitic
fearful
thought after another, it kills all interest in sex for me. This has happened even after being
ready for
sex
all day, and then as soon as she gets home it’s like a switch is flipped as soon as she starts
vocalizing
everything awful about life. This of course can lead to her feeling even worse since she isn’t
getting
what
she needs either. It is very draining to have to be someone’s voice of reason all the time, and
I hate
that
this is happening. I love her very much, but sometimes it feels like she is over-dependent on me
and it
shows. I have absolutely no idea how to go about talking with her about this without sounding
like a
total
asshole, especially since she doesn’t take criticism well even on a good day. I could really use
some
input.
Am I awful, or is this normal |
my fiancé has extreme anxiety, i find myself not wanting to have sex with her after she has a
near-daily
crisis, and I don’t know how to go about remedying this. Any input is appreciated. |
i have a pretty normal sex drive , but i kills all interest in sex for me . am i awful , or is
this
normal .
sex drive after another , it kills all interest in sex . |
she and i have a normal sex drive , but when she is overwhelmed and freaking out about one
parasitic
fearful
thought after another , or is this normal ? |
My fiance has a problem with anxiety and insecurity, and I don't know how to talk to her about
it. |
Fiance’s self image issues are getting worse and I’m not sure what to do. |
I ’ve been with my fiancé for three years . She has always had issues with anxiety and
insecurity , but
does not currently get counseling and relies on me . I have no idea how to go about talking with
her
about
this without sounding like a total asshole . |
| As a kid I obviously loved sugar, as I grew up lost my sweet tooth. I never want chips anymore.
I eat
avocados whole whenever I see them up for grabs. Eggs, vegetables and meat are the only things
that
satisfy
my taste buds. Watching this document I was like well great I’ve already been doing this. I’m
6’4 and
185
lbs and in great health. It’s funny because my friends would see me bring 3 hard boiled eggs, a
bag of
steak, bell peppers, and beef jerky as lunch in high school a lot of it and eat with me and
comment on
how
my metabolism must be crazy good. I had almost no body fat. College has added a few pounds which
I
realize
that beer, huge carb load, can be attributed to that. Plus eating more canned soup. Sorry for
the long
post
just excited to hear my diet is correct and to be able to share this friends and family. Lots of
skeptics so
if anyone could link research that’d be great |
I love keto food, I eat a lot of it, and I understand how I’ve stayed so lean now |
i 'm 6 ' 4 and 185 lbs and in great health . as a kid i obviously loved sugar , as i grew up
lost my
sweet
tooth . |
had almost no body fat , as a kid . i 'm 6 ' 4 and 185 lbs and to be able to share this friends
and
family .
what do i do ? |
I lost my sweet tooth and now I eat avocados. |
I’ve lost a lot of weight and I’m excited to hear about it. |
I loved sugar , as I grew up lost my sweet tooth and my friends would see me bring 3 hard boiled
eggs ,
bell
peppers , and beef as lunch in high school a lot of soup . |
| I'm graduating college in June and feel extremely self conscious about never having had vaginal
sex. I
have
been waiting until I was in a relationship to have sex, which hasn't happened. I hook up with
men
regularly
which essentially includes me giving blowjobs and receiving some terrible fingering. I
masturbate
vaginally
regularly, and sometimes end up crying afterward for whatever reason. I am so extremely tired of
giving
blowjobs. I used to adore it, but now I find them unfulfilling especially since I get nothing in
return
usually. I feel like I'm withholding pleasure from myself by not having vaginal sex. I don't
know how to
get
past this point where I don't want to have sex with just anyone but I also don't want it to be
such a
big
deal in my life. I've found it kinda puts a barrier up between the guy and I. It used to be more
accepted
when I was younger, but now it's become more and more of a turn off to the guys I see. Socially,
I feel
kind
of alienated by it. My friends know and it's awkward when they talk about sex around me |
Should I push myself to have sex for the first time or accept that I'll have sex when the time
is right?
How
should I go about either. |
i feel like i do n't want to have vaginal sex but i do n't know how to get past this point where
i do
n't
want it to be such a big deal . |
i feel like i 'm withholding pleasure from myself by not having sex with just anyone but i do
n't want
it to
be such a big deal in my life . |
I feel like I'm withholding pleasure from myself by not having vaginal sex. |
I don't know how to have vaginal sex. |
I 'm graduating college in June and feel like I 'm withholding pleasure from myself by not
having
vaginal
sex . I do n't know how to get past this point where I see . |
| So starting from the beginning we met at a house party and everything was fucking perfect!
literally, we
hung out had great sex and all but this is where I believe shit went south. She moved in, she
moved into
my
house probably after dating for 5 months. WE both thought it would work but it really didn't. I
broke up
with her two weeks ago because she was constantly accusing me of cheating, doing malicious
things, and
complaining about a lot. keep in mind, I never cheated She complained I had too many girls on my
social
media IG,SNAPCHAT and that I was disrespecting her because of it. She went through my phone
several
times
finding things and just running with it. She ended up going through my browsing history and
finding
things
she didn't like porn and got really upset. These things continued basically our whole
relationship. She
constantly accused me, questioned who THE GIRL WAS. basically asking who my side piece was when
I had
none.
I caught her talking to people on three occasions, with no really good excuse honestly. So to
fast
forward
this, I'm sitting here after we broke up and we are kinda talking about everything. She is
telling me
that
she knows what she did wrong and she is begging me to give her another chance. I'm sitting here
like a
little bitch because this girl really did love me, she bought me things with surprise, she was
there
when I
was sick, when i needed assistance like she was literally always there for me. she is a very
nice girl
very
sweet. I cant imagine myself without her and that's the scary thing. I'm also scared though,
that she
might
not change. and this will come back to haunt me in the future. Please I need some insight on my
situation
because this shit really sucks |
Broke up with girlfriend because she accused me of cheating, assumed I was doing things on the
side and
I
did nothing right. Got back together now what? |
i broke up with her two weeks ago , she knows what she did wrong and she is begging me to give
her
another
chance to give her another chance . |
broke up with her two weeks ago because she was accusing me of cheating and she is telling me
that she
did
wrong and give her another chance . she is begging me to give her another chance . |
I broke up with my girlfriend because she was constantly accusing me of cheating. She is begging
me to
give
her another chance. |
I broke up with my girlfriend because she was accusing me of cheating on her. |
I broke up with my girlfriend because she moved into my house probably after dating for 5 months
. She
is
telling me that she knows what she did wrong and she is begging me to give her another chance .
|
| Hi, this is really embarrassing for me to seek help online but I guess the anonymity helps a
bit. Thing
is,
few years back I noticed I have this wound on my head, kinda like a pimple or like dried skin
after a
wound
recover. So I began to pick at it and it will just come off, pieces by pieces. Dry, crusty,
flaky. Then
the
wound would be exposed it would be red some what like it's bleeding. I did not pay any
additional
attention
to it. Few years passed, instead of having only one wound, it seems to have spread. I have like
multiple
scab wounds on my head now. They're alright if I don't pick at it, it will just remain like a
dried up
wound. I really want to treat this and I want to seek advise here before going to the
doctordermatologist.
Any help would be greatly appreciated |
I have head scabs wound and I need help. They're beginning to make me paranoid thinking if I
have
dandruff.
|
i have like multiple scab wounds on my head . i do n't pick at it , it will just remain like a
dried up
wound . dried up wound . |
i have like multiple scab wounds on my head , instead of having spread . i do n't pick at it ,
it will
just
remain like a dried up wound . |
I have a wound on my head and want to treat it. |
I have a dry wound on my head and I don't know what to do. |
I have a wound on my head , and I want to seek advise . I have no idea what to do . Any help
would be
greatly appreciated . Thank you ! |
| Hey all, I’m graduating law school honestly don’t know how I made it this far and it’s crunch
time for
the
next several months. My meds have been functioning normally as they should and I know I don’t
have time
to
see my therapist during this finals period. With the heightened stress I’ve noticed my symptoms
coming
back
with a vengeance and I really just need to power through first the next couple weeks to finish
finals
and
graduate, and then extending to the next couple months so I can pass the bar exam. Trying to be
proactive
and get ahead of it before it gets too bad |
what are some “self care” type things you’ve used that help you focus when you’d rather stay in
bed and
hide
from the world and severely waning motivation in a crucial time? My trusty go-tos haven’t been
helping
me
cope and I need help powering through. Thoughts? |
do n't know how to be proactive and get ahead of it before it gets too bad . hey all , it 's
crunch time
for
the next several months . |
trying to be proactive and get ahead of it before it 's crunch time for the next several months
. trying
to
know how to made it a far more bad . |
I’m graduating law school and I don’t know how I made it this far. |
I’m graduating law school in a couple of months and I’ve noticed a lot of stress coming back.
|
I need to power through first couple weeks to finish finals and graduate , and get ahead of it
before it
gets too bad . What do you guys think ? Thanks ! |
| The policy intent behind not filing charges against an alleged victim if the accused is found
not guilty
or
have their charges dropped is the fear that it will scare away legit victims who feel they don't
have a
strong enough case, or legit victims whose abusors get aquitted purely because there wasn't
enough
evidence.
Not saying it's the best, but given your situation I'm sure you can relate to a victim being
punished
just
because the abuser was good at lying or hiding facts. My issue would be with the individuals
involved in
the
legal process. First off, individual LEOs are going to carry around their own biases about a
male's
ability
to be a victim at the hands of a woman, especially if there's an alpha culture in their
department. And
I'm
going to completely speculate and state that any police victimhood tunnel vision is amplified by
their
training with regard to DV situations. Second, the State Attorney SA was a little bitch for
filing. The
way
it works is this In each county's prosecutor's office, each SA is assigned to a specific
division like
felony, misdemeanor, DV, and traffic. So an SA in a DV division will only work up DV cases. DV
is the
most
pain in the ass division because 1 there are a shitload of DV accusations, and 2 as I'm sure
you'll
agree,
it's very emotionally driven. So you'll typically see newly hired SA's assigned to DV because
they're
low on
the totem pole and DV is a pain in the ass. The SA has to go through every non-arrest police
report to
determine if there's enough in the accusation, yes just the accusation, to show that the law has
been
broken. If the law has been broken on paper, then they'll file charges and prosecute. I've heard
that
some
SA offices have they're secretaries go through the reports and separate into prosecute or don't
prosecute
piles, and blindly file charges just based on that, but I'm not sure how true that is. Anyways,
they go
only
based on the report written up by the LEO. So if the LEO was too lazy or didn't do a good enough
job
giving
both sides of the story, or subconciously injected their victim bias into the narrative, the SA
has
nothing
else to go on. Other times, SA's file on everything because they want to make a good impression
on their
bosses and get promoted to more exotic cases, or they're bosses put pressure on them to be tough
on DV.
The
fact that your prosecutor didn't drop the charges after seeing the texts and note yeah, I looked
through
your shit, tells me he's some needle dick trying to lick his boss's asshole by showing him that
he's a
big
boy and can convince a judge to keep out evidence so he could get promoted faster. Then you have
the
Judges,
who I would say are mostly middleground, even though they my lean slightly towards defense or
prosecution
depending on their jobs before putting on the robe. Of course there's always outlier judges
everywhere
that
are either extreme defense or extreme prosecution oriented. By the looks of it, your judge
followed the
law
and deemed your evidence admissable. I would say this is what usually happens, because convicted
defendants
always get a free appeal, fact, and judges don't want to get reversed because, like SAs, they
want to
get
promoted too. So there you have it, my personal overview of the Criminal Justice System. Just a
bunch of
independently self concerned people bungling shit through. So if anyone wants to take bias out
of the
system, they have to take bias out of the individuals who compose at system. This means the guy
you run
into
at the grocery store or the lady you chat up at Starbucks. Oh I almost forgot, whenever you see
a
headline
that some Criminal got a light sentence for some crime and no trial took place, meaning that a
jury
didn't
find them guilty, that means that there was a plea deal between the defense attorney and the
state
attorney,
and the state attorney agreed to that sentence. The judge most likely was never part of those
negotiations.
So I always get a kick out of people whining about a lenient judge that imposed the sentence,
when they
should be pissed off at the state attorney for agreeing to that sentence. Last tid bit is that
almost
everyone gets probation, because the courts are too clogged and the jails are overcrowded.
Anyways, wish
you
luck on your journey. Never give up, never surrender |
the world's a complicated pile of shit with a lot of moving parts. If you want to change
machine, focus
on
influencing the parts. |
the state attorney sa was a little bitch for filing . attorney sa was good at lying to a victim
being
punished just because the individuals involved in the legal process . |
the state attorney sa is a little bitch for filing , but given your situation to a victim being
punished
just because the individuals involved in the legal process . |
If the law has been broken on paper, then file charges and prosecute. |
It's not the victim's fault, it's the law. |
The policy intent behind not filing charges against an alleged victim if the law has been broken
on
paper ,
then they 'll file charges just based on that , but I 'm not sure how true that is . |
| Hey All, Sorry if this doesn't fall under whats allowed on this subreddit, I struggled to read
the rules
and
guidelines if that gives any indication but I really think I need to start engaging with places
like
this,
and with the possibility that I may need to start looking into getting checked. I'm starting to
feel
quite
apathetic about my lifestyle and potential in the future. I remember a time when I was a young
kid and
believed I could accomplish things and be a master of the things I took interest in, but with
each
passing
year Im now 28 It's starting to feel like I'm just always going to be mediocre at a lot of
things, and
I'm
not sure if I can put it down to laziness or lack or motivation any more than my scattered focus
and
attention. I was a very hyperactive child, and for a breif period during primary school my mom
was
taking me
to a psych in search of a diagnosis Not sure if this was for ADHD or even possibly autism. I
don't know
why,
but I stopped going and carried on with my life. I did ok in school, but started to find it
difficult
the
older I got, going into college UK and then Uni UK. My biggest problem, looking at how I seem to
function is
I cant just stick to one thing. I will endlessly watch youtube videos, constantly opening new
ones and
will
start stop play them without fully finshing one before going on to the next. Even right now, I'm
struggling
to focus on what I'm writing, which I suppose makes my text seem less articulated. I'll be 30 in
a few
years, and with this looming on the horizon, I really want to sort my life out. I'm in a basic
level job
with little responsibilities, and I just feel like I could be a lot more by now. I have many
hobbies
Guitar,
Gaming, Photography, which I want to start a business in but again I feel that I can't really
get
particularly great at anything, maybe I'm just searching for an excuse, but I feel I have to
question if
ADHD medication could really help me here. It's so expensive to go through the diagnosis here in
Australia
where I'm now living and I can't afford it right now |
Undiagnosed Adult with 30 on the horizon, feeling very down and beaten with the state of my
mind. Not
sure
what to do, would like some support |
i have many hobbies guitar , gaming , photography , gaming , photography medication , maybe i 'm
just
searching for an excuse . adhd medication could really help me here . |
i have hobbies guitar and hobbies guitar in a few years , and with this looming on the horizon ,
which i
want to sort my life out , but i do n't know how to help me here . |
I'm starting to feel apathetic about my life and potential in the future, and I don't know what
to do.
|
I'm starting to feel apathetic and apathetic, and I'm not sure what to do. |
I want to start engaging with places like this , but I 'm not sure if I can put it down to
laziness or
motivation any more than my scattered focus and attention . |
| Hello, im in a really difficult situation right now and i really need all the help i can
possibly get to
find a solution to this problem. Me and my girlfriend have been in a relationship for 2 months
now, she
has
to hide the fact that she is in a relationship with me as her mum doesnt want her to date me due
to me
not
being a christian.but my family do know i date her and allow it but my family have simmilar
views, they
want
me to marry someone of my culture but nahhh. I really dont know what to do i really want to be
approved
by
her parents so we can see each other more and just other stuff uno. Its not because her mum is
against
my
religion or anything, well my family is muslim but i aint really that religious at all. it is
because
when
it comes to marriage her mum is just worried or something but i really dont think religion is
rellevant
at
this stage of the relationship as we are definately not thinking about marriage due to our age
both 17
and
its too early in the relationship to be thinking about that. My girlfriend just wants to somehow
convince
her mum to allow her to date me as like a boyfriend for now. She has brought this up many times
but her
mum
just keeps saying no like there has to be a way to convince her mum to allow us to date! I have
not met
her
mum yet.When she says that her mum just says then there is no point if your not going to take
the
relationship seriously, we are but not on marriage level then she just brings up religion again.
I just
want
to be with her, please any help to solve this issue thxxx in advancee! We both really do love
each other
and
want to be with each other help |
My girlfriends mum does not allow her to date me because of our religious differences, we want
to find a
way
to convince my girlfriends mum to allow us to datewhat do we do in this situation to convince my
girlfriends
mum to allow us to date? |
girlfriend just wants to allow her to date me as like a boyfriend for now . i date her and allow
her mum
to
allow her to date someone of my culture . |
my girlfriend just wants to marry me as like a boyfriend for now , they want me to allow her to
date her
and
allow me convince her mum to allow her mum . |
Girlfriend wants to convince her mum to allow her to date me as a boyfriend. |
Girlfriends mum doesnt want me to date her due to her religion. |
My girlfriend is in a relationship with me as her mum does nt want her to date me as like a
boyfriend
for
now . I do nt know what to do . |
| Hi Reddit. I recently moved to an apartment and took my 10yr old Pitbullhound mix with me.
Previously we
lived with my husband's dad in a house with a huge yard, and another dog, a 7yr old German
Shepard. The
pittbull lived her entire life at that house, and was with the German Shepard since he was a
puppy.
Since
moving, I feel like my Pitt is depressed. We take her to the old house a few times a week to run
around
and
spend time with the German Shepard, but when she comes back to the apartment she just kind of
lays
around
and especially lately seems blue. She's not a super active dog, and lays around a lot even at
the house,
but
I just feel like there's a difference between when shes at the house and the apartment. She has
also
peedpooped in the apartment, whereas she has never poopedpeed in the house. My husband and I
have
discussed
bringing her back to the house, but don't want her to feel like we abandoned her. She really
likes
cuddling
and getting personal attention and my FIL just wouldn't do that |
My dog seems sad but I don't know if it's just me, or if she really is. |
my husband 's dad in a house with my husband 's dad and i have discussed bringing her back to
the house
,
but do n't want her to feel like we abandoned her . |
my husband 's dad in a house with a huge yard , but do n't want her to feel like we abandoned
her and i
feel
like my husband 's dad . |
I feel like my Pitt is depressed and I don't know what to do. |
How do I talk to my FIL about bringing her back to the house? |
My husband 's dad has never poopedpeed in the house , but do n't want her to feel like we
abandoned her
. I
feel like there 's a difference between when she s at the house . |
| Okay this is weird to explain but ill do my best. First of my friend is 32 and she has a kid
from 2
years.
now that's out the way I have know her for about 7 years we hang out quite allot together, she
works at
a
bar so wen ever she works i'm kinda there for her having fun etc, now last year I met a girl in
the bar
she
works at we hit it off and after a few weeks we were together things were great until she
unexpectedly
broke
things off with me, I wen to a dark place after that cause I was over my head in love with her.
However
my
friend was always there for me talk for what ever I needed, and that was wen I started hanging
out even
more
with her and around her I enjoy her company allot. But its only since recent that I started
looking
differently at her and got a warm fuzzy feeling from being around her that let me wanting more I
tried
going
away with her more but at a point she going to notice that different around her and she has, she
asked
me
what was up with me the last 2 weeks, I joke'ly said if you only knew. I'm kinda stuck i would
like to
get
closer to her and get more intimate with her but one I don't want her to think that I just go
the her to
get
over my ex, and two she is my best-friend I'm stuck on how to tell her that I have feelings for
her
without
losing her, she is the only one that I tell every thing and now's all about me |
falling in love with my best friend but don't really know how to her with out losing her |
i 'm stuck on how to tell her that i have feelings for her without losing her , but i do n't
want her to
get
over my ex . |
i 'm stuck on how to tell her that i have feelings for her without losing her , she has a kid
from 2
years .
i do n't want her to get over my ex . |
I'm stuck on how to tell my best-friend that I have feelings for her without losing her |
I'm in love with my best friend and I don't know what to do |
My friend has a kid from 2 years . I have feelings for her but I do n't want her to think that I
just go
the
her to get over my ex . |
| Warning Sorry if its hard to read its hard for me to sort thoughts sometimes Sometimes i feel so
stuck
in my
head. My thoughts are just going a million miles a minute. I know what things i need to do but
I'm
unable to
start. Whenever i think about trying to do something I will plan it out. Run a fairly detailed
simulation of
me doing what needs to be done in my head. I check the time and it hasnt even been a minute. I
feel as
if
ive already lived the evnt of me doing. I feel as if ive already done it. Now the task seems
immense
where
do i start. Well i guess ill start here. Then i think it out again feel as if ive done it. Check
the
time
its been two minutes. I'm low key staring off into space conceptuilizing the task so thoroughly
and time
isnt going forward. Its only been a minute and I already lived it!. Its exhausting so then you
need a
break
from that so you check your email or get on face book to distract you. Its like I'm not
connected with
time.
I spend so much time distracting my vbrain from thinking about NOW just so that i can live in
it! Its
draining its annoying and exhausting |
How can you get anything done. Feels like I've lived it. but I still have to do it. Tick tock.
Your
brain is
to fast for whats NOW. |
i 'm unable to start and i feel as if i need to do but i do n't know what to do . i do n't know
what to
do .
|
i feel like i 'm unable to start a minute and i 'm not connected with time . what do i do ? edit
:
thanks
for all the help . |
I feel as if ive already done it. I'm not connected with time. |
I feel like my brain is draining my time. |
what needs to be done in my head . I 'm low key staring off into space conceptuilizing the task
so then
you
need a break from that so you check your email or get on face book to distract you . |
| Any other women in masonry here? I'm finding we are few and far between! I am only a mere
labourer at
this
point, but hoping to start laying in the next few years. I've been in lots of other hard labour
type of
jobs
but this is my favourite so far. My boyfriend's dad started this company years ago and all of
the
brothers
are in it, I'm very proud to help them build this company, as it will be ours in the future!
Since we're
all
ladies here, any tips on keeping my hair nice working with the stone and mortar dust? I swear
I'm
killing it
faster |
Women kick ass, any others in masonry, and how do I take care of my hair? |
i want to start laying in the next few years , but i swear i 'm killing it faster and mortar
dust . how
do i
build this company ? |
my boyfriend 's dad started a company years ago and all of the brothers are in the future , but
hoping
to
start laying in the next few years . |
Any tips on keeping my hair nice? |
Any tips on keeping my hair on the stone? |
boyfriend 's dad started this company years ago and all of the brothers are in it . How do I fix
this ?
Edit
: Thank you all for the advice . I 'm going to try to talk to them about this . |
| So for context I'm a college student leaving my final class of the semester in a hurry to catch
the
shuttle
on campus. I'm leaving the main hallway to enter the outdoor hallway it's like a balconyhallway,
they're
pretty common in Florida and I happen to stop right next to the railing when I get a call. False
alarm,
it
was a Scam Likely number so in a hurry I thought I put my phone in my pocket but instead I
actually slid
it
down the outside of my pants. A few seconds I hear something crash on the ground but pay it no
mind
cause
aint nobody got time fo dat. I get into an elevator and like any human being nowadays I reach
for my
phone
and it's not there. First confusion, then panic when I remember the crash I heard earlier.
Slowest
elevator
ride of my life. I exit the building and lo and behold there's my rose gold sounds manlier
iPhone 6s,
almost
no glass left on the screen, camera cracked, the home button nowhere to be found, and scratches
to show
it
bounced around after the fall. Phone does not turn on. At this point should I get it fixed at an
Apple
store? I don't have Apple Care and I really can't afford a new phone at the moment |
Mind played tricks on me and made me think my phone was in my pocket. Phone actually fell 3
stories and
was
very much dead. |
do n't get apple care , slid it down the outside of my pants . false alarm , it was a scam
likely number
so
in a hurry i thought i put my phone in my pocket . |
put my phone in my pocket , slid it down the outside of my pants and i do n't have apple care
and apple
store , false alarm , apple store at an apple store . |
Dropped my iPhone 6s in an elevator and it didn't turn on. |
I dropped my phone in a hurry and it broke. |
I 'm a college student leaving my final class of the semester in a hurry to catch the shuttle on
campus
.
Phone does not turn on . Should I get it fixed at an Apple store ? |
| I've been seeing this girl for a few months and we completely hit it off. We still talk daily,
but she
is
commitment phobic and is slowly pulling back. She's extremely busy and we sometimes have trouble
finding
time for plans. She told me does not want to commit right now, which I am okay with, but I
struggle with
the
fact that it means we are not necessarily monogamous. Neither of us wants to stop seeing each
other but
we're in it for different reasons. Is it doomed due to our different needs? Is ending it the
right thing
to
do |
Girl I'm seeing and I are on different pages about what we want, but enjoy each other's company.
|
is it doomed due to our different needs ? is ending it the right thing to do . commitment phobic
and is
slowly pulling back . commitment phobic and commitment daily . |
is it doomed due to our different needs to stop seeing each other but we 're in it . neither of
us have
to
stop different reasons . is ending it the right thing to do ? |
Girl I'm seeing says she doesn't want to commit right now. Is it doomed? |
Dating a girl for a few months, she wants to stop seeing each other. Is it doomed? |
I 've been seeing a girl for a few months , she told me does not want to commit right now , but
I
struggle
with the fact that it means we are not monogamous |
| My girlfriend of 3 years broke my heart yesterday . she told me she doesn’t want to be in a
relationship, be
my girlfriend, she doesn’t feel the same as she used to and needs time to “find herself” and
that she
still
loves me more than anything but can’t be with me now.she called me last night at 3am and I know
she’ll
call
me today eventually too.We are or were long distance but I wanted to make plans to move to her.
As much
as I
should accept the breakup and pain from her leaving me I am absolutely devastated I’m on the
verge of
crying
every single minute, I can’t run my company, I can’t eat I keep trying to arrange to get a
therapist but
the
process is taking long due to insurance matters.as much as I should want someone who loves me
and treats
me
good and wants to be with me I can’t move my mind to letting go of her every second I just pray
she
comes
back saying she fucked up and wants to be together.I love her so much and I can’t even get my
own mind
to
accept letting her go, thinking about never seeing her again makes me want to throw up.wtf do I
do when
she
calls and texts, it’s so hard knowing I shouldn’t ever pick up or reply but I cannot gather even
enough
strength to block her or ignore her for to long, the only thing keeping me from picking up her
calls or
calling her right now is the hope that ignoring her will make her come back to me |
my girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me and I am having the hardest time of my life, miss her
more
than
anything , need help deciding how to handle her calling and texting me |
i can not gather even enough strength to block my girlfriend of 3 years broke my heart . she
calls her
will
make her come back to me . what do i do ? |
girlfriend of 3 years broke my heart yesterday . girlfriend calls me from picking up her right
now is
the
hope that ignoring her come back to me . wtf do i do ? |
My girlfriend of 3 years broke my heart yesterday and I can’t move my mind to let her go. |
Girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me because she doesn’t want to be in a relationship. |
Girlfriend does n't want to be in a relationship with me and wants to be together . I love her
so much
and
want to move to her but I do n't know what to do . |
| currently on a pretty high dose of prescribed XR and IR i take as a combo. also whenever i
listen to
music
when studying, i cannot focus on my task.so i SHOULDN’T listen to music then? what’s YOUR
experience
with
that? also sometimes adderrall makes me sleepy am i the only one? can’t drink coffee cus my
heart could
literally explode. people here have success w medication where i find myself only slightly
improving 10
months on treatment what are some habits that you’ve implemented that helped with your academic
performance
|
college student on finals week need to ace her finals so she won’t get kicked out of engineering
program.
meds are barely helping what are some habits i should implement to boost academic performance?
|
i take as a combo . i find myself only slightly improving 10 months on treatment what are some
habits
that
you 've implemented that helped with your academic performance . |
prescribed xr and ir i take as a high dose of prescribed xr and ir i find myself only slightly
improving
10
months on a pretty high dose combo . |
what’s your experience with adderrall? |
if you’re on a high dose of XR, listen to music. |
if i listen to music when studying , i can not focus on my task.so i find myself only slightly
improving
10
months on treatment what are some habits that helped with your academic performance |
| While I know some of you have always reveled in the hate the Raiders get, some like myself have
always
felt
the need to try to defend our moves just for the sake of hoping they weren’t bad. Obviously we
all
harbor
some bias or else we wouldn’t be fans. But recently for me there’s been a change. I no longer
really
feel
the need to defend our decisions to other fanbases. I’m not sure if it’s because I trust Gruden
to get
shit
done or what but it’s oddly calming to have him back. Even with the draft and FA not going how I
would
have
envisioned I’m not worried. Everyone thinks DC is a journeyman QB after one bad season. they
will learn.
Everyone thinks our defense is going to be the same as it was last season. they will learn.
Everyone
thinks
Marshawn is washed up and we can’t run the ball. they will learn. The Autumn Wind is a Raider.
they will
learn |
I’ve been seeing large amounts of hate from outside fanbases about our draft and offseason in
general
and
have felt nothing but enjoyment out of the idea that they have no idea what is about to hit them
come
the
Fall. |
i 'm not sure if it 's a need to defend our decisions to other fanbases and it 's oddly calming
to have
him
back to get shit done . |
i 'm not sure if it 's because i defend our decisions to other fanbases in fanbases to get shit
done or
what
but it 's oddly calming to have him back . |
I don’t feel the need to defend our decisions to other fans. |
I’m a Raiders fan and I’ve always hated the Raiders. |
Everyone thinks our defense is going to be the same as it was last season and we ca n't run the
ball . I
do
n't know if this is a change . |
| I'll be honest, the movie trailers looked really cool, then I heard the movie was awful, but I
was still
really curious about the story so I picked up the book. gotta say, maybe it's me, but the book
sort of
left
me feeling 'meh'. There was certainly a mood the writer was attempting to cultivate in the
story, and I
can't say he succeeded with me. My critique, and where I'm sure my dissatisfaction comes from,
is that I
felt starved of any kind of grounded reality to contrast to the largely un-explained weirdness
of Area
X. Of
course, the main attraction of the narrative is Area X, but very little perspective is given
about how
Area
X fits into any kind of believe-able world, other than a few vague lines about how the general
public
sees
it. But were it exists in physical space like what country? where in that country?, how it
effected the
politics of the region, accounts related to people directly effected by the poorly defined
Event.
anything.
The main character herself is detached and emotionally distant in her recounting of the events
that had
occurred, both coming into the narrative and apparently by her own account since she was little.
So a
detached surreal land of wrongness with a poorly relate-able and perhaps even literally autistic
protagonist
left me struggling to lose myself to the story. Having just finished reading IT chock full of
compelling
imagery, some descriptions of creatures or settings tempered my immersion with what seemed a
poor mental
image and a distinct feeling that it could have been done better. There were many things I felt
were
done
well, however, such as the ominous aura he creates surrounding the tower, as well as the
building
suspense
as they descend into it. Overall, I certainly don't regret picking it up, but I feel like
whatever vague
expectations I set based on my impressions from the trailers were somewhat let down |
I'm a man that likes a meaty, detail-rich, grounded setting, and it might just be that was
diametrically
opposed to how the author wanted to tell the story, which was from the very narrow perspective
of the
protagonists journal. |
i picked up the book , and i ca n't say he 's attempting to cultivate in the story . movie
trailers
looked
really cool , then i heard the movie was awful . |
i picked up the book in the story , and i ca n't say he succeeded with me . i 'll be honest
about the
story
so i heard the movie was awful . |
I liked the movie, but I didn't like it. |
I liked the movie, but I don't think it's a good book. |
The movie sort of left me feeling ' meh ' . I do n't regret picking it up , but I feel like
whatever
vague
expectations I set based on my impressions from the trailers were somewhat let down . |
| I'm 29m. Started dating a great girl about 9 months ago 27f. Things have been going really well.
I had
been
single for a few years prior to meeting her, when I worked on myself, my career, my friendships,
etc.
And
now this relationship feels like it has complemented those improvements perfectly. We live about
a 10
minute
walk from each other. We also spend the night at one of our apartments probably 3 or 4 times a
week. So
we
already spend a lot of time together. Her apartment lease expired in February of this year, so
she was
apartment hunting in Dec and January. We never discussed moving in together. It felt too soon,
to me.
Now
I'm looking for a new apartment for a mid-summer move, and I've been complaining about how
expensive
things
are in our city now. I'm currently paying around 1,200 a month, and I'm going to realistically
be paying
at
least 1,500, likely for a studio. Today she mentioned that she didn't want to freak me out, but
that
she'd
be open to looking for a place together to split rent. I'm just not sure I'm ready right now.
Will I be
ready in July, around our 1 year anniversary? Maybe. I didn't want this to be a financial
decision, but
I
can't ignore the benefits of paying 800 a month instead of 1,600 a month. That sort of thing is
life
changing. And in the past I've thought about how living with a SO and consolidating rent, food
costs,
etc is
really when you're able to start saving serious money for things like vacations, buying a house,
retirement,
etc But it feels so serious. Like, I'm deciding she's the one. Maybe she is. I don't know. But
am I
ready to
make that decision? We have a few friends who are couples who have lived together for years, and
they
don't
seem to be locked into marriage or anything. But it's just kind of scary to me. Making such a
definitive
commitment. How should I approach this decision |
I'm looking for a new apartment. Apartments are expensive. GF offered to move in together to
split rent.
That would happen around our 1 year anniversary. I have no reason to doubt the relationship
right now,
but
it's just a scary serious decisions. Not sure how to approach it. |
i 'm looking for a new apartment for a mid-summer move , and i 've been complaining about how
expensive
things are in our city . expensive things are in our city . |
looking for a new apartment for a mid-summer move , and i 'm looking for expensive things are in
our
city .
i 'm just not sure if expensive things are complaining about how expensive move . |
Girlfriend wants to split rent, I'm not sure I'm ready. |
Been dating a great girl for 9 months. Things are going great, but I'm not sure I'm ready for a
serious
relationship. |
I 'm looking for a new apartment for a mid - summer move , and I ca n't ignore the benefits of
paying
800 a
month instead of 1,600 a month . What should I do ? |
| Person who was discovered here. It was amusing actually. Basically, dude had been looking for an
angle
for a
long while to get between me and the girl. Frankly it wasn’t difficult, I was tired of her, but
too much
of
a coward to break it off. I had covered my tracks exceptionally well, i had rules I follow,
though I
hadn’t
accounted for one thing. I allowed the dude access to my computer to check out a game before he
bought
it,
and ended up falling asleep a little ways away, he took the chance to log into my own social
media and
dig
through my stuff. From other sources he had been trying to get into my account externally, and
couldn’t
|
I had trusted someone with unlimited access to my account, and they used it to expose me. In
hindsight,
it
was the best thing to happen to me. |
i allowed the dude access to my computer to check out a game before he was looking for an angle
for a
long
while to get between me and the girl . |
dude had been looking for an angle for a long while to get between me and the girl i allowed the
chance
to
log into my own social media . |
Guy tried to get into my social media, but couldn’t. |
Dude tried to get into my social media accounts to get me laid. |
dude had been looking for an angle for a long while to get between me and the girl . I allowed
the dude
access to my own social media and dig through my stuff . |
| This is stupid. It’s been a little over a year since the break. It’s been five months since we
last
spoke or
saw each other, at which point it was maybe a bimonthly thing. I realize that it’s healthier
this way.
Was a
one-sided breakup where she basically told me she jumped in too quickly after she progressed
things
pretty
fast. Never really got more of a reason than that, other than learning she had a habit of that
relationship
pattern, and I’ve slowly made peace with it. Continuing to see her here and there did not help,
and I
could
never wrap my head around what she got out of it since she was the one who ended things. You
know, it
doesn’t hurt quite so bad anymore and I don’t think about her as much or even remember our
relationship
with
the same clarity as when it was constantly on my mind. Attempting to go no contact has been a
big part
of
helping me move on, but sometimes things will remind me of her and I can’t help but wonder how
she’s
doing.
For instance, it’s her birthday soon and I’d like to know if she managed to get into grad school
as she
had
put a whole lot of effort into it over the past year. There’s this part of me that hates letting
her go
simply because she was this intimate and important part of my life for a decent chunk of time.
It feels
like
abandoning an old friend. But it’s impossible to separate from the part of me that misses her
romantically
and still harbors the fantasy that enough time has passed and maybe she’ll miss the good and
forget
whatever
internal struggle drove her away. And I can’t entertain that or I’ll undo all of the progress
I’ve made.
Consider this me venting about the people we have to leave behind for our own emotional
well-being. I
cannot
reconcile the desire to be able to have a conversation and learn how she’s doing from the desire
to have
her
back in my life. The hoops I’ll jump through to lie to myself. That’s about the right of it,
yeah? How
have
you guys managed to avoid scratching that itch? Or is there a compromise I should work towards,
like
filing
it away for later |
I miss my ex sometimes and wonder how she’s doing. Initiating a conversation with her would
likely undo
a
year of effort in moving on and about five months of no contact, but it makes me sad because I
feel like
I’m
abandoning a friend. Just looking for no contact support and maybe experiences with similar
internal
struggles. |
it 's been a little over a year and learn how she 's doing from the desire to have a
conversation and
learn
how to be able to have her back in my life . |
it 's been a little over a year since the break of the desire to have her back in the life . i
can not
reconcile the desire to be able to learn how she 's doing from the desire to have a conversation
. |
It’s been five months since the break, and I’m slowly making peace with it. |
Broke up with my girlfriend a year ago. It’s been over a year and I’m still missing her. |
I do n't know what I 'm talking about , but I have no idea what to do . I just want to know how
to do
this .
Edit : Thanks for all the advice everyone . I 'm going to talk to her about it and let her know
what she
wants to do . I 'm not sure if this is the right thing to do , but if you have any questions ,
please
let me
know if you are interested in the comments . I 'm just wondering if there is a way |
| Long story short, I met this guy about 6 weeks ago on OKCupid. We only exchanged a few messages,
but he
asked for my number. We met two days later at a park for like an hour. We went on a hike second
week and
cooked for me afterwards no sex. The following week, we went on a walk and went back to his
apartment,
but
kissed, no sex either. Afterwards, I started feeling him a little distant we haven't seen each
other in
3
weeks for various reasons. Last week, I messaged him asking him to tell me if he wasn't
interested in
me, to
be honest about it. He said he was interested, but was afraid things would get serious quickly
didn't
want
that. He then stopped texting me back. Today, I realized he deleted me off Snapchat and
Instagram. I
texted
him saying he was an asshole for not being upfront with me and telling me he didn't like me, but
he said
it
was ME who didn't replied and felt I lost interest. Anyway, he asked if he could call me and we
talked
for
like an hour. He said he was trying to wrap up his feelings for his ex I knew he had just come
out of a
relationship, but not how soon ago. I told him I was not going to be a rebound for him, and he
said,
You're
not a rebound at all, I already did that. What does that mean? He says he wants to keep hanging
out and
see
if there's something that could happen. Would I still be a rebound? Even if it's no sex? I will
NOT
pressure
him into a relationship, that wouldn't be good for either of us, but I do like him and he said
he feels
attracted to me too. I already said no sex and he said that was perfectly fine and he respected
me for
that.
What to think out of all of this |
I said I wasn't going to be his rebound and he said, You're not a rebound at all, I already did
that.
|
i do n't pressure him into a relationship , but he does n't like me , but i do n't know if it 's
no sex
.
rebound is me . |
would i pressure him into a relationship , but i do n't know if it 's no sex or felt attracted
to me ,
but
he said it was me who did n't like me . |
Met a guy on OKCupid, went on a hike, kissed, no sex. He deleted me off Snapchat and Instagram
and told
me
he was not a rebound. I told him I was not going to be a rebound at all, and he said I'm not
going for
him.
|
Met a guy on OKCupid, had sex, he said he wasn't interested in a relationship, but still wants
to hang
out.
|
We met two days later at a park for like an hour . I told him I was not going to be a rebound
for him ,
but
he said he wants to keep hanging out and see if there 's something that could happen . |
| So, recently I built an aquarium so I could store fish for bioreactor fuel. 2 spadefish, a
hoverfish,
and a
bladder fish. When the fish are in your inventory you can't tell whether or not they're
infected. I
ended up
putting in an infected spadefish which almost immediately infected every other fish in the tank.
I was
glad
to see that the disease actually spreads in a contained environment. Then I had an idea. If an
infected
fish
can spread the disease, can a peeper carrying enzyme 42 heal the fish? According to lore, this
is what
the
peepers are for. So I harvested a peeper fresh out of an alien vent and put it in the tank.
Within 10
minutes all signs of infection were gone. Idk about y'all, but this makes me ecstatic. This kind
of
attention to detail is why I love this game |
infected fish spread the disease in fish tanks, peepers carrying enzyme 42 can heal them. |
if an infected fish can spread the disease , can a peeper carrying enzyme 42 heal the fish ?
according
to
lore , this is what the peepers are for . |
if an infected fish can spread the disease , can a peeper carrying enzyme 42 heal the fish ? i
harvested
a
peeper fresh out of an alien vent and put it in the tank . |
Can a peeper carry enzyme 42 heal the fish? |
This game makes me happy. |
If an infected fish can spread the disease in your inventory you ca n't tell whether or not they
're
infected . This is what the peepers are for . I love it . |
| We have a great relationship, but we both live with our parents. I am in full time graduate
school and I
have extremely limited income, not really enough to support myself alone however, I could take
out
additional student loans should I want to move out of my parent's house. I finish up school in
about a
year.
He also lives at home and says he's not at the financial place to move out right now. I know
that the
reality is, we could swing it and we would be totally fine. When I bring up moving out together,
he is
enthusiastic and excited to a point. But if we actually ever have a conversation about exactly
when that
might happen, he gets freaked out and anxious. He doesn't want to talk about it anymore. He
tells me
that he
was hoping to live alone for a while, but doesn't foresee that happening. When he does this, it
makes me
think he doesn't want to move forward with me. We're getting into our late 20s. We've talked
about
having a
family. But I don't want to be trying to get married, buy a new house, move, be pregnant, and
have an
infant
in a short period of time. He talks about wanting all of these things as well, but he seems so
afraid to
make any steps toward it. I could really use some advice on how to handle this |
My boyfriend seems very apprehensive toward taking the next step in our relationship despite
making it
clear
that he does want a long term relationship with me. |
how do n't talk about it when we bring up moving out together ? when i bring up moving out
together , he
is
enthusiastic and excited to a point . |
he does n't want to talk about it , he is excited to a point of moving out together . what to
handle
this ?
edit : thanks for the help . |
Boyfriend doesn't want to move forward with me. |
I want to move out of my parents' house, boyfriend doesn't. |
I want to move out of my parent 's house , but I do n't want to be trying to get married , be
pregnant ,
and
have an infant in a short period of time . |
| Hey Reddit, would really love your help in decipher this girl I'm seeing. I met her a few weeks
ago and
we
have been texting everyday. Even though it's only been a few weeks, I saw her almost daily for
the past
week
and I really enjoy spending time with her. At first she was very flirty and replied very
quickly, then
her
messages weren't as flirty as before, and slowly it took longer for her to respond, and then it
became a
few
word responses, and then no response. Classic fade right? I called her out on it and she said
she really
likes me but she's just really busy. She also said she's bad at texting and that our schedules
are the
complete opposite so it's hard. So I asked her if we should just go our separate ways since it
doesn't
seem
like it's working out, or if we should see if we can work with each other's schedule. She said
she
doesn't
know what she wants to do. So I said she can think about it and get back to me whenever she's
free.
Which
she replied that she's out at the moment and to give her a bit, and she said she wouldn't ghost
me. It's
been 2 days and I haven't heard back from her. She still looks at my snaps and everything. I'm
not sure
what
to do here, do I just move on? I should also mention that in person, she's super affectionate
and
touchy,
completely different from how shes been texting me lately |
Girl I'm seeing is affectionate in person but has gotten cold in texts. Haven't heard back from
her in 2
days even though she said she wouldn't ghost me I trust her. Not sure what to do. |
i 'm not sure what to do here , do i just move on ? edit : i 'm not heard back from her , but i
do n't
know
what to do . |
i have n't heard back from her , but i 'm not sure what to do , do i move on ? edit : thanks for
all the
help ! |
Girl I've been texting for a few weeks suddenly stops talking to me, and I'm not sure what to
do. |
Girl I've been seeing for a few weeks suddenly stopped talking to me. |
I met her a few weeks ago and she said she does n't know what she wants to do . I 'm not sure
what to do
,
do I move on ? |
| I don’t know about you guys, but when I was younger, comic books were a guilty pleasure. I read
them at
home, away from my friends, because I was a self conscious pre-teen who knew that reading comics
was
somewhat looked down upon. If I could go back in time and tell my younger self that a movie
adapting
Infinity Gauntlet would would be one if the highest grossing movies of all time, that the likes
of Iron
ManDr.StrangeVision would be household names, that an entire theater of movie goers would erupt
into
applause at the arrival of THOR - I would think I was crazy. And yet, Marvel has done it. They
have
taken
this secret pleasure of mine and transformed it in such a way that everybody else GETS IT. The
joy of
comics
that I could never put into words is now an experience the general population not only
understands, but
also
feels. And they did it all without comprising the spirit of the source material. This might
sound cheesy
-
but I’m not sure I can’t thank them enough for what they’ve done with the MCU. This something
ten year
old
me could only dream of. I don’t care if the MCU starts to tank in quality after the next
Avengers movie
-
scratch that, I DO care, but even if it happens I can treasure what they’ve already given me
|
The MCU is god damn treasure. |
i do n't know about you guys , but i ca n't thank them enough for what they 've done with the
mcu .
comic
books were a guilty pleasure . |
i do n't know about you guys , but i 'm not sure if i was younger , comic books , comic books ,
comic
books
, guilty pleasure . |
Marvel has done it all without the spirit of the source material. |
I read comics when I was a kid, and now I love them. |
I do n’t care if the MCU starts to tank in quality after the next Avengers movie - scratch that
, even
if it
happens I can treasure what they ’ve already given me . |
| I apologize for the long and slightly confusing question. I'm struggling with thinking I can
find
someone
who checks every box as well as my ex. A big part of it was that I don't really meet new people
that
often -
at least people I can be myself with. I don't feel at home around anyone. There are parts of me
I have
to
retract with my best friends and my parents - whereas with my ex I felt 100 at home. I've never
connected
with someone the way I did with her, every single aspect of our lives matched, and I feel lost
around
other
people. I feel like I'm losing who I am because I can't express my thoughts, my interests, even
general
conversation. I'm scared I won't be able to find someone who made me feel home the way she did.
I'm
wondering if anyone else felt like this, and if you just came to the realization that there are
certain
parts of you that won't exist with anyone else - if you had to settle with another person in
certain
aspects. I don't mean settle as a negative thing towards your significant other either, I just
mean to
ask
if you had to realize that certain parts of yourself in your old relationship will never be seen
again
|
After losing someone you thought was the one, do you feel like a certain part of you had to
settle to be
happy with someone else? |
i 'm scared i wo n't be able to find someone who made me feel home the way she did and settle
with
another
person in certain aspects . parts of you that wo n't exist . |
if you just came to the realization that there are certain parts of you that made me feel home
the way
she
did n't exist with anyone else felt home . |
I'm not sure if I can find someone who checks every box as well as my ex. |
I don't feel connected with anyone around me, and I don't know why. |
I can find someone who checks every box as well as my ex . I do n't feel at home around anyone
else - if
you
had to settle with another person in certain aspects . |
| After we start dating, she moved to my apartment and since then we got used to do house chores
together
but
now we split the chores half between each other in our minds, it's becoming quite problematic.
There is
no
specific job for each of us so, when I do something, I expect her to do the next thing naturally
but I
have
to say it clearly each time. Or when I don't want to cook tonight, I leave her hungry too,
ending up
either
eating cheap food or buying it and that makes it my fault. More than those actscleaning or
cooking the
thought are the most tiring. Thinking about how much I have done and it's her turn now, she
should do
this
but I don't want to act like a mother at the same time, she should know this without me saying,
etc.
Worst
part is when the fresh food rots |
We want to split house chores between us halfhalf but we can't put this in a satisfying system
for us
and we
often argue about this. |
do n't want to act like a mother at the same time , but it 's her turn now . do n't know what to
do ,
and do
n't do it . |
she should n't want to act like a mother at the same time . thinking about how much i have done
and it
's
her turn now , i do n't know how to do it . |
I don't want to act like a mother at the same time. |
Girlfriend moved in with me and I don't know how to act. |
I do n't want to act like a mother at the same time , she should know how much I have done and
it makes
it
my fault . What should I do ? |
| I said something of this effect to my husband. To me, it's something in the way she speaks.
While
Dolores
says her own things, they tend to still be dreamy and coded. Much like her old character, except
now
extremely dark. Maeve however, sounds more independent when she speaks. Less programmed words,
more her
own
thoughts. Idk if I'm explaining this right from what's in my head. Lol |
maeve is the only fully sentient being, and i feel this way because of the way she speaks. |
it 's something in the way she speaks . while dolores says her own things , they tend to still
be dreamy
and
coded , maeve is independent , maeve maeve . |
sounds more independent when she 's something in the way she tend to still be dreamy and coded .
dolores
says her own things , they 's dolores maeve . |
Maeve sounds more independent when she speaks. |
Dolores speaks in her own way. |
says her own things , they tend to still be dreamy and coded . Idk if I 'm explaining this right
from
what
's in my head . Edit : I do n't know if this is a good idea . |
| There is a girl i like,we are classmate and lab mates during our 4 year course in college,so we
used to
talk
a lot in labs,sometimes in class.we both had different groups of friends.We both don't have
common
interest.We also have society standard gap.As our course come to an end,i started developing
feelings
for
her. Few months back i told her about my feelings and i knew she was not into me,so i asked if
we would
be
friends,She said obviously we will be friends.Then we started talking more and more it hurt
seeing her
everywhere.We only talk on social media or when we are in college,we both don't leave in college
hostels.the
thing is this is affecting my life,i can't concentrate on my upcoming preparations. knowing that
college
is
coming to an end and we wont talk after that.I just keep thinking about that and it gives me
headache
most
of the day.my friendsall single btw do nothing but tease me.i just want it to end.I'm open to
suggestions
|
there is a girl i like i told her,we didn't had future so i asked her to stay friends,friends
give
occasional advice but tease me but it hurts.asking for next move. |
i ca n't concentrate on my upcoming preparations . i want it to end . college is coming to an
end and we
wont talk after we wont concentrate on my life . |
ca n't concentrate on my upcoming preparations , i ca n't talk after that i wont want it to end
and we
are
coming to an end of college is affecting my life . |
I have a crush on a girl i like,we both don't leave in college hostels |
I like a girl,she likes me back,but i can't concentrate on my life. |
I started developing feelings for a girl i like , we both do n't have common interest . We only
talk on
social media or when we are in college , i ca n't talk after that |
| I had her for like 8 games before giving up, in at least half she was in my starting hand after
mulligan. In
one I mulliganed her away and then drew her on my turn. I also realized while doing it that the
random
druid
spells you get are so shitty that even if they draw her being able to capitalize was basically
impossible
|
even in a game mode encouraging you to put shitty minions in your deck she is still too shitty.
|
the druid spells you get are shitty that even if they draw her being able to capitalize was
basically
impossible . in one i mulliganed her away and then drew her on my turn . |
the random druid spells you get are so shitty that even if they draw her on my turn and then
drew her
being
able to capitalize was basically impossible . |
I had her for 8 games before giving up. |
Don't give up on her. |
the random druid spells you get are so shitty that even if they draw her being able to
capitalize on my
starting hand after she was in my turn and I did it . |
| Hey Weddit I have a question about the best way to approach dress shopping. My plan is to use my
mother's
vintage dress but it needs to get altered updated etc. I have a pretty clear idea of what I
think I want
it
to look like Essentially this designer dress with only a silk skirt, not lace overlay. However,
I want
to
try on wedding dresses first to confirm this is the style I want before my aunt \a seamstress\
starts
making
my dress this fall \she lives in another country and we're paying for her to stay with my
parents for a
few
weeks to do this job as a gift - I'm beyond excited. But I'm not sure if I should go to a sample
rack
store
and try on things that look like this, or search for specific gowns to try on at designer bridal
stores.
Pro
of designer bridal store I get to research exactly what dresses I want to try on and look for
stores
that
carry these, potentially more champagne Pro of sample rack store less sales pressure,
potentially more
casual event so it's less stressful? In both cases I don't plan on buying anything, but I do
want to try
on
a few similar styles to help solidify my choice. Have any of you done this before? What is the
best way
to
go dress shopping and know you won't be buying a dress? Does it really not matter where I go? If
it
helps I
fluctuate between street sizes 2-6 so I think I could get an idea for what I want based on
sample sizes
|
If I'm just going to a store to try on dresses to essentially make one myself what is the best
way to do
that? |
what is the best way to go to a sample rack store , or search for specific gowns to try on at
designer
bridal stores ? dress shopping and know you wo n't be buying a dress . |
what is the best way to go to a sample rack store and try on at designer bridal stores ? i 'm
not sure
if i
'm buying a dress ? |
I want to try on wedding dresses first, but I'm not sure if I should go to a sample rack store
or look
for
specific gowns that carry these. |
I want to dress like a vintage dress but I don't know how to go about it. |
What is the best way to go dress shopping and know you wo n't be buying a dress ? Does it really
not
matter
where I want to try on at designer bridal stores ? |
| Lets say, for example, I want a PC being pulled off the side of a cliff by a creature hiding
behind the
edge. I'll then first usually ask the player how close they are to the edge before asking them
to make a
dexstr save against the creature's attack roll, but one of my players has become suspicious of
me and is
onto my shit not the first time I would pull something like that and will always very carefully
consider
such a question and will almost always pick the safest option, kind of meta-gaming, but still
fair. It
also
ruins the surprise. But I still want to maintain his agency and not just simply tell for him
that he
stood
near the edge, because the player clearly did not enjoy that when I tried doing it once |
Does anyone have ideas on how to avoid players catching on, when asking for information required
to
spring
traps or surprises? |
i still want to maintain his agency , but he stood near the edge , kind of meta-gaming ,
meta-gaming
save
against the creature 's attack roll , but one of my players has become suspicious of me and is
onto my
shit
. |
i still want to maintain his agency and not just tell for him to make a dexstr save against the
creature
's
attack roll , but i tried doing it . |
I want to keep my players agency. |
I want to be able to tell the player how close they are to the edge, but I also want to keep it
fair.
|
PC being pulled off the side of a cliff by asking them to make a dexstr save against the
creature 's
attack
roll , but one of my players has become suspicious of me . |
| In Infinity war Hulk refused to come out after he was defeated by Thanos. Some say that it is
due to the
fact that he was defeated so easily by Thanos but to me the reason seems to be that Hulk did not
win a
fight
in the MCU for a long time. And now he is afraid to fight anyone, not just Thanos. In the first
Avengers
movie Hulk was the strongest Avenger. Him simply arriving won the battle for New York. One punch
was
enough
to kill the biggest monster, a Leviathan. Loki was defeated effortlessly by Hulk. He was the one
who
save
Stark. Hulk was the strongest there is. Hulk was constantly beaten starting from Avengers 2. He
lost
against
Stark when he was at the angriest and probably strongest ever. Then Vision is introduced. An
Avenger
that
Hulk would never be able to defeat due to the phasing ability. He managed to break some Ultron
bots but
every Avenger has done the same in that fight. After defeating Ultron Hulk left the planet where
he was
no
longer the strongest or essential. In Ragnarok first Hulk lost to Thor and then he has seen
Hela. The
one
who destroyed Thor's hammer that Hulk could not even pick up and probably the first enemy that
could
actually kill the incredible Hulk. And in Infinity War Hulk was beaten by Thanos like a child.
Hulk has
not
won a meaningful fight since the original Avengers movie in 2012. At this point Hulk just isn't
strong
enough to make a difference anymore and simple refuse to come out. He is not the strongest
avenger
anymore.
Thor, Iron Man, Vision, Dr Strange and probably Wanda are more powerful than him. While everyone
gets
stronger, Hulk stays the same. Unless something changes he will continue being weaker than
needed. I
think
that the next time Hulk comes out he needs to trust Banner more and he needs to be stronger.
Because at
this
point nothing would have changed if the stronger than an average avenger Hulk was helping on
earth |
MCU started having a power creep and the Hulk is the biggest loser. He is no longer the
strongest
Avenger.
He has not won a meaningful fight for years. Because of this he refuses to come out. And if he
did he
would
not make any difference. |
i think that the next time hulk comes out he needs to be stronger . in infinity war hulk refused
to come
out
after he was defeated by thanos . |
the next time hulk refused to trust banner more and he needs to trust banner hulk . i think that
the
hulk
comes out after he was defeated by thanos war hulk . in infinity war hulk war thanos . |
Hulk is not the strongest avenger anymore. |
In Infinity War Thanos was defeated by Thanos. |
Hulk did not win a fight in the MCU for a long time . He lost against Stark when he was defeated
by
Thanos .
He is afraid to fight Banner more and he needs to be stronger . |
| Addiction is a very complex process. We know that drug use has a strong association with
psychological
trauma, it is commonly said to be used as a coping mechanism for dealing with issues too
difficult to
face
in real life. The substance of addiction, just like any other possible cause of addiction
gambling,
masturbation etc., changes the individuals neural pathways so that dopamine release is not
possible
without
doing whatever they are addicted to. So when heroin users go clean, they are essentially
rewiring their
neural pathways so that dopamine release isn't dependant on the drug. Hence why withdrawal is
actually a
thing, you are essentially starving your body of dopamine. But can you see the flaw? The reason
they go
back
is because the underlying problems havent been addressed and dealt with appropriately i.e. why
did they
take
the drug in the first place?. You can think of their addiction simply by saying that a user
deems facing
and
fixing the issues associated with their stressors to be greater than the negative consequences
that come
with drug useaddiction. This is why psychologists are heavily involved with addicts, they are
able to
address this aspect of addiction. This whole thing gets complicated when discussing the added
implications
of peer pressure |
going clean doesn't always address the underlying stressors leading to drug use |
why did they take the drug in the first place ? and addiction is n't dependant on the drug ,
they are
essentially rewiring their neural pathways so that dopamine release is complex process . |
why did they take the drug in the first place ? addiction is a very complex process . dopamine
release
is
n't dependant on the drug , they are rewiring their neural pathways . |
Addiction is a very complex process. |
Addiction is a complex process that requires a lot of work. |
dopamine release is not possible without doing whatever they take the drug in the first place .
This is
why
withdrawal are heavily involved with addicts , they are able to address this aspect of addiction
. |
| I just graduated. Yes, we do. Most 10th graders do not, because you have to be 16 years old and
pass the
drivers education course. That’s your permit. Then, you have a mandatory 40 hours you have to
drive with
a
guardian and a 900 PM curfew before you can get a license. License is full permission, permit is
not. In
America, public transportation is either extremely expensive or unavailable. Therefore, we’re
taught how
to
drive earlier than, say, Europe, because we CAN’T get anywhere without a car. Teenagers make
dumb
decisions,
which sometimes translates into driving, but I’ve seen some teenagers who actually drive better
than
their
parents |
Teenagers can drive from 16 onward. Some of them drive like idiots, but not all of them. |
we 're taught how to drive earlier than , because we ca n't get anywhere without a car .
therefore , we
have
to be 16 years old and pass the drivers education course . |
most 10th graders are taught how to drive earlier than , say , because we ca n't get anywhere
without a
car
, old and pass the drivers education course . |
Yes, we do, but we do not. |
Yes, we do, but it’s expensive. |
Yes , you have to drive with a guardian and a 900 PM curfew before you can get a license .
License is
full
permission , and public transportation is either extremely expensive . |
| My ex broke up with me at the end of February on good terms — He needed to figure out what he
wanted
with
his life, and I was becoming so dependant and reliant on him for happiness and moral support,
etc. I
moved
out of our place in March. We didn’t speak for a whole month mostly due to me cutting off
contact and
travelling for work. We started talking again mid April, and the last two weeks we’ve been
“hanging out”
with each other 3-4 times and I’ve been sleeping over at our place. Honestly, it's basically
like we're
together. He treats me so well, and our strengths mesh with each other's weaknesses. He still
says he
loves
me. The only difference is we have no title he refers to me as his ex-gf, and the space caused
us to
have
more respect and patience for each other. Neither of us have brought up the relationship nor
have
brought up
the definition of what we are. He has a huge certification exam for his career on June 1st that
I know
is a
huge part of why he broke up with me because he needed space to just focus on that. I’m mostly
scared
that
if I do bring it up, I would ruin whatever it is that we have now. But at the same time, I just
want to
know
if this is going to lead to commitment or if I’m wasting my time hoping it will |
My ex and I are hanging out again after breaking up months ago. It’s like we never even broke
up, but we
don’t have that title anymore and he refers to me as his exgf but he still tells me he loves me.
Am I
wasting my time or will he come around? |
i want to know if this is going to lead to commitment or if i 'm wasting my time hoping it will
be a
lead to
commitment or commitment . |
if i 'm wasting my time hoping it will lead to commitment or if i bring it up , i would like to
know if
this
is a same time . |
My ex broke up with me at the end of February on good terms, and I’m not sure if I should bring
it up.
|
My ex broke up with me because he needed to figure out what he wanted out of his life, and I
don’t know
if
I’m wasting my time. |
ex broke up with me at the end of February on good terms . I want to know if this is going to
lead to
commitment or if I ’m wasting my time . |
| Don't get me wrong - I love the Switch. I think it's everything the WiiU should've been and
more. I like
that they've got a lot of non-typical Nintendo games coming out for it too, specifically
Nintendo
themselves
are cited as requesting more violent titles. Nintendo never allowed violent games. It seems that
isn't
such
a good policy if you want to stay in business. Mario Kart 8 - FANTASTIC game. Nintendo did an
awesome
job on
this game. I love that the technology allows for updating a game if bugs are found or to add
content -
all
the reasons games can be updatable but if I gotta download the entire game, there should be a
single
entitlement of the game with the card, then I shouldn't have to insert it again. I bought it,
let me
play
it. I conjecture that Nintendo would say that this protection is for piracy control reasons -
they don't
want you to be able to buy one game and install it on 2^8 Switches so you and your entire clan
can play
on
one 59.99 purchase. That argument is made moot by the proof that the Switch now requires a
hardware fix
to
patch an exploit It won't be long now until new firmware comes out and you can install the
entire Switch
catalog on a few 200GB MicroSD cards. I really do dig the Switch. The built-in screen seems to
be high
quality. The controllers are solid. My favorite is the Pro controller. Graphics are well
rendered and I
haven't picked up any glitches since I started playing it. Sorry if my original comment came off
like I
was
dissing the Switch. I just tend not to favor anti-consumer policies |
I like the switch but hate capitalism. |
i think it 's everything the wiiu should be and more . nintendo is n't such a good policy if you
want
you to
be able to buy one game . |
it 's not a good policy if you want to stay in business and install it on 2 ^ 8 switches so you
do n't
want
you to be able to buy it . |
I love the Switch, but I don't like anti-consumer policies. |
Don't get me wrong, I love the Switch. |
Nintendo never allowed violent games because they do n't want you to be able to buy one game and
install
it
on 2 ^ 8 Switches so you can install the entire game . |
| I'm afraid I don't have much to offer to you, just wanted to say that I think you may have cut
him too
soon.
I read somewhere, Barbara Woodhouse I think, that dogs should be allowed to get a bit older. I
was
mainly
concerned about my female Australian Shepherd, my mom had got 2 of them, one for me and one for
my dad.
I
let mine have 2 litters, they were awesome and it made momdog even more awesome. My dad had his
cut
around 6
or 8 months I don't really recall exactly and it kind of ruined him. He never really grew up,
his whole
life
he acted like a whipped puppy, and I know my dad never hit him, pops wasn't like that |
let the dog mature before spaying, they need the full run of hormones to grow up properly. .
|
i 'm afraid i do n't have much to offer to get a bit older , but dogs should be allowed to get
cut him
too
soon . i think you may have cut him too soon . |
afraid i do n't have cut him too soon , barbara woodhouse i think you may have cut him too soon
, just
wanted to get a bit older . |
I think you may have cut him too soon. |
I don't have much to offer you, but I think you might be too soon to cut him. |
I 'm afraid I do n't have much to offer to you , just wanted to say that dogs should be allowed
to get a
bit
older . My dad never hit him . |
| I slept with one girl since coming to America. She is the first girl I ever slept with.
Unfortunately, I
fell asleep during sex and she said that I’m a bad kisser and bad in bed, so she refused to meet
up for
a
second date. I saw her walking and holding hands with another guy. She told me this is her new
boyfriend
. I
feel really hurt. I had a great time with this girl, besides my lack of performance in bed. I
enjoyed
playing Overcooked and Call of Duty with her on PS4. I really wanted her to be my girlfriend,
but she
turned
me down How do I get over her? Is being a bad kisser or bad in bed really harming your chances
of a
relationship? I thought we could’ve learned and grown together. She did also say that since I’m
a
foreign
student, there are cultural differences. What should I do |
The girl I slept with started dating another guy. How do I get over her? |
i really want her to be my girlfriend , but she turned me down how do i get over her ? is being
a bad
kisser
or bad in bed ? |
she turned me down how do i get over her , but she 's the first girl i ever slept with her
girlfriend ,
she
is being a bad kisser or bad in bed . |
Slept with a girl, she said I’m a bad kisser and bad in bed. How do I get over her? |
Slept with one girl, she slept with another. What should I do? |
slept with a girl , she refused to meet up for a second date . She turned me down How do I get
over her
? Is
being a bad kisser or bad in bed really harming your chances of a relationship ? |
| I would consider yourself lucky he found a new tenant and didn’t make you pay to break your
lease. I’m
also
in Texas and our landlord agreed to the same thing if he could find a new renter. We let him
know we
were
looking for a house and he even rented it at a higher rent. But we still broke the rental
agreement we
signed. And he kept our entire deposit a whole month’s rent in exchange for us breaking the
lease. Did
your
lease state the penalties that would happen if you broke your lease early? Normally there are
fees
associated with that. I would count yourself lucky that he only kept the deposit and didn’t
charge you
for
breaking the lease |
move on before you find yourself owing more money. |
did n't make you pay to break your lease early , penalties associated with your lease state the
penalties
that would happen if you broke your lease early . penalties associated with that . |
broke your lease , did n't make you pay to break your lease the penalties and broke your lease
the lease
state the lease state lease lease lease lease tenant . |
Don’t break your lease early. |
I would consider yourself lucky. |
landlord found a new tenant and did n’t make you pay to break your lease . Did your lease state
the
penalties that would happen if you broke your lease early ? edit : spelling |
| The problem may not be nationalism, but the rise of nationalism does signal bad times coming for
the
continent of Europe, because the aim of preserving a certain version of a culture comes with
suppression
of
what is new or other, which causes conflict, which in Europe usually leads to war if such
conflicts
become
popular enough and don't have to do with soccer. So while nationalism the ideal may not be bad,
its rise
certainly is. The last few times this happened, Europe went through the Seven Years' War, WWI,
and WWII,
some of the worst - and certainly most widespread - wars in the history of humanity |
as a philosophy you're right, but in practice nationalism tends to go with a whole bunch of
not-so-great
war-causing things. |
nationalism the ideal may not be bad , but it 's rise . nationalism is the last few times this
happened
,
europe was the seven years ' war . |
while nationalism the ideal may not be bad , its rise certainly is n't wars in the seven years '
war .
europe went through the seven years war . |
Nationalism does signal bad times coming for the continent of Europe. |
It's not nationalism, it's nationalism. |
The problem may not be nationalism , but the rise does signal bad times coming for the continent
of
Europe ,
which causes conflict , and do n't have to do with soccer . |
| I recently bought an S8 U.S. Unlocked Version a couple months ago and, like the terrible phone
owner I
am,
broke it. I live in Mexico, and would really like to get the water resistance back. Best Buy has
a
promise
that they give you the phone back just like new, but Samsung Certified centers in Mexico don't
fix U.S.
phones, so I gotta go the U.S. to fix it for a week, that's about how long they take. But I was
wondering if
anybody knew if I could ship it to have it fixed without having to actually go there the path
has become
slightly dangerous recently |
Got a US phone and I'm in Mexico, broke it, can't get it fixed here, too dangerous to go to the
US, I
want
to mail it for repairs. |
if i could ship it to have to actually go there the path has become slightly dangerous . but i
was
wondering
if anybody knew if i ship ship ship . |
if i could ship it to have it fixed without having to actually go there the path has become
slightly
dangerous recently . i live in mexico , and would really like to get the water resistance back .
|
Can I ship my S8 U.S. to fix it? |
Bought a U.S. S8, broke it, want to get it back. |
I bought an S8 U.S. Unlocked and want to know if I could ship it to have it fixed without having
to
actually
go there the path has become slightly dangerous recently . |
| I hold ENG since Q4 last year and it’s my second largest holding and I am gunning to run
masternodes for
them. As mentioned by many posters already, ENG team is non-hype non-shill and is focused on
their data
privacy solution. The only FUD in recently weeks was when around 3 to 4 weeks ago, a highly
hyped and
shilled coin in Cryptocurrency Reddit with a classic Moonkid CEO and paid shill team suddenly
came up
with a
“privacy solution” and members of that community went into ENG telegram to bait the ENG team and
community
with abuse and sarcasms. ENG team handled it very well and professionally. One remark by a ENG
team
member
during that episode has stayed with me always “if you cannot build something without tearing
others
down,
you probably don’t have too much faith in your technology” in response to that token team and
community
tearing and criticizing everything from ETH to whatever they deem as a threat |
team focused on technology with strong use case. Non hype non shill. You need patience to hold
this.
|
eng team is focused on their data privacy solution and members of that community with abuse and
sarcasms
.
eng team is when around 3 to 4 weeks ago . |
eng team is focused on 3 to 4 weeks ago , paid shill team to bait the eng team suddenly came up
with a
classic moonkid coin in cryptocurrency reddit . |
I hold ENG since Q4 and it’s my second largest hold. |
Don’t be so quick to judge. |
One remark by a ENG team member during that episode has stayed with me always “ if you can not
build
something without tearing others down , do n’t have too much faith in response to that token
team and
community tearing everything from ETH to whatever they deem as a threat . |
| When I was in elementary school there were rumors that a Satanic Cult operated in the woods
behind the
school. The forest was pretty shady, because homeless people lived in it, and local teenagers
get up to
shenanigans like burning down the wooden beam bridges. Because of this most parents told their
kids to
stay
away from the woods, and most kids were afraid to go into the woods. Kids at the school started
saying
that
the Satanic cult skinned stray cats alive and sacrificed people they caught wandering in the
woods at
night.
One day someone found a satanic summoning circle in a clearing, with the parts of baby dolls cut
up and
hung
in the trees, covered in blood. Police were called, and it turned out that the blood was fake
but they
never
figured out who did it. Recently I found out that a photography student who had gone to my high
school
years
prior had created it. He set it up for a photography shoot. He had taken pictures during the
night, and
had
planned to go back in the morning to clean it up, but before he got around to it the police had
already
arrived and he decided it wasn't worth the hassle |
People thought there was evidence of a Satanic cult in the woods behind my elementary school,
but it was
really just edgy artwork. |
a satanic cult operated in the woods behind the school . satanic summoning circle in a clearing
, with
the
parts of baby dolls cut up and hung in the trees , covered in blood . |
a satanic cult operated in the woods behind the school , with the parts of baby dolls cut up and
hung in
the
trees , covered in blood and baby dolls . |
Saw a satanic summoning circle in the woods behind my high school years prior. |
Satanic cult in the woods in elementary school |
I found out that a photography student who had gone to my high school years prior to clean it up
, and
it
was n't worth the hassle . Police were called . |